All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 4828 Resources Type Title Posted Rick's Q & A Call on November 18, 2013 11/11/2013 How to Not Make Things Worse: Community Poll 11/06/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on November 11, 2013 11/04/2013 Official Rules of Drawings 10/30/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on November 4, 2013 10/28/2013 We've entered the maintenance stage of recovery and my husband seems to be moving back into pretend normal, what can I do? 10/21/2013 Can someone act out sexually and not enjoy the experience? 10/21/2013 We are seperated because my unfaithful mate says he needs to be focused on God, am I being a fool? 10/21/2013 What is the difference between fantasy (while acting out) and fantasizing? 10/21/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on October 28, 2013 10/21/2013 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 10/15/2013 My husband and I can't talk about his new job with out becoming defensive, how do we have a productive conversation and say on track with our recovery? 10/14/2013 My husband is having an emotional affair and won't address it. What are my options? 10/14/2013 How can sex addicts fight denial and self-deception? Can our mates ever be safe with us? 10/14/2013 How did your wife respond when you relapsed? Was it more difficult than the first time? 10/14/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on October 21, 2013 10/14/2013 I've lost my sexual desire for my wife after learning of all she's done. What can I do? 10/07/2013 We're six months into recovery and my husband seems to slipping back into old patterns. What can I do? 10/07/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on October 14, 2013 10/07/2013 My husbands answers as to why he had the affair scare me is that normal? 9/23/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on October 7, 2013 9/23/2013 I Want My Life Back 9/18/2013 What We Learned at EMS Weekend 9/04/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on September 23, 2013 8/26/2013 It Seems I've Missed the Mark 8/13/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on August 26 8/12/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on August 12 8/05/2013 Grief-Transforming Loss 8/01/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on August 5 7/29/2013 How do you know if you have PTSD and what do you do about it? 7/26/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on July 29 7/26/2013 How do you make restitution after an affair? 7/15/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on July 22 7/15/2013 The Trap 7/10/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on July 15 7/08/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on July 8 7/05/2013 What factors determine how long it takes to recover? Does the anxiety ever go away? 7/05/2013 Rekindling Desire After Infidelity 6/26/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on July 1 6/24/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on June 24 6/17/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on June 17 6/10/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on June 10 6/03/2013 As the unfaithful spouse, how can I improve my communication with my mate so I don't minimize or make excuses? 5/20/2013 My affair was 20 years ago, do you have any suggestions on how I can remember the details? 5/20/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on June 3 5/20/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on May 20 5/13/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on May 13 5/06/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on May 6 4/29/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on April 29 4/22/2013 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 4/17/2013 Pages« first‹ previous…828384858687888990…next ›last »