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Video Q&A Do You Agree with My Counselor? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A What Is the Difference between Setting Boundaries and Judging? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Talking about the Affair? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A Are My Doubts and Feelings Normal? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A Should We Disclose the Affair and Resulting Triggers to Family Members? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A What Should I Do? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A Where Did the Weakness to Have an Affair Come From? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A What Would You Recommend to Continue Our Healing Journey? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A Would It Be a Waste for Us to Attend the EMS Weekend? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A Am I Rushing My Healing Process? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Heartbroken on the D-Day Anniversary? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A I Feel Stuck in the Shame of What I've Done. How Can You Help? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Accept My Husband's Comfort? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A Is It Healthy for the Betrayed to Know Intimate Details about the Affair Partner? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A How Can We Overcome the Pain of Anniversary Dates? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A How Can We Safely Break off the Affair with a Colleague? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Deal with a Charismatic, Controlling, Narcissistic Man? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A What Steps Do You Recommend in Preparation for EMS Weekend? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A When Is the Right Time to Talk about Trust? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A What Do You Recommend for Changing My Thought Pattern around Intrusive Thoughts? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A How Can We Create Safety in Professional Environments? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A What Do I Do about My Husband's Yellow Light Behaviors? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A Why Can't We Talk about the Affair Partner with out the Wayward Spouse Shutting Down? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A Should the Wayward Wife Be Rewarded by Taking My Choice Away from Me Many Years Ago? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Show My Spouse That I'm on the Right Path to Recovery? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A How Do We Recover When the Family Dynamic Has Been Dramatically Affected? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Restoration during Separation? 8/14/2019
Text How to Find Answers 8/14/2019
Text Trauma and Infidelity 8/07/2019
Video Q&A How Do You Know If You’re Acting in Love and Not in an Accusatory Way? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Not Disclose Fully, yet Find Themselves Fully Recommitted after Discovery? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Learn to Enjoy Anything in My Life? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A Which Path Should I Take? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A How Do We Handle Discovery When the Affair Happened So Long Ago? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Process All This in a Healthy Way? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Special Again? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Confronting His Affair Partner? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A What Exactly Does Repair Work Look Like? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A Is His Guilt Truly about the Affair or about Being Caught? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A What Can I Do to Protect My Children? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A Can We Ever Get past This If I Know That I Don't Want to Forgive My Mate? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Continue to Establish Trust? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A Can I Move Forward If I'm Concerned about Honesty? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Convince Myself That My Mate Really Desires Me? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Quit Thinking about My Husband's Affair? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A Do You Have Advice for My Situation? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A Would You Please Help Me Understand? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Break Through? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A Why Am I Being Pulled so Strongly to Act Out When I’m Doing All This Recovery Work? 8/02/2019
Video Q&A Should My Husband Confront His Affair Partner? 8/02/2019

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