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Video Q&A Did My Husband Prefer His Affair Partner over Me? 6/18/2020
Video Q&A Can You Explain Compartmentalization in General and in This Type of Situation Specifically? 6/18/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Handle Seeing My Affair Partner in Public? 6/18/2020
Video Q&A Is Overcoming an Affair Similar to Overcoming Alcohol Addiction? 6/18/2020
Text Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 6/17/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Handle Flooding? 6/10/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Help Someone That Won't Come Clean? 6/10/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Move Forward with This Feeling That I'm Not Safe? 6/10/2020
Video Q&A Can You Define What Respect Is from the Male Point of View and Why Males Want Respect from Our Spouses? 6/10/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Is Hard-Hearted and Has Yet to Repent? 6/10/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Apply What I Learned from a past Traumatic Experience to Deal with the Pain of Reminders in My Marriage Relationship Now? 6/10/2020
Video Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 6/10/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Be Empathetic without Allowing My Shame to Cause More Damage? 6/09/2020
Video Q&A Is This Healthy or Are My Concerns Valid? 6/09/2020
Video Q&A What Do Same Sex Encounters Mean? 6/09/2020
Video Q&A How Can the Wayward Spouse Resolve the Guilt They Have about the Consequences They Caused for the Affair Partner? 6/09/2020
Video Q&A What Does Transparency in Marriage Look Like? 6/09/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand It’s Not about Him and His Pain? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Deal with Hurtful Comments and Lies after a Divorce? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Cherish the Positive Family Moments That Happened during the Affair? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Why Has My Husband Re-written Our Marital History? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A At What Point Is Repair Work, Healing, and Reconciliation Attempts Futile? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Recovery during Separation? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Build Trust When I Don't Quite Feel Safe Yet? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Is This a Safe Way of Dealing with This Problem? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A What Kind of Affair Was It? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Accept That His Actions Were Willful and Done without Any Regard of My Feelings? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Ex-husband's Motive? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Is It Possible or Even Wise to Forgive My Spouse? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do Multiple Affairs Affect the Recovery Timeline? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Exactly Does One Transform the Pain? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A What Would Enabling the Affair Look Like? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Why Is My Wayward Husband Having a Difficult Time with 'Why'? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A What Helps the Wayward Spouse Transition from Shame to Empathy? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Start a New Relationship without Fear That This Will Happen Again? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Is There a Difference between Processing Grief and Self-Pity? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Trust My Husband in the Future If Only He and I Know? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Heal When He Still Has to Have Contact with Her Because of Her Job? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Deal with the Grief? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Start Fresh in the Midst of Recovery? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Splitting the Household While Attempting Recovery? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Recover in a Situation like This? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Can You Offer Encouragement for Me during This Season of Recovery? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Now Distinguish between Truth and Deception? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do You Heal from This Level of Betrayal? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Does the Length of the Affair Have Implications for Our Recovery? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Long Do Couples Stay in a State of Ambivalence? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Write a New Story Together? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Is It Too Early to Start to Learn about Ourselves, the Recovery Process, and Grow? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Do I Stop Encouraging My Mate to Participate in Hope for Healing and Quit Communicating with Him? 6/03/2020

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