How to Forgive Everyone’s recovery looks different, but one consistent factor that must occur is forgiveness. Read the articles in this section to understand the process of forgiveness and to find tools for moving forward. Must Reads more less Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Power of Small Groups Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 158 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How am I Supposed to be the Best Husband I Can be After She Cheated? 11/23/2016 Q&A Is there Any Hope for Getting Over the Pain and Anger of Betrayal? 11/02/2016 Q&A Can You Suggest Any Free Programs to Help My Spouse? 11/02/2016 Q&A Given the Length of Trickle Truth, Should I Retake the Harboring Hope Group? 11/02/2016 Q&A Are We Losing Our Vigilance in Recovery? 11/02/2016 Q&A Did I Forgive Too Soon? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Many Times Should I Give Him Another Chance? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Show True Empathy for My Wife? 10/18/2016 Q&A How do I Forgive a Lifetime of Infidelity? 10/12/2016 Q&A How did My Cycle of Grace Become My Cycle of Failure? 10/11/2016 Q&A How Can I Forgive Without Reconciliation? 9/07/2016 Q&A How Do I Face This Challenge With My Father-in-Law? 8/30/2016 Q&A What Does True Grief Look Like for a Betrayed Spouse? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Settle These Questions in My Mind? 8/24/2016 Q&A Is a Deeper Understanding Necessary for Truly Forgiving? 8/03/2016 Q&A The Affair Partner Moved Nearby, How Do I Escape My Bondage? 8/03/2016 Q&A Is There Anything I Can do to Help My Wife Get to a Place of Forgiveness? 6/06/2016 Q&A How Can I Move Forward Without Being Forgiven? 5/03/2016 Q&A Can you Explain More About Vertical and Horizontal Forgiveness? 3/08/2016 Q&A What is the Right Thing to do in this Relationship? 3/01/2016 Q&A Can You Have Reconciliation Without Forgiveness? 12/23/2015 Q&A I Don't Know Whether to Stay or Go 12/23/2015 Q&A Can You Help Me With EMSO - Week 9? 12/15/2015 Q&A How Do I Forgive When it Wasn't a Mistake? 12/15/2015 How Can the Betrayer Get Past Guilt When Spouse Gives Constant Criticism? 10/27/2015 Q&A How can I get Past a Desire for Revenge? 8/04/2015 Q&A What are Specific Examples of Vertical Forgiveness? 8/04/2015 Q&A Why Start Over With Someone Who Deceived You and Cheated on You? 5/19/2015 Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Get Over the Treatment by the Unfaithful While in an Affair? 5/19/2015 Q&A Which Comes First, Forgiveness or Trust? 5/12/2015 Q&A How do You Heal Broken Parent Relationships Because of an Affair? 5/12/2015 Q&A How do I Obtain Closure When the AP is his Ex-Wife? 4/21/2015 Q&A How Can I Stop This Obsession? 3/31/2015 Q&A Why am I Still Upset? 3/31/2015 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Repulsion I have Towards my Spouse? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Help my Pain While my Spouse has Newfound Happiness? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Forgive a 7 Year Affair? 1/23/2015 Q&A How do I Start to Trust Again? 1/12/2015 Q&A Should I Be Healed by Now? 1/12/2015 Q&A Can We Recover From This? 1/06/2015 Q&A My Husband was Unfaithful for 10 Years. How can he Love me? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Transition from being Married to being Single with a Child? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Deal With my Anger and Emotions? 12/16/2014 Q&A Am I Over the Top for Feeling this Way? 12/11/2014 Q&A How Can I Enjoy an Activity with my Spouse When he did it With his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014 Q&A How can I get my Spouse to let me Heal? 12/10/2014 Q&A Timelines for Intense Pain and Forgiveness, How Long Does it Take? 12/10/2014 Q&A How do I Accept This as my Life? 12/10/2014 Q&A How Do I Know if my Spouse is Really Changing or just Pretending? 12/10/2014 Pages« first‹ previous1234next ›last »
