Strength for the Journey with Tony Fetchel

Five Years Later...

 

Five years ago this very weekend, our lives imploded.   As our lives blew up, it would seem life upon life upon life around us would blow up as well.  Before we knew it, our lives were in shambles and we had no idea what was going to happen to us and to our family. 

"Easy"

 

There are always two choices.  Two paths to take.

One is easy.

And its only reward is that it’s easy.

Just Before.....

 

This morning I picked up “Plan B” by Pete Wilson and re-read this account and immediately thought it was pertinent to so many of us.

The masterful C.S. Lewis during his classic The Screwtape Letters, paints a picture of senior demon, Screwtape, educating a junior devil, Wormwood, on how to tempt a human “client.”  In one particular letter Screwtape explains the tactic of using a human’s fatigue during a time of trail to persuade the man to give up:

Little By Little

 

This week will be the 5 year anniversary of “D-Day” for Jodi and I.  For those of you who might be new here, that’s the day that I came home and confessed to my affair to Jodi.  To look at our lives and marriage now, one would never know of the pain and trauma we have experienced.  On the surface, there seems to be little to no residue whatsoever.  God has even begun opening up doors to share our story publicly. 

A Simple Trip To The Grocery Store

 

Only a couple of friends of mine know just how much I hate going to the grocery store.   It’s to the point that I listen to music through head phones to distract me from it.  Last week, I had a moment which opened up my eyes to why I hate the store so much.  

The Pillar, The Power, The Promise

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(33 minutes)

Recently Tony spoke at the Young Adults Service at his home church, Shoreline Christian Church in Austin Texas, where He and Jodi have become volunteer staff members, and are slowly returning to ministry.   This was Tony's first time sharing part of his story at Shoreline and continues to minister there on a weekly basis.  


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Far Away Forgiveness

As I sat down to check my email, I was amazed to see I had received an email from (we’ll call him “Mike”). I had no idea why he was emailing, and after the week I had had, I couldn’t take another difficult and trying situation.  Yet, after opening it, turns out, He was reaching out to me, now living in another country, to forgive me.  He had read my blog and heard a few messages I had preached, and wanted to communicate to me that he no longer had any bitterness in his heart towards me whatsoever.  Keep in mind, this was completely without me pursuing him, or attempting to reach him at any level.

"Do You Know How Hard It Is To Live With You???"

 

I’ll never forget a piece of wisdom my old pastor shared with me one day.  I was in the middle of griping and complaining about my wife Jodi and how she just wasn’t being who I needed her to be.  I was complaining about how difficult she was to be married to, and he was seemingly agreeing with me.  Just then, he stopped, and kinda laughed and said something to me that has stayed with me for almost 10 years. 

"You Will Forgive This Man!"

 

I hadn’t slept all night, and less than 24 hours earlier, I had been fired, threatened, terminated and commanded to leave the church and positions I occupied. 

"You're a Great Dad, But...."

 

It had been just two weeks since my sin and double life had been exposed.  I was in the backyard of my California home, walking around praying, and asking God to help me find a way to save my family.  Within a few minutes, Jodi came outside.  With tears in her eyes, and 6 week old Zackary wrapped in a baby sling around her waist, she said to me words I’ll never, ever forget: 

“You’re a great dad…but I can’t stay married to you just because you're a great dad.” 

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