All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Power of Small Groups Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 4828 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why Can't I Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Feelings Back for My Husband? 11/21/2018 Q&A Why Is My Mate Holding Back Details? 11/21/2018 Q&A Will Affair Recovery Be Enough for Me to Heal? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Can We Create Safety When We Are Apart? 11/21/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Agree to Renew Our Vows? 11/21/2018 Q&A Should We Disclose to the Affair Partner's Spouse? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Find Empathy? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with the Tension of Seemingly Opposite Suggestions for the Recovery Process? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Understand What They've Done? 11/07/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Wade through My Mate's Ambivalence? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Break My Cycle of Lying? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do We Navigate Forgiveness with outside Parties? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Process My Feelings for the Affair Partner? 11/07/2018 Q&A Am I Shaming My Husband When I Bring up His past Behaviors? 11/07/2018 Q&A At What Point Do I Stop Trying? 11/07/2018 Q&A Will Feelings for the Affair Partner Ever Fade? 11/07/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When the Betrayed Spouse Doesn’t Believe Your Story? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do Sex Addicts Develop a Healthy Sexual Relationship with Their Mate? 11/07/2018 Q&A What Boundaries Can We Set? 11/01/2018 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Deal with Ambivalence? 11/01/2018 Q&A Can We Ever Have Trust Again after All This? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Children Cope? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Can We Restore Our Sexual Intimacy? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Erase the Intrusive Thoughts? 11/01/2018 Q&A Is This a Normal Reaction of Shame and Guilt? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Live with a Spouse That Is Grieving the Affair Partner? 11/01/2018 Q&A What Might Be Holding My Spouse Back? 11/01/2018 Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Safety in My Situation? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Paint a New Picture of Our Marriage? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Move past Their Resentments? 11/01/2018 Q&A Is This a Red Flag? 11/01/2018 Q&A Is It Time to File for an Annulment? 11/01/2018 Q&A Should I Insist That My Husband Disclose the Affair Partner's Identity? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in This Situation? 11/01/2018 Q&A Can Two Simultaneous Traumatic Events Complicate Infidelity Recovery? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle Secrets within My Partner's Family? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Begin to Look at Myself in Recovery? 11/01/2018 Q&A Are There Cases Where You Cannot Forgive and Forget? 11/01/2018 Q&A Should We Separate Due to the Lack of Safety? 11/01/2018 Q&A Could the Affair Be a Result of Addiction? 11/01/2018 Q&A Should We Share Our Story with Our Children? 11/01/2018 Q&A Will Things Ever Get Better for Us? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do We Heal When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Does Depression Affect Infidelity and Recovery? 11/01/2018 Q&A Was My Mate Committed to Me? 11/01/2018 Q&A Should I Disclose More Information for the Sake of the Children? 11/01/2018 Q&A Is It Necessary to Wait until I No Longer Have Feelings for the AP to Reconnect with My Wife? 11/01/2018 Q&A Could We Fail If We Don't Reach Ground Zero? 11/01/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Give Me Full Disclosure? 11/01/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…363738394041424344…next ›last »