Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Power of Small Groups 270 Resources Type Title Posted I Only Have Eyes for You 8/19/2014 The Seduction of Blame 5/21/2014 Creating Healing Spaces 5/01/2014 Understanding Codependency and Betrayal: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 4/24/2014 Official Rules of Drawings 10/30/2013 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 10/15/2013 What We Learned at EMS Weekend 9/04/2013 Rekindling Desire After Infidelity 6/26/2013 Interview of EMS Online Participants 7/01/2012 6 Steps To Confronting Your Mate About Betrayal 4/03/2012 Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected 7/27/2011 How Many Marriages does Ashley Madison Save? 3/03/2011 Q&A How Do Men Compartmentalize? 8/23/2010 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 3/26/2010 Disclosing the Affair: Do I Tell or Not? 2/24/2010 The Shocking Truth About Trust 1/26/2010 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 8/21/2009 Grace in Recovery 3/09/2008 Anger Management 12/30/2007 Surviving the Holidays: An Interview with Dr. Karen Royer 12/16/2007 Pages« first‹ previous123456
