For The Hurt Spouse
There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.
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Video Q&A (HH) What Is Your Opinion on Attending My Mates Therapy Sessions? 11/22/2019
Video Q&A Could You Talk a Little Bit about Emotional Self-Regulation? 11/22/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Get Past Being Stuck? 11/22/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Ever Desire My Mate When I Can't Forget What Happened? 11/22/2019
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Mate Won't Make Amends? 11/22/2019
Video Q&A At What Point Do the Thoughts, Feelings, and Mental Pictures Go Away? 11/21/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Feel Safe after My Mates Relapse? 11/14/2019
Video Q&A Can My Mate Ever Be Safe Again? 11/13/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Get over Never Knowing When the Affair Started? 11/13/2019
Video Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Truly Believes They Do Not Have a Problem or Addiction? 11/13/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Recover from a Double Betrayal? 11/13/2019
Video Q&A Will My Husband Ever Stop Thinking of His Affair Partner? 11/13/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Extend Grace to My Wayward Husband 11/13/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Wrap My Head around This When Nothing Seems to Fit Our Situation? 11/06/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Heal from Losing My Family Unit? 11/05/2019
Video Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Overcoming Comparison Thoughts? 11/05/2019
Video Q&A Do You Recommend That I Try to Convince My Mate to Push through Our Healing and Recovery? 10/23/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Protect Myself While Working Towards Healing? 10/23/2019
Video Q&A What Do I Do If My Wife Still Wants to Spend Time with Her Accomplice in Her Affair? 10/23/2019
Text Trauma from Infidelity: An Interview with a Specialist 10/23/2019
Video Q&A Why Did My Mate Take the Affair Partner to the Same Places He Has Taken Me? 10/16/2019
Text Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison 10/16/2019
Video Q&A Should I Allow My Husband to Choose His Polygrapher? 9/26/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Manage the Losses of Everything My Husband Gave Away? 9/26/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Trust What the Wayward Spouse Is Disclosing to Me? 9/18/2019
Video Q&A How Long Do I Wait for the Wayward Spouse to Be Emotionally Available? 9/18/2019
Video Q&A What Would You Recommend for Spouses Who Lose Their Mate to Suicide during Recovery? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A Should I Have the Wayward Spouse Break off the Affair in Front of Me? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A Does He Need a Consequence to Fully Recommit? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me Because I Still Love in Spite of All This? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A Why Is My Spouse Having a Difficult Time with Empathy When I'm Hurting? 9/11/2019
Video Q&A Why Can't My Spouse See How They Could've Prevented Their Affair? 9/04/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Address the Anger and Defensiveness Coming from the Wayward Spouse? 9/04/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Continued Obsessive Thoughts about the Affair Partner? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A How Could My Wife Feel so Connected with the Affair Partner and Not Think the Sex Was Better with Them? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A How Is This Not about Me? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Wayward Spouse Continues to Contact the Affair Partner? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A Is It Possible to Restore the Marriage If the Wayward Spouse Wants Divorce? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Open up about Their Affair? 8/23/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Handle the Betrayal by My Mate’s College Aged Daughter? 8/23/2019
Video Q&A How Do You Heal When the Wayward Spouse Cannot Recall the Details That You Need? 8/23/2019
Video Q&A Should I Tell My Husband That I Know More Details about His Affair Than I've Led on To? 8/23/2019
Text Healing After Infidelity: What Doesn't Work. 8/21/2019
Video Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Overcoming the Sexual Part of the Affair? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Persuade My Husband That the Affair Partner Is More Than Just a Friend? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A Are My Doubts and Feelings Normal? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A I Feel Stuck in the Shame of What I've Done. How Can You Help? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Accept My Husband's Comfort? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A Is It Healthy for the Betrayed to Know Intimate Details about the Affair Partner? 8/14/2019

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