Safety in Recovery
The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.
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Video Q&A Should I Inform the AP's Spouse about Their Affair? 8/18/2017
Video Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Wife Get over Her Anger? 8/18/2017
Video Q&A Should We Be Able to Discuss His Current Activities without a Fight? 8/16/2017
Video Q&A Should My Husband Be Transparent about His Relationships? 8/16/2017
Video Q&A What Do You Recommend in My Situation? 8/16/2017
Video Q&A Will I Get through Post Affair Anger or Is Moving Away the Best Answer? 8/16/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Regain a Sense of Safety after His Relapse? 8/16/2017
Video Q&A How Can We De-Escalate Our Toxic Fights? 8/11/2017
Video Q&A What Should My Next Step Be? 8/11/2017
Video Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Maintain My Boundaries and File for Divorce? 8/11/2017
Video Q&A What Am I Doing Wrong Here? 8/10/2017
Video Q&A Do I Keep Moving towards Him in Hopes He Will Leave It All behind, Once and for All? 8/10/2017
Video Q&A What Can I Do to Help Me with My Anxiety about the Affair Partner? 8/10/2017
Video Q&A Is Harboring Hope a Step Backwards for Me and My Marriage? 8/10/2017
Video Q&A Are We Deluded about His Porn and Alcohol Use? 8/10/2017
Video Q&A Should I Respond to the Affair Partner's Letter to Me? 8/10/2017
Video Q&A Is It Time to Let Go? 8/02/2017
Video Q&A What Resources Do You Suggest for Emotional Trauma? 8/02/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Handle Emotions towards the Affair Partner? 8/02/2017
Video Q&A Can He Be Safe for Me If He Continues to Use Porn? 7/26/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Wife’s Anger? 7/26/2017
Video Q&A Should There Be Closure with the Affair Partner? 7/19/2017
Video Q&A What Sort of Outcomes Do You See in Situations with Anger Like Ours? 7/19/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Heal When I Feel He’s Lying and Still Entangled with a Coworker? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Safe with This History of Deceit? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Proceed without Acknowledgement That It Was an Affair? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Tell Others about Our Recovery and How Do I Handle Being Triggered While Seeing Clients? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Handle Running into the Affair Partner Now That the Affair Is Over? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A What's Your Take on an Unfaithful Wife Who Still Blames the Marriage for the Affair 1 Year from Discovery? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse When He Is Drowning in Shame? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Should I Not Bring up the Affair Again? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A What Do I Do with a Spouse That Blames Me for the Affair? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Am I Being Emotionally Abused since His Affair? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A What Safe Questions Can I Ask to Regain Our Openness but without Causing Me Pain? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Get past the Fears of What He Will Do If I Leave Him? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Do We Revert Back to Our Old State Once the Threat Disappears? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Is It Okay to Let the Affair Partner Know That I Forgive Her? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Is It Therapeutic for People to Know about My Affair? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Is Asking Questions Abusive? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Support Him When He Struggles to Be Safe for Us? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Will Marriage Therapy Work If the Unfaithful Spouse Doesn't Have to Discuss What Happened? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Know If a Counselor Is a Good Fit? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A What Is a Reasonable Expectation When I Share a Wound with My Mate? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Explain What the Word 'Safe' Means to Me? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Change Enough Where I Feel Can Safe in the Future? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear of Contact with the Affair Partner? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A Is This Level of Anger Normal When Recovering from an Affair? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A He Says I'm 50% Responsible for His Affair. Is That a Sign of Denial? 6/21/2017

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