For The Hurt Spouse
There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.
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Video Q&A How Do I Address My Spouse's Flirtatious Behaviors? 3/16/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse See's the Affair as My Fault? 3/10/2020
Video Q&A How Do You Define Healing for the Betrayed Spouse? 3/03/2020
Video Q&A Can a Couple Really Benefit from Doing This Work Every Week without the Wayward Spouse Initiating and Participating in Disclosure Attempts? 3/03/2020
Video Q&A Is It Possible That She Believed Her Emotional Affair Was Not Infidelity? 3/03/2020
Video Q&A Is My Husband a Sex Addict? 2/20/2020
Video Q&A Why Doesn’t It Seem He Wants a Healthy Wife and Be Safe for Her? 2/20/2020
Video Q&A How Could Sex Mean Something with Me When My Mate Still Wanted It with Someone Else? 2/20/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Manage Recovery from Both My Affair My Mates Addiction? 2/20/2020
Video Q&A How Do I View D-Day as the Date He Chose Me Rather Than the Day He Was Leaving Me? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A Have I Done Enough on My Part to Try and Heal ‘Us’? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A What Is the True Meaning of ‘Being Safe’ for the Injured Spouse? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A Why Shouldn't the Betrayed Spouse Confront the Affair Partner? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Handle the Fact That My Husband’s ‘Safe Place’ for Porn and Masturbation Has Primarily Been at Work? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Get over My Husband's past Behavior? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A Is the Affair a Result of My Mates Addiction Issues? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Protect Myself from Getting an STD If My Husband Has Another Affair Again? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Move on after He Was so Intentional in Hurting Me? 2/11/2020
Video Q&A Is There Any Reason for Me to Contact My Mates Affair Partner? 2/11/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Response to the Truth in Love Exercise? 2/11/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to End the Affair? 2/11/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner? 2/11/2020
Video Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See the Time during the Affair as Something Other Than Tainted or Fake? 2/11/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Know She Believes What I Say? 1/31/2020
Video Q&A What Is Hindering My Mate from Showing Empathy? 1/31/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Confront My Husband? 1/31/2020
Video Q&A Why Did His Guilt over the Affair Partner Win out over Me and Our Marriage? 1/31/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Get past the Things I Think He Might Have Said to Her? 1/31/2020
Video Q&A Was I Wrong for Questioning Him or Is There a Better Way I Could’ve Approached This? 1/16/2020
Video Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery? 1/16/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husband Sharing Specific Details about Me with His Affair Partner? 1/16/2020
Video Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave? 1/16/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Get past the Different Versions of the Story? 1/09/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Ever Trust Again without Knowing the Full Truth? 1/09/2020
Video Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much from My Wayward Spouse? 1/03/2020
Video Q&A Can I Trust That the Affair Is Really Over? 1/03/2020
Video Q&A How Long Should I Stay and Work on the Relationship before Leaving? 1/02/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings and My PTSD? 1/02/2020
Video Q&A Will the Hope for Healing Course Be Effective for My Husband? 1/02/2020
Video Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Want to Meet Me? 1/02/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to Understand That This Is a Big Deal? 12/19/2019
Video Q&A Should I Continue Trying to Convince My Wayward Spouse to Seek Counseling? 12/19/2019
Video Q&A Why Would My Husband Lie about His Desire for Me? 12/16/2019
Video Q&A How Can We Create Safety During Military Deployment? 12/16/2019
Video Q&A My Husband Is Having a Hard Time Recommitting. What Can I Do? 12/16/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Overcome the Intrusive Thoughts during the Holidays? 12/05/2019
Video Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Numb after so Much Trickle Truth? 12/05/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Begin to Trust with All of the Trickle Truth Happening? 12/05/2019
Video Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Rebuilding My Self-Image? 11/22/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Know Who My Mate Really Is? 11/22/2019

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