Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Power of Small Groups Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 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Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 1038 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Withdraw My Commitment for Complete Honesty? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should I Be Worried That He Hasn't Completed His 4th Step in 18 Months of Recovery? 4/25/2017 Q&A What Is Shaming? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should I Be Worried about a Person from My Mates Past? 4/12/2017 Q&A How Can I Continue to Support Myself and Keep Our Tenuous Truce without Burning Out? 4/12/2017 Q&A When Does Anger Become Emotional Abuse? 4/12/2017 Q&A Am I Being Passive Agressive? 4/12/2017 Q&A Should Communication with Counselors Be Enough for Me to Feel Supported? 4/12/2017 Q&A What does He Need to Do to Get It? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I deal with his lack of empathy? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is my loneliness an excuse to hold onto our marriage? 4/05/2017 Q&A How can I regain trust after this setback? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do we handle the details? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is it a good idea to move out for a temporary separation? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I get my unfaithful spouse to cooperate? 4/05/2017 Q&A What can I do to help my parents understand the level in which I have been hurt? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is there hope or should I follow through with divorce? 4/05/2017 Q&A How can I regain trust after this setback? 4/05/2017 Q&A What does Working Through this in a healthy way look like for me and my children? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I Deal With My Wife’s Ambivalence? 4/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Bring up a Situation I'm Uncomfortable With? 3/29/2017 Q&A Can you Explain the statement ‘Love Acts in the Best Interest of Another person’? 3/29/2017 Q&A Is This as Good as it Gets? 3/29/2017 Q&A What Should I Do about His Behavior towards Me? 3/22/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Him Working Long Distance with My Lack of Trust? 3/22/2017 Q&A How Can She Help Me Rebuild My Trust in Her? 3/22/2017 Q&A Is This a Reasonable Expectation to Ensure Our Son's Safety? 3/22/2017 Q&A Can You Expand Your Thoughts on Financial Infidelity? 3/22/2017 Q&A Will Contacting the Affair Partner Help Me Forgive? 3/15/2017 Q&A Why Would I Stay with Him? 3/15/2017 Q&A Can You Share More about the Detox Phase for the Unfaithful Spouse? 3/08/2017 Q&A How Do I Request a Polygraph from My Mate? 3/08/2017 Q&A When Do You Know It's as Good as It's Going to Get? 3/08/2017 Q&A Is His Lack of Transparency Grounds for Divorce? 3/08/2017 Q&A What Is a Reasonable Shift of Expectations for My Mate in Recovery? 3/08/2017 Q&A How Do I Regain My Confidence as a Mom When the Principals I Teach Didn't Protect Me? 3/08/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Get Him to Move Forward? 3/08/2017 Q&A Should This Friendship End? 3/08/2017 Q&A Is It Common to Relapse More Than Once? 3/08/2017 Q&A Should I Consider Visiting Our Children without My Husband? 3/08/2017 Q&A What Do You Advise for Me to Set Safe Boundaries and Expectations? 3/08/2017 Q&A When Will My Mind Stop the Constant Back and Forth Emotions? 3/08/2017 Q&A When Do Unfaithful Women Typically Begin to Show Empathy? 3/08/2017 Q&A Will My Husband Ever Recommit to the Marriage? 2/22/2017 Q&A Am I Sabotaging Our Relationship Because I'm Not Getting What I Want? 2/15/2017 Q&A What Therapy Would You Suggest for Us? 2/15/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Handle the Abrupt Emotional Changes? 2/15/2017 Q&A Do You Think I'll Ever Feel Safe given These Circumstances? 2/15/2017 Q&A What can I do to Deal with His Actions Toward Me? 2/08/2017 Q&A Can I Speak to the Affair Partner in this Situation? 2/08/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…8910111213141516…next ›last »