Safety in Recovery
The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.
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1038 Resources
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Video Q&A Should We Wait for the Limerence to Subside before Seeking More Restoration? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Open up about Their Affair? 8/23/2019
Video Q&A Why Is It Always on Me to Set Boundaries? 8/23/2019
Video Q&A Is My Spouse Showing a Lack of Trustworthiness? 8/23/2019
Video Q&A Should I Tell My Husband That I Know More Details about His Affair Than I've Led on To? 8/23/2019
Video Q&A Is My Husband Really Repentant? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Talking about the Affair? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Accept My Husband's Comfort? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A How Can We Create Safety in Professional Environments? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A What Do I Do about My Husband's Yellow Light Behaviors? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A Why Can't We Talk about the Affair Partner with out the Wayward Spouse Shutting Down? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A How Do We Recover When the Family Dynamic Has Been Dramatically Affected? 8/14/2019
Video Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Confronting His Affair Partner? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Continue to Establish Trust? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A Can I Move Forward If I'm Concerned about Honesty? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A Should My Husband Confront His Affair Partner? 8/02/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Be Transparent in a Way That Doesn't Hurt My Mate? 7/24/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Dishonesty? 7/24/2019
Video Q&A If I Draw a Line in the Sand about My Affair It Could Result in Me Losing My Child, What Do You Suggest? 7/17/2019
Video Q&A Am I Being Used? 7/17/2019
Video Q&A How Do We Maintain Peace When We Live in Close Proximity to the Affair Partner? 7/10/2019
Video Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Keep Contact with People I Feel Safe Around? 7/10/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Avoid Flooding during Hard Conversations? 7/10/2019
Video Q&A Do You Recommend a Separation in Our Circumstance? 7/10/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Implement Boundaries More Effectively? 7/10/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Share My Emotions without Triggering My Partners Shame? 7/03/2019
Video Q&A Am I Safe? 7/03/2019
Video Q&A Should I Give My Mate Information They Specifically Asked Me Not to Share? 6/19/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Feel Safe If My Spouse Isn't as Committed to Recovery as I Am? 6/19/2019
Video Q&A Am I Wrong for Asking My Husband to Be Transparent? 6/11/2019
Video Q&A Is There Any Hope for Truth? 6/11/2019
Video Q&A Am I Being Enabling? 6/11/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Set Boundaries around Ambivalence? 6/11/2019
Video Q&A Is There a Chance for Forgiveness or Reconciliation? 6/11/2019
Video Q&A Is My Behavior a Reason for My Mate to Not Follow Boundaries? 6/05/2019
Video Q&A Should We Send a Cease and Desist to the Affair Partner? 6/05/2019
Video Q&A How Can We Stay Safe While Traveling? 5/21/2019
Video Q&A Should We Take EMS Online Even If There Is Still Contact with the Affair Partner? 5/21/2019
Video Q&A What Would Be Considered a Relapse or Relapse Behavior? 5/21/2019
Video Q&A Why Do I Feel the One Place I Can Be Myself and Be Safe Is a Place I Now Get Attacked? 5/21/2019
Video Q&A Should Safety Override Pursuing the Path We Think Might Be Best for Us? 5/15/2019
Video Andy and Laura Mentor Video 5/14/2019
Video Q&A What Boundaries Would You Recommend upon Reconciliation? 5/08/2019
Video Q&A How Do We Handle the Affair Partner's Continued Intrusion in Our Life? 5/08/2019
Video Q&A Should We Disclose the AP's Personal Information to Our Mate? 5/08/2019
Video Q&A Is It Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Journal about the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Feel Safe with Multiple Online Accounts? 4/30/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Feel Safe from Another Relapse? 4/30/2019
Video Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set for Transparency? 4/17/2019
Video Q&A How Do You Address Your Wounds While at the Same Time Feeling Remorse for Your Mate? 4/17/2019

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