Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How to Survive Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 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A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 3801 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Prevent Flashbacks of Photos I Have Seen? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is It Possible to Forgive a Person but Not Forgive Their Actions? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Feel Connected to My Sons Again so I Don't Take This out on Them? 6/19/2020 Q&A Did My Husband Prefer His Affair Partner over Me? 6/18/2020 Q&A Can You Explain Compartmentalization in General and in This Type of Situation Specifically? 6/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle Seeing My Affair Partner in Public? 6/18/2020 Q&A Is Overcoming an Affair Similar to Overcoming Alcohol Addiction? 6/18/2020 Q&A How Do We Handle Flooding? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Do I Help Someone That Won't Come Clean? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward with This Feeling That I'm Not Safe? 6/10/2020 Q&A Can You Define What Respect Is from the Male Point of View and Why Males Want Respect from Our Spouses? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Is Hard-Hearted and Has Yet to Repent? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Can I Apply What I Learned from a past Traumatic Experience to Deal with the Pain of Reminders in My Marriage Relationship Now? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Can I Be Empathetic without Allowing My Shame to Cause More Damage? 6/09/2020 Q&A Is This Healthy or Are My Concerns Valid? 6/09/2020 Q&A What Do Same Sex Encounters Mean? 6/09/2020 Q&A How Can the Wayward Spouse Resolve the Guilt They Have about the Consequences They Caused for the Affair Partner? 6/09/2020 Q&A What Does Transparency in Marriage Look Like? 6/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand It’s Not about Him and His Pain? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with Hurtful Comments and Lies after a Divorce? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Cherish the Positive Family Moments That Happened during the Affair? 6/03/2020 Q&A Why Has My Husband Re-written Our Marital History? 6/03/2020 Q&A At What Point Is Repair Work, Healing, and Reconciliation Attempts Futile? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Recovery during Separation? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do We Build Trust When I Don't Quite Feel Safe Yet? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is This a Safe Way of Dealing with This Problem? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Kind of Affair Was It? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Accept That His Actions Were Willful and Done without Any Regard of My Feelings? 6/03/2020 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Ex-husband's Motive? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is It Possible or Even Wise to Forgive My Spouse? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do Multiple Affairs Affect the Recovery Timeline? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Exactly Does One Transform the Pain? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Would Enabling the Affair Look Like? 6/03/2020 Q&A Why Is My Wayward Husband Having a Difficult Time with 'Why'? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Helps the Wayward Spouse Transition from Shame to Empathy? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Start a New Relationship without Fear That This Will Happen Again? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is There a Difference between Processing Grief and Self-Pity? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Trust My Husband in the Future If Only He and I Know? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Heal When He Still Has to Have Contact with Her Because of Her Job? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with the Grief? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do We Start Fresh in the Midst of Recovery? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Splitting the Household While Attempting Recovery? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Recover in a Situation like This? 6/03/2020 Q&A Can You Offer Encouragement for Me during This Season of Recovery? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Now Distinguish between Truth and Deception? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do You Heal from This Level of Betrayal? 6/03/2020 Q&A Does the Length of the Affair Have Implications for Our Recovery? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Long Do Couples Stay in a State of Ambivalence? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do We Write a New Story Together? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is It Too Early to Start to Learn about Ourselves, the Recovery Process, and Grow? 6/03/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…131415161718192021…next ›last »