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Doc
06.06.13
I have always been one to chase “the next big thing” in my life, and assumed that would stop when I married. I did nothing to quiet this desire on my way, just assumed it would go away. This led to a long string of physical affairs and finally culminated in an affair in which I was emotionally entangled, even trapped. Through my wife finding the strength the love me when I didn’t deserve it and with wise counsel, I finally surrendered and was able to break free. My wife and I are more in love and enjoy more intimacy now than ever before, and she and I will both testify that we have been part of a miracle.
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Lucy
06.06.13
My husband had been unfaithful most of our time together, and it was a constant struggle for 10+ years. By the grace of God and with the support of friends and those at Affair Recovery, our marriage has been restored and we are enjoying one another like we never have before. We are a miracle.
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Amanda
09.26.11
I married my husband because he was kind, sensitive, caring, smart and gentle. He was a unique man, not afraid of showing his feelings. He had his faults, like everyone, I was proud of him and very happy to have found him.
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Rachel
09.26.11
My affair started as what I believed was a friendship. My husband and I had some good friends, and some members of their family that we had met a few times had moved back to our state. The husband was out of work, and he had some skills that I thought would be helpful in my business. So, I thought I was helping some family friends.
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Steve
09.26.11
We had been having problems, at least from my perspective, for at least a year before discovery. I had gone to my wife twice to tell her how terrified I was that our marriage was in serious danger. She assured me we were fine and that she still loved me. At the end of March 2010, I ended up in the hospital with a severe case of pneumonia.
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Pier
09.26.11
My affairs involve three affair partners, online chat and sex, pornography and compulsive masturbation. It started with Josephine, a girl I dated in 2003 while in Philippines for work. We had occasional cybersex for a while after I came back but then lost contact. Between 2005 and 2006 I met Debora through a friend of a friend. Then, I met my wife Amanda in April 2006, during a tradeshow in Chicago. She was married, but we liked each other and kept in touch via email. In August 2006, my job transferred me to the United States from Italy. Amanda filed for divorce, and we started dating; but about the same time Debora contacted me online, and we started chatting. About a month later I was back in Italy for a business meeting and saw Debora twice. The first time we kissed, and a day later we had sex. I called Amanda and told her part of the story, and got a promise from my affair partner to keep the rest of the story a secret. After I got back to Chicago, I reconciled with Amanda and ended all communication with my affair partner.
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