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After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need.
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Video Q&A How Long Does It Take to Come out of Limerence? 1/23/2018
Video Q&A What Boundaries Need to Be in Place When Traveling? 1/23/2018
Video Q&A Should I Consider Another Separation? 1/23/2018
Video Q&A I Feel Wrung out, How Do I Move Forward? 1/23/2018
Video Q&A Are There Affairs That Aren't Limerent Affairs? 1/23/2018
Video Q&A If My Mate has Lied about the past, Will They Lie about the Present and Future? 1/23/2018
Video Q&A How Big of a Part Did Alcohol Play in All of This? 1/23/2018
Video Q&A Why Is His Perspective of Us and of Love Getting Worse? 1/23/2018
Video Q&A What Do You Suggest When the Unfaithful Spouse Seems Numb? 1/23/2018
Video Q&A Are We Generating a Pattern of 'Pretend Normal'? 1/23/2018
Video Q&A Who Do We Tell about the Affair? 1/23/2018
Video Q&A How Do I Get over What I Don't Know? 1/23/2018
Video Q&A How Do You 'Feel' Emotions without Letting Them Control You? 1/22/2018
Video Q&A Why Do We Choose to Stay with Someone Who Has Wounded Us So Deeply? 1/22/2018
Video Q&A Why Do I Feel The Way That I Do? 1/22/2018
Video Q&A How Do Addictions Play into That Sequence of Recovery? 1/22/2018
Video Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Think about the Affair Partner? 1/22/2018
Video Q&A Are There Any Tools or Strategies to Help Overcome The ‘Addiction’ of the AP? 1/22/2018
Video Q&A Do I File for Divorce to Protect Myself and Possibly Wake Her Up? 1/22/2018
Video Q&A Why Is the Unfaithful Trying to Take Advantage? 1/22/2018
Video Q&A How Do I Overcome Being Repulsed by My Husband? 1/22/2018
Video Q&A How Do We Re-establish a Sexual Relationship? 1/22/2018
Video Q&A How Long Does It Take the Unfaithful to Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner? 1/22/2018
Video Q&A What Do I Do When There Are No Actions behind the Words? 1/22/2018
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What My Mate Was Thinking? 1/22/2018
Video Q&A What Should I Do?” 1/22/2018
Video Q&A Is There Anything I Can Personally Do to Discourage a Persistent AP? 1/22/2018
Video Q&A What Do You Do When You Spouse Refuses Help and Wants Divorce? 1/22/2018
Text Forgiving Infidelity: What Forgiveness Is NOT 1/18/2018
Video Q&A How Do I, as the Betrayed, Learn to Love My Mate Again? 1/10/2018
Video Q&A How Can I Assure My Wife That She's the One I Want? 1/10/2018
Video Q&A Should I Give My Mate Another Chance? 1/10/2018
Video Q&A How Much Disclosure Is Considered 'Full Disclosure'? 1/10/2018
Video Q&A Can You Address Different Personalities in Marriage? 1/10/2018
Video Q&A What Do You Do When the Affair Partner Won't Let Go? 1/10/2018
Video Q&A Do I Force Him to Get Paternity Test? 1/10/2018
Video Q&A If Relapse Continues, Does the Effort by the Betrayed Even Matter? 1/08/2018
Video Q&A How Do I Hang on to My Resolve? 1/08/2018
Video Q&A How Can I Communicate My Needs in the Marriage? 1/08/2018
Video Q&A My Mate's Family Also Betrayed Me, How Do We Reconcile? 1/08/2018
Video Q&A How Do I Show My Mate Grace? 1/08/2018
Video Q&A Should I Tell My Affair Partner That I Don't Love Her? 1/08/2018
Video Q&A How Can I Forgive Myself for Transmitting My Pain? 1/08/2018
Video Q&A What Are Signs That Someone Might Relapse? 1/08/2018
Video Q&A Is It Unreasonable to Expect My Mate to Be Honest about Their Needs? 1/08/2018
Video Q&A What Can Affair Recovery Do Tell Help a Compulsive Liar? 1/08/2018
Video Q&A How Do Actions Affect Identity? 1/08/2018
Video Q&A How Is God Present in Our Struggles? 1/08/2018
Video Q&A Should I Just Suck It Up? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Surrender Control? 12/20/2017

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