I printed the nine signs page and highlighted the parts of each sign that I had seen with my husband and his EA partner and then wrote out in red ink the exact things I knew they had done. Then I gave it to my cheating husband, who only admits that he "called and texted too much" and wouldn't admit that it was even an affair. Even after reading everything, he still won't call it an affair. Dday was late last November, confrontation was Christmas Day, and I have been waiting for 8 months for him to come clean and admit this affair. I am convinced now that it is not going to happen. He doesn't think he did anything wrong, but I have over 53 pages of phone records that indicate otherwise, including texting between the hours of 2:00 am and 5:00 am. Of course, he says they are "just friends" and since they work together, he has to speak to her about stuff at work. ( I guess he needed to know if a package he ordered came in and decided to call her at 2:00 am about it.) This article shows exactly what happens in an EA and at least it validates that I am not crazy or making too much out of what I felt in my gut and what I had seen. Now, 8 months later, I have moved out, am trying to regain some sense of self worth and respect, and have realized that he is too self centered to actually feel any remorse or guilt for what the devastation he caused. I have to take care of me now and he and his EA partner will have to figure out a way to answer to God. I am trying, with a lot of prayer, to move on.
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I printed the nine signs page and highlighted the parts of each sign that I had seen with my husband and his EA partner and then wrote out in red ink the exact things I knew they had done. Then I gave it to my cheating husband, who only admits that he "called and texted too much" and wouldn't admit that it was even an affair. Even after reading everything, he still won't call it an affair. Dday was late last November, confrontation was Christmas Day, and I have been waiting for 8 months for him to come clean and admit this affair. I am convinced now that it is not going to happen. He doesn't think he did anything wrong, but I have over 53 pages of phone records that indicate otherwise, including texting between the hours of 2:00 am and 5:00 am. Of course, he says they are "just friends" and since they work together, he has to speak to her about stuff at work. ( I guess he needed to know if a package he ordered came in and decided to call her at 2:00 am about it.) This article shows exactly what happens in an EA and at least it validates that I am not crazy or making too much out of what I felt in my gut and what I had seen. Now, 8 months later, I have moved out, am trying to regain some sense of self worth and respect, and have realized that he is too self centered to actually feel any remorse or guilt for what the devastation he caused. I have to take care of me now and he and his EA partner will have to figure out a way to answer to God. I am trying, with a lot of prayer, to move on.