Safety in Recovery
The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.
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1038 Resources
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Video Q&A Should I Stay for the Kids and Just Deal with His Online Struggles? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A Are his Recovery Steps Sufficient or is Something Missing? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A How can we Achieve Transparency Without me Policing my Husband? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A Can you Offer some Advice for Our Complex Situation? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A How can Our Marriage Heal When Mental Illness Prevents Rational Affair Related Conversations? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A Should I Actively Fight my Apathy Towards my Husband or Will it Break Down Naturally? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A How can I Effectively Set a No Touch Boundary with My Husband? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A How can I Set Boundaries Without Fear of Him Returning to the Affair Partner? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A How do I Let go of my Desire to See Him Suffer and Broken? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A What Should I Do as the Unfaithful When Triggers Arise? 2/02/2017
Video Q&A Thankful my Skeletons are All Out, But Where do I go from Here? 2/02/2017
Video Q&A How can I Change my Negative Thoughts Before Launching into Anger? 2/02/2017
Video Q&A How do Our Children and I Cope While Waiting for Him to Choose Us? 2/02/2017
Video Q&A How can I Stop my Victim Thinking and Take Ownership for my Issues? 1/24/2017
Video Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Show Compassion for an Unempathetic Unfaithful Spouse? 1/24/2017
Video Q&A How do I Know if He is Serious About Reconciliation? 1/24/2017
Video Q&A How do we Respond to bad Dreams that Cause Triggers and Flooding? 1/24/2017
Video Q&A How do we Start an Accountability Group? 1/11/2017
Video Q&A How do I Function Normally in the World when I'm Actually a Sex Addict? 1/11/2017
Video Q&A Is it my Fear or my Gut Causing me to Not Believe Him? 1/11/2017
Video Q&A How can the Betrayed Cope with the Continual Lying? 1/11/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Keep Getting Back Up? 1/11/2017
Video Q&A Am I Wrong to Use History to Confront Current Behaviors? 1/11/2017
Video Q&A Why is his Anger Growing and How Can I Help? 12/20/2016
Video Q&A When do I Say I'm Moving On? 12/20/2016
Video Q&A I want Recovery to Work, but Things Aren't Changing. Will it Get Better? 12/16/2016
Video Q&A Are these Requests Appropriate for me to Ask for? 12/16/2016
Video Q&A What are the Options Available Without Full Disclosure? 12/16/2016
Video Q&A How do I Handle my Wife's Lack of Empathy? 12/16/2016
Video Q&A How can my Wife and I Handle my Lingering Feelings for my Affair Partner? 12/16/2016
Video Q&A He Contacted the Affair Partner and Lied About it. What do I do? 12/07/2016
Video Q&A How Can We Heal from Her Affair Under these Circumstances? 12/07/2016
Video Q&A Can we Fully Recover from Her Affair Without Moving Our Family? 11/30/2016
Video Q&A How do you Enforce Boundaries Short of Separation or Divorce? 11/30/2016
Video Q&A What are the Signs to Watch for to Know a Liar has Stopped Lying? 11/30/2016
Video Q&A Should 12 Step Work be a Requirement for a Sex Addict Wanting to Salvage the Marriage? 11/30/2016
Video Q&A What Are Reasonable Expectations for Me Being Married to a Sex Addict? 11/30/2016
Video Q&A Is it OK for Me to Say No Even Though it May Make Things Worse? 11/30/2016
Video Q&A Have you Seen a Marriage Recover from this Kind of Affair? 11/30/2016
Video Q&A What Can You make of All This? 11/30/2016
Video Q&A How do I Deal With 'His and Hers' Affairs? 11/30/2016
Video Q&A Why Can't He, and Will He Ever, Understand My Pain? 11/30/2016
Video Q&A What Concerns Should I Have at this Point in Our Recovery from His Affair? 11/30/2016
Video Q&A What is Protocol for a Couple in this Post Affair Scenario? 11/30/2016
Video Q&A Should I Inform My Children of their Mother's Affair? 11/30/2016
Video Q&A Can I Heal the Relationship With My Best Friend After Her Cheating With My Husband? 11/23/2016
Video Q&A How do We Combat the Marathoning? 11/23/2016
Video Q&A Where is the Line that Makes a Relationship an Affair? 11/23/2016
Video Q&A How do We Deal With Chronic Pain, Medication Addiction, and Affair Recovery? 11/23/2016
Video Q&A How Can I Work Through Resentment and Commit Back to My Mate? 11/23/2016

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