Links and Software

Monitoring Software

Spectorsoft
Spectorsoft is a monitoring software that we frequently recommend for couples who are trying to establish safety, accountability, and an open door in their relationship. Deception is an integral part of betrayal; therefore, it is helpful to provide ways for the betrayed partner to know they can begin to believe their mate. Spectorsoft acts much like a surveillance camera, taking a picture of the computer monitor as frequently as once a second (you set the frequency). The software also includes the ability to block specific websites, activities (such as chatting), or internet access, which can be helpful for an individual who is addicted to pornography or chatting. The software is easy to use with VCR-like controls and can be downloaded online or a CD-rom can be delivered.

www.spectorsoft.com

Other Sites

There are also other websites with useful and hopeful information for those dealing with not just marriage crises and sexual sin but also growth in the Christian life. Here are some of our recommendations:

www.heartlight.com
www.familylife.com
www.focusonthefamily.com
www.aftertheaffair.net
www.hopeinmarriage.org
www.dearpeggy.com
www.growthtrac.com
www.marriagemissions.com