What if the unfaithful doesn't want to name it an 'emotional affair' because he didn't do some of the things on the list that describes emotional affairs? I believe he is still trying to minimize what he's done with numerous females to different degrees and if he doesn't admit his infidelity there will be more ahead. This occurs mostly at work and I also believe he's trying avoid having to make some hard choices about his job scenario.

I need help.

I'm in a committed relationship, but I'm not married, don't have kids and my boyfriend and I live separately.

I had a long distance emotional affair for 2 weeks, and it ended 1 month ago. My boyfriend doesn’t know.

I'm thinking about coming clean to my partner, but I'm not sure if it would be a good idea to do it now, in the middle of the COVID19 situation (we live in México).

It's already hard to find a time and place where I could do the disclosure properly. My family won't let me go anywhere with him, they only agree to have him come over at my house and spend time inside, and I don't think it would be appropiate to have the conversation at home with my family present.

And even if I managed to find a moment to do the disclosure, what would happen next? What if we're forced to stay at our homes for months without the possibility of seeing each other?

Is it wise to wait after the madness of the pandemic is over? Or should I try to disclose as soon as possible and go through the recovery process, despite the uncertainty of the situation? And how should I do it?

I'm sorry if this question is very long or complicated, I hope I make sense

My husband had an emotional affair with a much younger girl at church. About a month ago I discovered that the were having intimate conversations and she even sent him naked pictures of her. I was devastated and very upset with both of them but I decided to forgive them but now I’m dealing with having to see her and even seeing her still having a relationship with my husband. I am a Christian and I know that forgiveness is the right thing to do if I want to be obedient to God. I really want to please God before anything else, but I feel super uncomfortable around her. She is a kid and I know she did wrong but I don’t want to destroy her life over this. I want to show her love and mercy but I am having a hard time when I see her, both of them hurt me very deeply, but reality is that I don’t want to hurt them. I would like to think that all of this was a nightmare and this never happened. I know that you recommended that the unfaithful shouldn’t have a relationship with the affair partner, but what do you recommend in a situation when you have to have a relationship with the spouse’s affair partner. Please advise.

Really appreciate this video. My husband is having an emotional affair with a woman who he met online through playing video games. She is in a committed relationship and lives in a different state. It’s been 3 months since he told me and he does not want to work on fixing our marriage. He doesn’t think that she has anything to do with him feeling this way, but doesn’t want to give her up. We’ve been living in separate rooms since I found out and things have just gotten more serious with them. Though it doesn’t look like she will ever leave her bf for my husband, my husband is willing to pick up and move for her. The way he defends her and acts while texting her breaks me. After I found out about the affair, I was so broken and knew I need to get right with God. I really have been leaning on God since then and even though it seems like there is no hope I trust that he will get me through it. But it does still hurt. I have come to the conclusion that even though I’ve been making changes that in the end, I can’t change my husband. I’m focusing on my individual healing and it’s scary but these videos have been really helping me to understand things more.