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A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 358 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can Our Marriage Survive If My Husband Never Sees the Affair for What It Was? 5/07/2018 Q&A Why Do I Want to Know More? 5/07/2018 Q&A Will My Husband Ever Be Able to Self-Regulate His Behavior? 5/07/2018 Q&A Why Did My Spouse Leave His Wedding Band on While He Was with the Affair Partner? 5/07/2018 Q&A How I Can Get past My Husband's Lack of Seeing the Affair Partner for Who She Is? 5/07/2018 Q&A How I Can Get past My Husband's Lack of Seeing the Affair Partner for Who She Is? 5/07/2018 Q&A Why Would My Mate Embellish the Story of Their Affair? 5/02/2018 Q&A Can Our Marriage Survive If My Husband Never Sees the Affair for What It Was? 5/02/2018 Q&A What Is an Exit Affair? 4/25/2018 Q&A Who's Responsible? 4/18/2018 Expert Q&A Preview: Did My Mate Mean It When He Said 'I Love You' to His Affair Partner? 4/11/2018 Q&A Did My Mate Mean It When He Said 'I Love You' to His Affair Partner? 4/11/2018 Q&A Was He in Love with His Affair Partner? 4/11/2018 Q&A Is It Possible to Not Have Feelings for the Affair Partner? 4/05/2018 Q&A What Is a Validation Addiction? 3/05/2018 Q&A If My Unfaithful Mate Was Mentally ill, Do I Have the Right to Be Angry with Him? 3/05/2018 Q&A Can the Unfaithful Really Not Have an Answer to the 'Why'? 2/14/2018 Q&A Is It Common for Affairs to Start in the Midst of Traumatic Events? 2/14/2018 Q&A Are Affairs the Direct Result of Marital Deficits? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Could He Be so Loving and Romantic Toward the AP? 2/14/2018 Q&A Are There Affairs That Aren't Limerent Affairs? 1/23/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What My Mate Was Thinking? 1/22/2018 Q&A Does He Really Want Me? 12/20/2017 Q&A Is He an Addict? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Did My Husband Treat Me Like His Greatest Enemy during His Secret Affair? 12/20/2017 Q&A Do You Think Cheaters Are Just Morally Bankrupt? 12/20/2017 Q&A Is My Mate Drawn towards Something Bad and Repulsed by Something Good? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Does the Unfaithful Compare Their Mate to the Affair Partner? 12/20/2017 Q&A What Was My Unfaithful Mate Thinking? 11/01/2017 Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'? 11/01/2017 Q&A Why Would They Not End an Affair Because of the Affair Partner's Feelings? 8/11/2017 Q&A What is the Dynamic of the Relationship between Your Ex-Spouses and Their Affair Partners? 8/10/2017 Q&A Do I Keep Moving towards Him in Hopes He Will Leave It All behind, Once and for All? 8/10/2017 Q&A When Can We Focus on the Affair Rather Than Problems in the Marriage? 8/10/2017 Q&A How Long Should I Expect Her to Show No Emotions towards Me and Our Marriage? 8/10/2017 Q&A Are We Deluded about His Porn and Alcohol Use? 8/10/2017 Q&A Can You Elaborate on What You Mean by the Unfaithful Partner Often Affairs Down? 8/10/2017 Q&A Could Someone Really Think This? 8/02/2017 Q&A Why Did My Mate Act Differently with the Affair Partner? 8/02/2017 Q&A Did My Choices Contribute to the Affair? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do We Cope with Differing Marriage Histories? 7/19/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle All of Life's Issues without Losing Focus of the Infidelity? 7/12/2017 Q&A What's Your Take on an Unfaithful Wife Who Still Blames the Marriage for the Affair 1 Year from Discovery? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with a Spouse That Blames Me for the Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A Do We Revert Back to Our Old State Once the Threat Disappears? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is It Common for People to Rationalize Behaviors Other Than Intercourse as 'Okay'? 7/05/2017 Q&A Will My Fantasy Dreams End? 6/28/2017 Q&A Once a Person Cheats, Are They More Likely to Cheat Again? 6/21/2017 Q&A He Says I'm 50% Responsible for His Affair. Is That a Sign of Denial? 6/21/2017 Q&A Aren’t Betrayal and Love Incompatible? 6/21/2017 Pages« first‹ previous12345678next ›last »
