All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Power of Small Groups 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 4828 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can I Retrain My Brain to Not Go into Fight or Flight from the Triggers? 11/01/2018 Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful 10/31/2018 Q&A Will the Deep Pain Ever Cease? 10/23/2018 Q&A Should We Keep Talking about the Affair or Move On? 10/23/2018 Q&A Is It Useful to Think about What Could've Happened? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Do We Move past All the Secrets? 10/23/2018 Q&A Am I Co-Dependent? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Can We Set Boundaries with Friends That Aided the Affair? 10/23/2018 Q&A Why Has My Mate Broken My Trust Again? 10/23/2018 Q&A Should We Continue with EMSO If My Mate Won't Break Contact With the Affair Partner? 10/23/2018 Q&A Is ‘Sleep Masturbation’ a Thing? 10/23/2018 Q&A Is Understanding the 'Why' Important for Healing? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Fix What I've Done? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Physical Aspect of the Affair? 10/23/2018 Q&A Is Charm Another Form of Pimping Tenderness? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Can We Safely Parent a Child from the Affair? 10/23/2018 Q&A What Might Be Holding My Partner Back? 10/23/2018 Q&A What Are the Benefits of an Infidelity Specific Therapist? 10/23/2018 Q&A Why Am I Still Struggling with Affection and Intimacy? 10/23/2018 Q&A What Does Living a Life of Recovery Look Like? 10/23/2018 Q&A Should We Separate? 10/23/2018 Q&A Why Does It Seem like My Unfaithful Husband Acts like the Betrayed Spouse? 10/23/2018 Q&A Can Empathy Be Learned? 10/23/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Help Him Truly Get It? 10/23/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Strengthen My Self Image? 10/23/2018 Q&A Will This End? 10/23/2018 Q&A Is There a Better Way to Explain My Pain to My Mate? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Change Our Dynamic during Separation? 10/23/2018 Q&A Am I Crazy for Even Trying to Save the Marriage? 10/23/2018 Q&A Will Feelings for the Affair Partner Come Back If They Are Not Addressed? 10/17/2018 Q&A Do I Have Enough Information to Ever Fully Trust Him Again? 10/17/2018 Q&A What Does 'Working on the Marriage' Look like for the Unfaithful? 10/17/2018 Q&A What Should I Expect from a Recovering Wayward Wife? 10/17/2018 Q&A How Can I Continue to Heal Without My Feelings Being Hijacked by Fear? 10/17/2018 Q&A Can We Recover from His Affair If We Live Ten Hours Apart? 10/17/2018 Q&A How Can I Emotionally Detach from the Affair Partner? 10/17/2018 Q&A How Can I Give My Anger a Healthy Outlet? 10/17/2018 Q&A Should I Be Okay with My Mates Ex-Spouse Staying in Our Home When Family Comes to Visit? 10/17/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What I'm Dealing With? 10/17/2018 Q&A Do You Have Statistics on Relapse? 10/10/2018 Q&A How Do I Forgive What My Mate Has Done? 10/10/2018 Q&A Should I Be Open to Reconciliation? 10/10/2018 Q&A Why Is Unprotected Sex within an Affair so Alluring? 10/10/2018 Q&A How Can My Husband Protect Himself from Grooming Behaviors? 10/10/2018 Q&A Is This a Controlling Behavior? 10/10/2018 Q&A Can I Ever Expect My Mate's Attraction Towards the Affair Partner to End? 10/10/2018 Q&A Am I Paranoid? 10/10/2018 Q&A Is This a Normal Part of Recovery? 10/10/2018 Q&A Can We Survive as a Couple? 10/10/2018 Q&A Why Do You Believe We Are Not Defined as 'Sinners'? 10/10/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…373839404142434445…next ›last »
