For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How to Survive Infidelity 304 Resources Type Title Posted The Fantasyland of an Affair 8/24/2022 Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022 Q&A Is It Strange for the Unfaithful to Have Depression? 8/03/2022 Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 7/20/2022 Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership? 7/07/2022 Q&A Am I Just Playing the Victim to Reduce My Guilt? 7/01/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022 Q&A How Do I Respond to the Betrayed’s Triggers When It’s Affecting My Mental Health Now? 6/14/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 6/08/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It 6/01/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5/25/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? 5/18/2022 Wanting to Be Wanted 5/04/2022 Q&A Why Can’t I Give My Spouse Full Disclosure? 4/20/2022 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Discuss the Questions That Most Wayward Spouses Get from the Betrayed? 4/20/2022 Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure When My Infidelity Was So Long Ago and I Can’t Remember All the Details? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Should I as a Wayward Spouse Approach My Spouse’s Continual Desire for Reassurance? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Do I Emotionally Connect with Someone Who Treats Me This Way? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Long Does It Take for Desire for My Mate to Return after Severing Ties with My Affair Partners? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Long Should I Accept and Validate His Exaggerated Reactions as a Result of My Previously Reckless Behaviors? 2/17/2022 Q&A What Do We Do When We Both Cheated, If My Betrayal Was ‘Worse’ than His? 1/18/2022 Q&A Will the Betrayed’s Irritability Ever Go Away? 1/18/2022 Q&A What Do I Do When the Betrayed Spouse Shuts Me Out and Doesn’t Want to Talk about His Pain, Unless Forced? 1/18/2022 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 1/12/2022 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand the Importance of Knowing the ‘Why’ and Also How to Can I Help Him See That It’s Not an Excuse or Blaming Anything? 12/17/2021 Social Shame: Surviving Infidelity Isn’t Enough 12/08/2021 Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 12/01/2021 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 11/24/2021 Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Wife with Her Depression That Has Escalated Dramatically since Discovery? 11/04/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 4: The Problem With Addictions 11/03/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 3: Do They Have an Addiction? 10/27/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 2: Entrapped or Enchanted 10/20/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 1:The Role of Oxytocin 10/13/2021 Q&A Should I Continue EMS Online on My Own? 10/07/2021 Q&A Will My Husband Love Me Again, the Way He Used To? 7/08/2021 Q&A When My Mate Floods, Why Do I Get Distressed In Turn? 7/08/2021 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Calm After Disclosing the Truth? 6/17/2021 Q&A Are My Good Acts Just More Manipulation? 6/03/2021 Mental Health and Parenting: How to Support Yourself and Your Kids 6/02/2021 How Couples Can Promote Good Mental Health During and After the COVID-19 Pandemic 5/26/2021 Q&A How Do I Love Her through Her Controlling Issues While Still Maintaining My Sanity? 5/25/2021 Q&A What Leads Me to Objectifying Women? 4/22/2021 A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity 4/21/2021 Q&A Should I Continue In My Own Healing In the Hopes She Will Rejoin? 4/13/2021 Q&A What Else Can I Do, Other Than Be Honest and Give Her Space? 4/13/2021 Q&A What Do You Do If You Have a Trigger and It Makes You Think of a New Detail? 3/25/2021 A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering 3/24/2021 Q&A As the Wayward Spouse Will I Ever Fall Back in Love with My Husband? 3/09/2021 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »