Safety in Recovery
The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.
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Type Title Posted
Video Q&A How Do We Move Safely from Here in the Presence of a Restraining Order? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A Should We Make Amends by Contacting Former Affair Partners and Spouses? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A What Does Consent to Sex Look Like in Marriage? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A How Often Do the Betrayed Spouses of the Unfaithful Partners Get Together? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A What Can We Expect from EMS Online? 6/07/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Is Really Changing? 6/07/2017
Video Q&A Why Does He Say He Wants to Save the Marriage? 6/07/2017
Video Q&A What Should We Discuss When We Check-In with Each Other? 6/07/2017
Video Q&A Is This All Part of the Process or Is It Something Else? 6/07/2017
Video Q&A Should We Throw in the Towel before Things Get Worse? 6/07/2017
Video Q&A What Do We Tell Our Kids regarding the Infidelities? 5/26/2017
Video Q&A Should I Continue Forward or Wait until He Wants to Recommit to Us? 5/26/2017
Video Q&A Should I Continue to Verify My Spouse's Honesty? 5/26/2017
Video Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Overcome Ambivalence and Make a Decision? 5/26/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Overcome Her Shame? 5/26/2017
Video Q&A Is My Wife Safe? 5/26/2017
Video Q&A Can My Deceitful and Unfaithful Spouse Really Change? 5/24/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Encourage My Spouse to Engage in Healing Conversations? 5/24/2017
Video Q&A Is It Okay for My Mate to Have Contact with My Affair Partner? 5/17/2017
Video Q&A When Does a Betrayed Spouse Find Sexual Desire for Their Mate Again? 5/10/2017
Video Q&A Should We Move to Get Away from the Affair Partner? 5/10/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Manage Family Introductions with the Child Born from an Affair? 5/10/2017
Video Q&A Should I Be Worried about My Spouse Communicating with My Affair Partner's Spouse? 5/10/2017
Video Q&A After Discovering My Affair My Mate Began a New Relationship. How Does This Work with EMS Online? 5/10/2017
Video Q&A My Son Discovered My Spouse's Secret App. Now What? 5/10/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Begin Share the Affair Details with My Mate? 5/10/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Combat Triggers for Upcoming Events? 5/10/2017
Video Q&A Is There Hope If the Affair Partner Still Works with My Mate? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A How Long Is Long Enough? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A Is It Ok to Withdraw My Commitment to Being Completely Emotionally Honest? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Rekindle the Love for My Mate If They Won't Cooperate? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A Now That Harboring Hope Is over Do We Tell Our Family or Friends about the Infidelity? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A What Can I Do to Help Reduce the Frequency of Intrusive Imagery? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Handle Triggers When the Affair Partner Is Entangled into Many Aspects of Our Lives? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A Is There a Point in Staying Married since My Husband Is Visiting His Affair Partner and Their Child? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A What's Your Advice for Me Now That My Husband Is Working with His Affair Partner Again? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Learn to Cope and Handle the Hurt? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A How Can She Be So Kind Now after the Way She Treated Me Just a Year Ago? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A What Do I Do with This Anger and Loss of Trust We Had Worked Hard to Gain? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Express Hurt and Anger but Not Shame My Spouse? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Possibly Turn around the Tone and Momentum? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A Should My Wife Offer Amends and/or Disclosure to Her Ex Husband? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Trust Someone Who Has Manipulated Me So Much? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Is Our Church Safe? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Is He Relapsing? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Should We Change Churches? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A He Blames His Addiction on My Lack of Connection and I Blame My Lack of Connection on His Addiction. 4/25/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Be Assertive without Being Aggressive about His Recovery? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Get through This without Being Together? 4/25/2017

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