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Video Q&A Are We Doomed to a Sexless Marriage after the Affair? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Am I Being Emotionally Abused since His Affair? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Is Healing from a Long-Term Affair Different Than Healing from a Short-Term Affair or One Night Stand? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Can You Give Specific Suggestions to Handle the Locations of the Acting out with the Affair Partner? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A What Safe Questions Can I Ask to Regain Our Openness but without Causing Me Pain? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Get past the Fears of What He Will Do If I Leave Him? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Get past My Negative Self Image? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Do We Revert Back to Our Old State Once the Threat Disappears? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A He Wants to Do the Bootcamp but I Don't. What Do We Do? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to See Me in a More Positive Light? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Is It Okay to Let the Affair Partner Know That I Forgive Her? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Is It Therapeutic for People to Know about My Affair? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Is Asking Questions Abusive? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Support Him When He Struggles to Be Safe for Us? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Can We Overcome past Promises of Leaving after Betrayal? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Why Am I Struggling with the Length of the Affair? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Handle Weddings? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Will Marriage Therapy Work If the Unfaithful Spouse Doesn't Have to Discuss What Happened? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Know If a Counselor Is a Good Fit? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A What Is a Reasonable Expectation When I Share a Wound with My Mate? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A Why Has New Information Been Such a Major Setback for Me? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A Since I Cheated on Her, Will My Mate Ever See Me as Committed? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Explain What the Word 'Safe' Means to Me? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Change Enough Where I Feel Can Safe in the Future? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear of Contact with the Affair Partner? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A Is It Common for People to Rationalize Behaviors Other Than Intercourse as 'Okay'? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A How Can the Church Support Couples after Infidelity? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Move past Him Not Telling Me He Loves Me? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Know If This Is Progress or Pretend Normal? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A Is This Level of Anger Normal When Recovering from an Affair? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A How Can We Help Our Son's Struggles in This Aftermath of Infidelity? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A Why Am I So Troubled by the Sexual Aspect of the Affair? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A Am I Crazy for Not Wanting My Husband to Be around His Affair Partner? 6/28/2017
Video Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and What Does It Mean for a Relationship in Recovery? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel I Can’t Get Past His Infidelity? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With the Unending Lies? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A Will My Fantasy Dreams End? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A What Do I Do Now to Cope and Heal from His past History? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A Once a Person Cheats, Are They More Likely to Cheat Again? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A What Is a D-Day Anniversary Like for the Unfaithful? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A He Says I'm 50% Responsible for His Affair. Is That a Sign of Denial? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A Should We Divorce Because We Can't Respect Each Other's Feelings? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Bitterness and Anger Coming Back after Giving Birth? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Move Safely from Here in the Presence of a Restraining Order? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A Why Do the Betrayed Have to Be a Part of the Unfaithful’s Detox? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A Should We Make Amends by Contacting Former Affair Partners and Spouses? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A What Does Consent to Sex Look Like in Marriage? 6/21/2017

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