Safety in Recovery
The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.
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Video Q&A How Do I Know She Believes What I Say? 1/31/2020
Video Q&A Should My Mate Be Cautious of the Comparison Questions She Is Asking? 1/31/2020
Video Q&A Was I Wrong for Questioning Him or Is There a Better Way I Could’ve Approached This? 1/16/2020
Video Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery? 1/16/2020
Video Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave? 1/16/2020
Video Q&A Why Wasn't My Husband Honest with Me? 1/03/2020
Video Q&A Can I Trust That the Affair Is Really Over? 1/03/2020
Video Q&A Do I Continue to Be Friends? 1/02/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Create Safety in the Workplace? 1/02/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Differentiate between What Secrets Are Safe to Keep and Which Should Be Shared? 12/19/2019
Video Q&A How Can We Create Safety During Military Deployment? 12/16/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Fix the Problem of Trickle Truth? 12/16/2019
Video Q&A What Does Consensual Sex Look like in Marriage? 12/05/2019
Video Q&A Do You Have Advice for Safely Reaching Full Disclosure without a Polygraph? 11/21/2019
Video Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Isn't Willing to Get Help? 11/21/2019
Video Q&A How Can We Move Forward in a Healthy and Safe Way? 11/21/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Push Forward in Recovery When I Feel That My Mate Isn't Trust Worthy? 11/14/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Feel Safe after My Mates Relapse? 11/14/2019
Video Q&A Should We Continue with the Course Work in Spite of Relapse? 11/14/2019
Video Q&A Can My Mate Ever Be Safe Again? 11/13/2019
Video Q&A Is This an Acceptable Behavior for the Recovery Process? 11/13/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Extend Grace to My Wayward Husband 11/13/2019
Text Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies 11/13/2019
Text Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness 11/06/2019
Video Q&A Why Can't My Mate Be Honest? 11/05/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Get the Safety I Need in Our Recovery? 11/05/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Handle a Relapse in the Middle of Recovery? 11/05/2019
Text Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment 10/30/2019
Video Q&A What More Can We Do to Set Boundaries with Family Members? 10/23/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Protect Myself While Working Towards Healing? 10/23/2019
Video Q&A What Do I Do If My Wife Still Wants to Spend Time with Her Accomplice in Her Affair? 10/23/2019
Video Q&A At What Point Should We Get a Restraining Order for the Affair Partner? 10/16/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Be Vulnerable If My Mate Has Only Committed to One Year of Healing? 10/16/2019
Video Q&A How Can We Move Forward with This Lack of Trust? 10/02/2019
Video Q&A How Should I Handle My Husband's Lack of Transparency? 10/02/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Feel Safe through All of This? 9/26/2019
Video Q&A How Will I Know If It's Safe for My Spouse to Move Back in with Me? 9/26/2019
Video Q&A Do I Need to Have My Mate Move Out? 9/26/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Feel Safe about My Husband Having Female Friends at Work? 9/26/2019
Video Q&A What Applications and Filters Do You Recommend to Keep Us Safe? 9/18/2019
Video Q&A Am I Controlling My Spouse or Is This the Appropriate Way to Set Boundaries? 9/18/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Stay Safe When My Mate Is Still Ambivalent? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A How Can We Create Safety and Follow-Through with Boundaries? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A What Do His Boundary Violations Mean? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A Can You Explain the Benefits of an In-House Separation? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A What Boundaries Are Appropriate in Recovery? 9/11/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Address the Anger and Defensiveness Coming from the Wayward Spouse? 9/04/2019
Video Q&A Would This Level of Detail Hurt Our Recovery Process? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Wayward Spouse Continues to Contact the Affair Partner? 8/28/2019

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