Recovery Fundamentals
Start with the basics when first walking the road to recovery. Developing a systematic plan for recovery will enable you to stick to your basic recovery principles even when things get tough.
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Video Q&A How Do We Get past Both Betrayals? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Do You Deal with Your Own Parents and Siblings Not Supporting Your Reconciliation? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Long Is Too Long for Grieving? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Comfort the Wayward Spouse? 8/27/2020
Video Q&A Should We Tell Our Friends? 8/27/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Believe My Spouse Has Broken off the Affair? 8/27/2020
Video Q&A What Is a Real Trigger? 8/20/2020
Video Q&A Would a Polygraph Test Benefit Us? 8/18/2020
Video Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask for Details? 8/18/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Best Support My Spouse When They're Having a Difficult Day? 8/18/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Reengage and Begin Moving Forward Again? 8/18/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Wayward Wife's Friendships? 8/13/2020
Video Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Ever Gain Their Respect Back? 8/13/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Approach Our Vacation Sleeping Plan? 8/13/2020
Video Q&A Is It Ever Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Contact the Affair Partner to Apologize for Their Behavior Towards Them? 8/13/2020
Video Q&A What Should My Next Move Be? 8/13/2020
Video Q&A What Would You Advise Regarding My Living Situation? 8/13/2020
Text Hope Rising 2020 Announcement 8/11/2020
Video Q&A What Do We Do If the Affair Partner Will Not Go Away? 8/07/2020
Video Q&A Are Polygraphs Helpful and What Types of Questions Are Recommended? 8/06/2020
Video Q&A Can You Heal from Pornography Addiction without Therapy? 8/06/2020
Video Q&A How Can My Spouse and I Resume Having and Acting on the Desire for Sexual Intimacy in Our Marriage? 8/06/2020
Video Q&A Is He Really Healing If He’s Thinking of the Affair Partner as a Friend? 8/06/2020
Video Q&A How Can We Adapt the Travel Plan for the Wayward Spouse Staying at Home While the Betrayed Is Away? 7/30/2020
Video Q&A How Can We Move Forward When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 7/30/2020
Video Q&A Is This Normal or Is There Something Wrong with Me? 7/30/2020
Video Q&A Are We at Risk of Not Fully Recovering? 7/30/2020
Video Q&A What More Can I Do to Overcome This Trauma? 7/28/2020
Video Q&A What Continued Work Do You Recommend for the Years to Come? 7/16/2020
Video Q&A How Long Do You Suggest Waiting, Post Discovery, to Have a Child Together? 7/09/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Give 100% to My Mate during the Hard Moments? 7/02/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Stop All-Or-Nothing Thinking? 7/02/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Deal With Deflection and Blame? 7/02/2020
Video Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Entering Into a Contract on a New Home Early in Recovery? 7/02/2020
Video Q&A What Happens If a Husband and Wife Differ on What Constitutes Out of Line Behavior? 7/02/2020
Video Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Finding the Right Therapist? 7/02/2020
Video Q&A What Are Some Exercises We Could Use to Help Us Let Go and Move Forward? 6/25/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Prevent Resentment and Bitterness Forming in My Heart? 6/25/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Is Being Genuine? 6/25/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Reach Full Disclosure If My Wife Doesn’t Remember the Details? 6/25/2020
Video Surviving Infidelity Part 2: What Didn’t Work For Unfaithful Spouses 6/24/2020
Video Q&A How Can These Two Programs Be Helpful in Such a Mess of a Situation? 6/19/2020
Video Q&A If My Spouse Is Going through the Hope for Healing Course, Should I Expect to See His Emotions Roller Coaster like Mine? 6/19/2020
Video Q&A Are We Doing Enough to Help Our Situation? 6/19/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Concern during Our Intensive Weekend? 6/19/2020
Video Q&A Is Going No Contact with the Affair Partner Suggested or Discussed during Hope for Healing? 6/19/2020
Video Q&A Can You Explain Compartmentalization in General and in This Type of Situation Specifically? 6/18/2020
Video Q&A Is Overcoming an Affair Similar to Overcoming Alcohol Addiction? 6/18/2020
Text Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 6/17/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Is Hard-Hearted and Has Yet to Repent? 6/10/2020

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