My affairs involve three affair partners, online chat and sex, pornography and compulsive masturbation.
It started with Josephine, a girl I dated in 2003 while in Philippines for work. We had occasional cybersex for a while after I came back but then lost contact. Between 2005 and 2006 I met Debora through a friend of a friend. Then, I met my wife Amanda in April 2006, during a tradeshow in Chicago. She was married, but we liked each other and kept in touch via email. In August 2006, my job transferred me to the United States from Italy. Amanda filed for divorce, and we started dating; but about the same time Debora contacted me online, and we started chatting. About a month later I was back in Italy for a business meeting and saw Debora twice. The first time we kissed, and a day later we had sex. I called Amanda and told her part of the story, and got a promise from my affair partner to keep the rest of the story a secret. After I got back to Chicago, I reconciled with Amanda and ended all communication with my affair partner.> read more