Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Power of Small Groups How to Survive Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Problem with Forgiveness Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 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