Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Problem with Forgiveness Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How to Survive Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 3805 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Do I Do If I Don’t Believe My Mate Has Been Completely Honest with Their Full Disclosure? 10/13/2022 Q&A Are My Kids Really ‘Love Children’ from My Affairs? 10/13/2022 Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Work through the Deception Regarding the Infidelity? 10/13/2022 Q&A What Kind of Professional Help Should I Seek? 10/13/2022 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Believe I’m Not Manipulating Him? 10/13/2022 Q&A Will I Be Able to Find My Wife Sexually Attractive Again or Have I Broken My Brain? 10/13/2022 Q&A Am I Struggling Because I Still Feel Unsafe in Recovery? 10/13/2022 Q&A Is Listening to Audiobooks That Are Sexually Explicit Considered Porn? 9/13/2022 Q&A How Can an Unfaithful Spouse Develop Emotional Intelligence? 9/13/2022 Q&A What Can We Do Differently? 9/13/2022 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When I’m Not Sure He Can Admit to Himself What His Demons Are? 8/26/2022 Q&A Is It Possible for Spouses to Have Emotional Affairs With Same Sex Best Friends? 8/26/2022 Q&A Is This an Appropriate Deal-Breaker? 8/26/2022 Q&A How Do We Heal from Sexual Abuse in Our Marriage? 8/26/2022 Q&A How Do I Not Feel So Bad About My Own Body? 8/03/2022 Q&A Is It Strange for the Unfaithful to Have Depression? 8/03/2022 Q&A Is This a Healthy Way to Process My Anger? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Repulsion by the Idea of Sex Post Betrayal? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Long Are You Suppose to Wait for Unfaithful to Take Responsibility and Have Empathy? 8/03/2022 Q&A Should I Get Breast Implants to Please My Husband? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Marrying Someone While Choosing to Essentially Re-Marry Him? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership? 7/07/2022 Q&A Are My Expectations to High? What Should He Be Doing to Reinforce That Love and Value of Me? 7/01/2022 Q&A Am I Just Playing the Victim to Reduce My Guilt? 7/01/2022 Q&A What Are the Signs I Should Run and Not Bother Wasting My Time or Emotions on Trying to Make My Marriage Work? 7/01/2022 Q&A How Do My Wife and I Avoid Pretending Normal and Actually Tackle the Issue of Infidelity? 6/14/2022 Q&A How Can I Be Comfortable Being Intimate Again? 6/14/2022 Q&A Can I Truly Trust a Polygraph? 6/14/2022 Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Want Me to Obey Him after His Affair? 6/14/2022 Q&A How Do We Give This a Shot If We Don’t Reengage on Some Level? 6/14/2022 Q&A Could It Be Limerance When the Affair Partner Is an Old Flame? 6/14/2022 Q&A How Do I Respond to the Betrayed’s Triggers When It’s Affecting My Mental Health Now? 6/14/2022 Q&A Am I Depriving Myself of True Healing in the Long Term If We Are Using This Method to Cope? 6/14/2022 Q&A How Do You Know If You Are Grieving or If You Are Wallowing? 5/24/2022 Q&A How Do I Handle Knowing the ‘Who’ Matters More to Me than the ‘What’? 5/24/2022 Q&A When Will the Constant Feeling That Another Betrayal Is Right around the Corner Fade? 5/24/2022 Q&A How Can I Channel My Own Genuine Positivity and Stop Being Concerned or Insulted by His Behaviors or Attitudes? 5/24/2022 Q&A Where Does a Failed Polygraph Leave Us in Regards to a Timeline in Recovery? 5/24/2022 Q&A What Do I Do If My Spouse Works with Their Affair Partner? 5/24/2022 Q&A Can You Help Us Understand Our Love Language Differences? 5/24/2022 Q&A How Do You Make Your Partner Feel Understood, Trusted, like They Matter, and That It’s Ok to Make Mistakes, Without Enabling Bad Behavior? 5/24/2022 Q&A Is It Possible There Is a 7th Type of Affair? 5/24/2022 Q&A How Do I Continue Supporting Her While Taking Care of My Heart and Mental Health? 4/20/2022 Q&A Why Can’t I Give My Spouse Full Disclosure? 4/20/2022 Q&A Is It OK for the Wayward Spouse to Keep in Touch with Affair Partners from the past That Happened Years before Us? 4/20/2022 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Discuss the Questions That Most Wayward Spouses Get from the Betrayed? 4/20/2022 Q&A How Do I Let Myself Be Happy Again? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Do We Handle Defensiveness? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Do I Move Forward Knowing That He Already Has The Mindset That This Could Happen Again? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Can I Convince Her to Engage More in the Group Therapy? 4/08/2022 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »