All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Power of Small Groups 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 4827 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Long Does It Take to Come out of Limerence? 1/23/2018 Q&A What Boundaries Need to Be in Place When Traveling? 1/23/2018 Q&A Should I Consider Another Separation? 1/23/2018 Q&A I Feel Wrung out, How Do I Move Forward? 1/23/2018 Q&A Are There Affairs That Aren't Limerent Affairs? 1/23/2018 Q&A If My Mate has Lied about the past, Will They Lie about the Present and Future? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Big of a Part Did Alcohol Play in All of This? 1/23/2018 Q&A Why Is His Perspective of Us and of Love Getting Worse? 1/23/2018 Q&A What Do You Suggest When the Unfaithful Spouse Seems Numb? 1/23/2018 Q&A Are We Generating a Pattern of 'Pretend Normal'? 1/23/2018 Q&A Who Do We Tell about the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Get over What I Don't Know? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do You 'Feel' Emotions without Letting Them Control You? 1/22/2018 Q&A Why Do We Choose to Stay with Someone Who Has Wounded Us So Deeply? 1/22/2018 Q&A Why Do I Feel The Way That I Do? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Do Addictions Play into That Sequence of Recovery? 1/22/2018 Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Think about the Affair Partner? 1/22/2018 Q&A Are There Any Tools or Strategies to Help Overcome The ‘Addiction’ of the AP? 1/22/2018 Q&A Do I File for Divorce to Protect Myself and Possibly Wake Her Up? 1/22/2018 Q&A Why Is the Unfaithful Trying to Take Advantage? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome Being Repulsed by My Husband? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Do We Re-establish a Sexual Relationship? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Long Does It Take the Unfaithful to Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Do I Do When There Are No Actions behind the Words? 1/22/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What My Mate Was Thinking? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Should I Do?” 1/22/2018 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Personally Do to Discourage a Persistent AP? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When You Spouse Refuses Help and Wants Divorce? 1/22/2018 Forgiving Infidelity: What Forgiveness Is NOT 1/18/2018 Q&A How Do I, as the Betrayed, Learn to Love My Mate Again? 1/10/2018 Q&A How Can I Assure My Wife That She's the One I Want? 1/10/2018 Q&A Should I Give My Mate Another Chance? 1/10/2018 Q&A How Much Disclosure Is Considered 'Full Disclosure'? 1/10/2018 Q&A Can You Address Different Personalities in Marriage? 1/10/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When the Affair Partner Won't Let Go? 1/10/2018 Q&A Do I Force Him to Get Paternity Test? 1/10/2018 Q&A If Relapse Continues, Does the Effort by the Betrayed Even Matter? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Do I Hang on to My Resolve? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate My Needs in the Marriage? 1/08/2018 Q&A My Mate's Family Also Betrayed Me, How Do We Reconcile? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Do I Show My Mate Grace? 1/08/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Affair Partner That I Don't Love Her? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Forgive Myself for Transmitting My Pain? 1/08/2018 Q&A What Are Signs That Someone Might Relapse? 1/08/2018 Q&A Is It Unreasonable to Expect My Mate to Be Honest about Their Needs? 1/08/2018 Q&A What Can Affair Recovery Do Tell Help a Compulsive Liar? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Do Actions Affect Identity? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Is God Present in Our Struggles? 1/08/2018 Q&A Should I Just Suck It Up? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Surrender Control? 12/20/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…484950515253545556…next ›last »