Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 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Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 1040 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How do We Deal With Chronic Pain, Medication Addiction, and Affair Recovery? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Work Through Resentment and Commit Back to My Mate? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can a Sex Addict Simply Choose to Not Act Out? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can You Please Explain Marathoning? 11/23/2016 Q&A What Are Some Practical Steps or Books to Help With Fantasy Life? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Face the Triggers I Receive from His Workplace Reality? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Safely Break off Contact Between Our Kids and the Affair Partner? 11/23/2016 Q&A Since the Affair Story Still Hurts Him, Should We Let Sleeping Dogs Lie? 11/23/2016 Q&A What Rules Should We Follow During Our No Contact Separation? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Confront My Mate With the Evidence of His Relapse? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Demand My Mate Take a Polygraph? 11/02/2016 Q&A In this Situation, Should I Inform the Affair Partner's Spouse of Risky Behavior? 11/02/2016 Q&A How Can I Share My Anxiety and Concerns With Him? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is it Normal to Relive the Days During the Affair to Rewrite History? 10/24/2016 Q&A Did I Forgive Too Soon? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Many Times Should I Give Him Another Chance? 10/24/2016 Q&A Why Would He Do this After Already Inflicting so Much Pain? 10/24/2016 Q&Aqw How can the Unfaithful's Claimed Intentions be so Drastically Different from their Actions? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Know if My Unfaithful Spouse is Truly Committed to the Marriage and Recovery? 10/24/2016 Q&A Will it Ever be Safe to Not Have Safe Sex With a Cheater? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Heal From the Affair in the Midst of Ongoing Trauma? 10/18/2016 Q&A His Affair Partner is Toxic. Why Won't He Let Her Go? 10/18/2016 Q&A How do I Stop Being Ambivalent so I can Commit Back to the Marriage? 10/12/2016 Q&A Who Would Want to be Empathetic Toward Their Spouse if They Had an Affair? 10/12/2016 Q&A How can My Unfaithful Mate Help Me When I Flood Emotionally? 10/12/2016 Q&A Can We Heal from Infidelity if My Mate Isn't Empathetic, Won't Talk About it, and Blows Up When I Bring it Up? 10/11/2016 Q&A I Stopped the Affair. Will I Cheat Again? 10/11/2016 Q&A Why Isn't She Remorseful After Her Affair? 10/11/2016 Q&A After His Affair, Will I Ever Trust Him Again? 10/11/2016 Q&A If He's Been so Good at Lying, How Can I Trust His Story of the Affair? 10/11/2016 Q&A How Much Should He Tell Me About His Recovery? 10/11/2016 Q&A How do I Keep From Comparing Our Sex Against the Sex He Had with His Affair Partner? 10/11/2016 Q&A If Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater, How do I Feel Safe? 9/28/2016 Q&A Is Recovery from an Affair Possible if My Mate Can't be Empathetic? 9/28/2016 Q&A What Signs do I Look for to Know that My Unfaithful Spouse is in Recovery? 9/28/2016 Q&A How do I Feel Safe When My Mate Wants Someone Else? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can We Safely be Sexually Intimate Again After the Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A Should I Stay in Touch With My Spouse While he is With the Affair Partner? 9/28/2016 Q&A Is This a Reasonable Stand for Me to Take with My Unfaithful Spouse? 9/28/2016 Q&A Will My Spouse Come Around or is it Time to End it After the Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can a Person be Addicted to Emotional Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A After Decades of Lying, is it Possible to be Truthful? 9/28/2016 Q&A How do I Feel Safe When My Spouse Won't Address the Issues that Allowed the Infidelity? 9/28/2016 Q&A How do I Learn to Enjoy My Spouse Again After Their Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Stop Thinking About Seeking Justice With the Affair Partners? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can We Heal Without Counseling or Other Work After Their Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can We Reconcile While the Affair Partner is Still in the Picture? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Do I Stay in a Cycle of Grace Vs. Performance? 9/22/2016 Q&A What if I Need to go Through All the Material I Collected from My Mate's Infidelity? 9/22/2016 Q&A Is There Any Benefit of My Husband Writing Another Termination Letter to His Affair Partner? 9/22/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…101112131415161718…next ›last »
