Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Recovery Timeline Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected How to Survive Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The 2 Stages of Pain We Started Well, but... Free Resources Type Title Posted Healing After An Affair: Emotional Flooding & Reminders 7/26/2017 Everyone Thought I was Crazy for Staying: Amanda and Kenneth’s Story 7/19/2017 Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help 7/13/2017 Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies 7/6/2017 Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness 6/28/2017 Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment 6/21/2017 Life After Divorce: How the Unfaithful Sees It 6/14/2017 Am I Who They Want? 6/7/2017 Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 5/31/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017 Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 5/17/2017 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/10/2017 Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 5/3/2017 The Paralysis of Ambivalence: Part 2 4/25/2017 The Paralysis of Ambivalence: Part 1 4/19/2017 Ever associated forgiveness with a big price tag? 4/12/2017 Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 3/29/2017 What are the 5 simple and proven steps that will protect your marriage? 3/22/2017 Infidelity Counseling- How Effective Is It? 3/15/2017 The Power of Small Groups 3/8/2017 Anger: Its 6 Roots 3/1/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: Am I Looking at Forgiveness Wrong? 2/28/2017 Is Change Really Possible? 2/22/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Handle the Abrupt Emotional Changes? 2/15/2017 Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 2/15/2017 The Valentine’s Day After Syndrome 2/8/2017 The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 2/1/2017 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 1/25/2017 Should I Get a Divorce? Am I Being Naive? 1/18/2017 Relapse: Why Can't You Stop? 1/12/2017 Stuck? Three Methods to Get Moving 1/4/2017 Michael & Alicia's Mentor Video 12/15/2016 Battling Intrusive Thoughts and Physical Intimacy After Infidelity 12/13/2016 Rekindling Desire After An Affair 12/7/2016 Surviving Infidelity: Are You Looking for an Explanation? 12/1/2016 Bad Advice for Hurt Spouses 11/16/2016 Tweeting Or Cheating? Social Media Affairs And What To Do 11/9/2016 A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering 11/2/2016 The Mystery of Change 10/26/2016 Why Did He Choose Her / Why Did She Choose Him? 10/19/2016 Ever wonder why men cheat and why women cheat? 10/13/2016 Who is the Other Woman? 10/5/2016 The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 9/28/2016 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 9/14/2016 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 9/11/2016 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 9/11/2016 Overcoming Trauma after Infidelity at EMS Weekend, Interviewing an Expert 8/24/2016 Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 8/18/2016 The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful 8/11/2016 previous <12345
