For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Power of Small Groups Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Problem with Forgiveness Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How to Survive Infidelity 1200 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Do We Do When We Both Cheated, If My Betrayal Was ‘Worse’ than His? 1/18/2022 Q&A Am I Choosing Closeness over Intimacy When I Don’t Let My Mate Know About Intrusive Thoughts When We Are Lovemaking? 1/18/2022 Q&A How Can My Wife Believe That She Fulfilled Her Fantasy If She Also Says That’s Not Who She Truly Is? 1/18/2022 Q&A Is This Finally Enough to Divorce and End Recovery Work? 1/18/2022 Q&A What Type of Recovery Program Does My Husband Need? 1/18/2022 Q&A How Can I Get My Emotionally Unavailable Husband to Walk toward the Storm Instead of Away? 1/18/2022 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 1/12/2022 Q&A Are My Expectations Too High? 12/17/2021 Q&A What Do We Do When the Affair Partner Refuses to Cooperate about the Child? 12/17/2021 Q&A How Can We Set Boundaries If They Keep Being Disregarded and Violated? 12/17/2021 Q&A Should I Change Churches or Should I Just Get Over It since It Was All in His Fantasies? 12/17/2021 Q&A What Should I Do With the Saved Messages between My Husband and His Affair Partners? 12/17/2021 Q&A Why Is He Okay as Long as I Don’t Talk about It? How Can We Get past This If He’s Unwilling to Answer Questions? 12/17/2021 Q&A Should We Abstain from Sex at This Point in Our Recovery? 12/17/2021 Q&A At What Point Is It Unhealthy to Be Avoiding Events Because the Affair Partner May Go or Avoiding Places Because They Once Went There Together? 12/17/2021 Social Shame: Surviving Infidelity Isn’t Enough 12/08/2021 Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 12/01/2021 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 11/24/2021 Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Playing the Victim in Our Relationship? 11/19/2021 Q&A Can His Expressed Feelings of Love Be True When He Was Deceiving and Betraying Me? 11/19/2021 Q&A How Much Should I Allow My Hurt Spouse to Vent and Control Conversations? 11/19/2021 Q&A What Can I Ask My Spouse to Do That Also Requires the Same Amount of Effort in the Process of Recovery? 11/19/2021 Q&A Should My Unfaithful Spouse Make a Symbolic Sacrifice to Help My Healing? 11/04/2021 Q&A What Type of Dilemma Am I In? 11/04/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 4: The Problem With Addictions 11/03/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 3: Do They Have an Addiction? 10/27/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 2: Entrapped or Enchanted 10/20/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 1:The Role of Oxytocin 10/13/2021 Q&A Is He Sincere? 10/07/2021 Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Not Only Acknowledge the Humiliation upon Our Family and Me, but Also to Fix the Amount of Humiliation He’s Placed on Our Family to Our Town? 10/07/2021 Q&A Is It Common for the Wayward Spouse to Go Back to the Affair Partner? 10/07/2021 Q&A Did I Do the Right Thing by Sharing My Trigger and How Do I Handle This Situation in the Future? 10/07/2021 Q&A Why Is My Husband Deleting Messages to His Mother before I See Them? 10/07/2021 Q&A What Do I Do about a Sex Tape That My Spouse Made with the Affair Partner? 9/08/2021 Q&A How Do I Move On When I Feel like He’s Lying about What Really Happened? 9/08/2021 Q&A Should I do EMDR or Harboring Hope First? 9/08/2021 Q&A Where Do I Go After EMS Online? 8/17/2021 Q&A Should I Let Him Go? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Could He Go from Begging Me to Stay to This? 8/17/2021 Q&A Is It Possible That the Shame Is Creating a Barrier to Empathy? 8/17/2021 Q&A Why Does This Hurt Me? 8/17/2021 Q&A My Husband Is Still Pursuing His Affair Partner after 13 Months and Is Refusing Any Work. Is There Hope? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle This Conflict between What He’s Saying and What He’s Doing? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With This When I Cannot Reasonably Ask Her to Quit Working nor Can I Check In Frequently to Make Sure It's Not Happening Again? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle Other Counselor’s ‘Okaying’ My Husband’s Continuation of His Rock-Concert Gigs? 8/17/2021 Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner’s Wife about the Affair? 8/17/2021 Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do Handle My Wife Having a Same-Sex Affair? 8/02/2021 Q&A How Do I Behave around My Family When My Sister Is the Affair Partner? 8/02/2021 Q&A How Can I Now Be the Bad Guy? 7/13/2021 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
