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A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 348 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A If My Mate has Lied about the past, Will They Lie about the Present and Future? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Much Disclosure Is Considered 'Full Disclosure'? 1/10/2018 Q&A How Can I Know If the Changes Are Genuine? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Cope with the Deception? 12/20/2017 Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much in Regards to Safety in Recovery? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Communicate the Importance of Being Real and Authentic? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Consequences of My Actions? 11/10/2017 Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Get past 'Why' and 'How Could You Do This' Questions? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can I Achieve If I Don't Answer Comparison Questions? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Again? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Set Reasonable Boundaries? 10/25/2017 Q&A Do I Need to Know? 10/25/2017 Q&A Why Can’t I Remember When My Affair Started? 10/25/2017 Q&A Are the Details of Relationships Prior to Marriage worth Sharing? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Convey the Importance of Remorse and Grief from My Mate? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Can I Do If My Wife Has Totally Lost Trust in Me? 10/25/2017 Do You Struggle with Forgiveness? 10/17/2017 Q&A How Do I Show Her We Can Recover from This? 10/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Discuss the Affair with My Mate? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle Transparency in Recovery? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome Fear of Relapse? 10/05/2017 Q&A Is My Mates Change of Heart Genuine? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle a Secure Workplace? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Far Back Should We Go? 9/27/2017 Q&A Why Doesn't He 'Get It'? 9/06/2017 Q&A Is This Normal and How Do We Regain Interest and Momentum Again? 9/06/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed to Feel Indifferent? 8/18/2017 Q&A Should We Be Able to Discuss His Current Activities without a Fight? 8/16/2017 Q&A Should My Husband Be Transparent about His Relationships? 8/16/2017 Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Take a Lie Detector Test? 8/16/2017 Q&A Can You Suggest Some Exercises to Help with Honesty after Betrayal? 8/11/2017 Q&A How Do I Deal with Polygraph Results Such as This? 8/10/2017 Q&A Am I Pushing Her Away by Wanting Her Too Much? 7/26/2017 Q&A With Multiple Discoveries over 2 Years, How Do I Know She's Told Me Everything? 7/19/2017 Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017 Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017 Q&A Should I Continue to Verify My Spouse's Honesty? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Will I Know If He Truly Is Happy? 5/26/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for the Wayward Spouse to Admit Things at D-Day and Then Retract Them? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If I Don't Remember 100% of the Affair Details? 5/17/2017 Q&A Is It Necessary to Confess My One Night Stand to My Unfaithful Spouse? 5/10/2017 Q&A Is It Ok to Withdraw My Commitment to Being Completely Emotionally Honest? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is There a Point in Staying Married since My Husband Is Visiting His Affair Partner and Their Child? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Work towards Healing If I Don't Feel We Are at Ground Zero? 5/03/2017 Q&A What's Your Advice for Me Now That My Husband Is Working with His Affair Partner Again? 5/03/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with This Anger and Loss of Trust We Had Worked Hard to Gain? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Trust Someone Who Has Manipulated Me So Much? 4/25/2017 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »