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How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 403 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Do You Do If You Have a Trigger and It Makes You Think of a New Detail? 3/25/2021 A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering 3/24/2021 Q&A How do I Let Go of This Painful Reminder? 3/22/2021 Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Productively Handle Contempt and Disgust? 3/11/2021 Q&A Why Does My Wife Not See the Effort and Work It Takes for Me, as the Betrayed, to Stay in the Marriage? 3/11/2021 Q&A What Am I Supposed to Do as the Hurt Spouse Trying to Heal from My Husband’s Hurtful Behavior While Now Navigating My Past? 3/11/2021 Q&A Can You Help You Explain the Difference between Infidelity Trauma or PTSD and Clinical Depression? 3/09/2021 Q&A What Might Be a Better Way to Deal with My Pain? 3/04/2021 Q&A Why Am I So Afraid to Be Happy? 3/04/2021 Q&A Will I Ever Love and Desire My Husband Again? 3/04/2021 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When He’s Still Holding on to Resentment Towards Me and I’m the Betrayed? 2/23/2021 Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions? 1/28/2021 Q&A How Do I Get to the Point That I Feel Good about the Way That I Look? 1/20/2021 Q&A As a Betrayed Spouse, How Do I Work through My Humiliation? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Can I Get These Constant Reminders Out of My Head? 1/14/2021 Q&A Must I Be Completely Finished with the Grieving Task before I Can Move to Forgiveness? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Address My Overwhelming Fear? 11/12/2020 Q&A What Should I Do as the Wayward Spouse When My Spouse Has a Breakdown? 11/12/2020 Q&A Is a Trauma Bond Repairable? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Can I Take Control of My Life So That I Can Forgive and Heal? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is Confusion and Messy Emotions Normal? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Do I Do as the Wayward Spouse When the Truth and Love Exercise Goes Wrong? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Can We Deal with Resentments and Move Forward? 10/05/2020 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Damage of the Internet? 9/22/2020 Q&A My Wife Is Considering a Revenge Affair. What Should I Do? 9/03/2020 Q&A Why Do We Sometimes Ask the Same Questions Repeatedly? 8/13/2020 Q&A What Is It I Should Do to Heal? 8/13/2020 Q&A What Would You Advise Regarding My Living Situation? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Can I Take Control of the Intrusive Thoughts? 8/06/2020 Q&A What More Can I Do to Overcome This Trauma? 7/28/2020 Q&A What Do You Do for the Wayward Spouse's Trauma? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Get Unstuck? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with Triggers and Reminders? 7/09/2020 Q&A When Will the Urge to Snoop End? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Can I Tell If It's the Hurt and Pain or If She Really Wants a Divorce? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Can I Prevent Resentment and Bitterness Forming in My Heart? 6/25/2020 Q&A Could Overwhelming Sadness Be Anger in Disguise? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Do I Explain the Pain I’m Going Through, from the Betrayal Trauma My Husband Caused, to My Children? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Prevent Flashbacks of Photos I Have Seen? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do We Handle Flooding? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Can I Apply What I Learned from a past Traumatic Experience to Deal with the Pain of Reminders in My Marriage Relationship Now? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Can the Wayward Spouse Resolve the Guilt They Have about the Consequences They Caused for the Affair Partner? 6/09/2020 Q&A Approximately How Long Should the Reaction Task Last? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with Flooding When I Feel My Own Emotions Are Overwhelming? 5/28/2020 Q&A Are Intrusive Suicidal Thoughts Common? 5/28/2020 Q&A Can past Depression or PTSD Affect the Ability to Show Empathy? 5/19/2020 Q&A Is Ringing in the Ears Normal? 5/07/2020 Q&A What Is the Process for Dealing with Raw Spots? 4/30/2020 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Husband from Continuously Shutting Down? 4/30/2020 Q&A Will I Ever Feel Special Again? 4/28/2020 Pages« first‹ previous123456789next ›last »