Safety in Recovery
The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.
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1038 Resources
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Video Q&A Am I Overreacting or Is My Husband Not Taking Responsibility? 8/27/2020
Video Q&A My Husband Became a Bitter Person, What Should I Do? 8/27/2020
Video Q&A Is My Husband's Behavior Abusive? 8/18/2020
Video Q&A How Am I Supposed to Address This Barrier More Than I Already Have? 8/18/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Wayward Wife's Friendships? 8/13/2020
Video Q&A What Would You Advise Regarding My Living Situation? 8/13/2020
Video Q&A How Should We React to Insensitivity? 8/06/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Feel Safe Again? 7/30/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself When My Vulnerability Was Abused? 7/28/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Spouse Get past the Anger? 7/28/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Feel Safe When There Is No Empathy? 7/16/2020
Video Q&A Should We Separate If My Mate Is Still Unsafe? 7/16/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020
Video Q&A Am I Letting Myself Be Abused Again? 7/09/2020
Video Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 7/09/2020
Video Q&A What Can I Tell Him to Do for Me If I Can’t Trust Anything He Says or Does? 7/09/2020
Video Q&A At What Point Does a Serious Case of Narcissism in the Unfaithful Need to Be Considered Unsafe for the Betrayed Spouse to Even Consider Reconciliation? 7/09/2020
Video Q&A Am I Being Unreasonable in My Demand? 7/09/2020
Video Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Entering Into a Contract on a New Home Early in Recovery? 7/02/2020
Video Q&A What Happens If a Husband and Wife Differ on What Constitutes Out of Line Behavior? 7/02/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do When My Husband Won't Stick to the Agreement? 6/25/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Move Forward with This Feeling That I'm Not Safe? 6/10/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Build Trust When I Don't Quite Feel Safe Yet? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Ex-husband's Motive? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Trust My Husband in the Future If Only He and I Know? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Heal When He Still Has to Have Contact with Her Because of Her Job? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Splitting the Household While Attempting Recovery? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Now Distinguish between Truth and Deception? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Do I Stop Encouraging My Mate to Participate in Hope for Healing and Quit Communicating with Him? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A What Can I Do about My Husband Becoming Extremely Controlling? 5/28/2020
Video Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Betrayed Spouse with Her Anger and Resentment? 5/28/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Stay Calm While Talking about the Affair? 5/28/2020
Video Q&A What Is a Healthy Boundary for Alcohol in This Situation? 5/07/2020
Video Q&A Should the Lack of Safety Be a Deal Breaker for Recovery? 5/07/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do When My Wife Drinks and Get so Angry? 5/07/2020
Video Q&A I Am Trying to Be Safe for My Wife, but How Can I Feel Safe from Her? 4/28/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Work to Create an Environment Where My Wayward Spouse Feels Safe? 4/28/2020
Video Q&A Is It Okay to Have Sex with My Mate under These Circumstances? 3/16/2020
Video Q&A What Can We Do When My Husband’s Only True Confidant Is a Serious Trigger for Me? 3/16/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Be Authentic and Safe with My Emotions during Recovery? 3/16/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Address My Spouse's Flirtatious Behaviors? 3/16/2020
Video Q&A Are Walls Instead of Boundaries Necessary for a Season? 3/10/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Become Safe for Someone Who Is Unsafe for Me? 3/03/2020
Video Q&A Is There Hope of Healing without Relapse along the Way? 2/20/2020
Video Q&A How Can We Reach Honesty without Creating Triggers? 2/20/2020
Video Q&A Is This Gaslighting? If So, How Do I Respond? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A Can I Heal If My Husband Is Not Completely Safe? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A What Is the True Meaning of ‘Being Safe’ for the Injured Spouse? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Protect Myself from Getting an STD If My Husband Has Another Affair Again? 2/14/2020

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