For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Power of Small Groups The Problem with Forgiveness Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 1200 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story? 2/23/2021 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When He’s Still Holding on to Resentment Towards Me and I’m the Betrayed? 2/23/2021 Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling like My Husband Needs to Own up to the Affair to People in His Life? 2/11/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing? 2/11/2021 Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions? 1/28/2021 Q&A Is It Normal for an Unfaithful Spouse Get Upset Whenever Asked to Talk about the Inappropriate Behavior? 1/28/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors? 1/25/2021 Q&A Can I Trust That He Is Being Honest? 1/20/2021 Q&A Why Can't I Forgive One of the Multiple Affairs? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Stop Seeking the ‘20% Guy’? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Get My Husband to Understand the Importance of Boundaries? 1/20/2021 Q&A Is It Appropriate to Abstain from Sex until Safety and Emotional Intimacy Have Been Established? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Heal When I'm Sharing My Wife with a Coworker? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Regain Sexual Attraction to My Husband? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Salvage My Spiritual Relationship? 1/20/2021 Q&A What Should I Do with the Evidence? 1/20/2021 Q&A Why Did the Wayward Spouse Want to Reconcile, but Is Now in a Relationship with His Affair Partner Post-Divorce? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle This Lapse in Motherhood When I’ve Been Needed? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Get to the Point That I Feel Good about the Way That I Look? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Stay in a Marriage with My Husband Who Won't Open up with Me? 1/20/2021 Q&A Can We Heal Even When He Still Can’t Give Me a Full Account of His Affair? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Stop Seeing Her Affair Partner? 1/14/2021 Q&A Why Do I Still Feel like Its My Fault She Had a Affair? Is This Normal for Betrayed Men? 1/14/2021 Q&A As a Betrayed Spouse, How Do I Work through My Humiliation? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Do I Get My Memories Pure and Special Again? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Safe Again? 1/14/2021 Q&A Did He Really Not Consider Me or His Children? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Can I Get These Constant Reminders Out of My Head? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with Constant Relapse? 1/14/2021 Q&A Can You Clarify the Statement, ‘Don't Rebuild Your Old Marriage. You Must Build Something New’? 1/07/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle In-Laws? 1/07/2021 Q&A Should I Even Consider Staying or Working on the Marriage? 1/07/2021 Q&A What Can I Do to Move Forward in My Relationship with My Husband? 1/07/2021 Q&A How Can I Know My Mate Didn't Just Prefer Sex With Someone Else? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Probable It Is That He Can Stop Cheating and Have a Normal Sex Life? 12/17/2020 Q&A As the Betrayed, How Do I Stop Obsessing About the Affair Partner? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband's Refusal to Consider Accountability? 12/17/2020 Q&A Why Did My Wayward Husband Share Our Children’s Lives with the Affair Partner? 12/17/2020 Q&A I'm the Hurt Partner and I'm Extremely Codependent, Now What? 12/17/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Husband's Needs Are a Trigger for Me? 12/17/2020 Q&A Should I Ask Him the Questions I Have About Presents That He Gave to Her? 12/17/2020 Q&A Would Her Medication Have Created the Same Brain Chemicals as Limerence? 12/17/2020 Q&A Is My Wife's On-Going Ambivalence Towards Our Relationship the Best That I Can Hope For? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward with My Husband If There Is No Disclosure? 12/17/2020 The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 12/02/2020 Q&A How Much Pain Can One Take before They Break? 11/24/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When Exercise Is a Trigger? 11/18/2020 Q&A Is This Ultimatum Unreasonable? 11/18/2020 Q&A Could You Help? 11/18/2020 Q&A Should I Ask Him to Hear My Story? 11/18/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…34567891011…next ›last »