911 Marriage ---
Moving Beyond Betrayal

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Hi, Rick Reynolds here. As you begin, let me explain what the 911 Marriage course is designed to do.

I realize this is a long letter, but if you're looking to determine if this is right for you, then read on. At the end of the letter, there is another area where you can register. And yes, if you're wondering, there are multiple payment plans...

This isn't for everyone so please decide if this is what you want...

911 Marriage is designed to provide you with:

• A path to healing
• A way to feel adored, admired, appreciated by your mate
• The marriage you've always wanted
• A new start
• Hope for the future
• A carng and loving family
• Stability for your children
• A stable financial future
• Restored hearts
• A way to lessen the pain
• A home filled with joy
• A chance to be loved
• Peaceful sleep
• Security
• The belief that your mate cares.

It does this while eliminating

• Travel
• Isolation
• Feeling misunderstood
• and elephants in the living room

If this is what you're looking for, read on

Here's the story...

I cheated on my wife, devastating my life, her life, and turning our world upside down.

For Stephanie it was really hard because she wasn't sure who to tell... where to turn... who to trust... what to read...or even how to begin to address the mess.  had cost her everything. Her security, her self-respect... the life she had cherished... her dreams of the future...it even cost her pride in the man she'd married.

Not only that, but she was awash in the anguish of my affairs. She had no idea how to stop the pain or quiet the intrusive thoughts. Daily she suffered from the painful reminders of my actions with others.

At the same time, I felt hopeless because I wasn't even sure how to help...what to do...I also just wanted to find some hope and a way to work through the crisis and I wasn't even sure that was possible.

Stephanie desperately wanted a way to move beyond the pain, to stop the intrusive thoughts...to find hope...to feel safe in her marriage again...to feel good about her decisions in life, but neither of us knew how to make that happen, but she was at least willing to explore that possibility.

To tell the truth, we weren't sure where to start. My actions resulted in us having to leave our home and move to another city. To think I was qualified to be a marriage and family therapist was a joke, so I left my career and started building houses (since I had wrecked ours, it seemed like a good profession). Most importantly, I desperately wanted to help Stephanie recover from what I had done.

Please don't think I see myself as a victim; I was the one responsible for the mess. At the same time, I wanted to become a man I could respect and someone Stephanie could feel proud of. Thankfully, Stephanie agreed to work this out with me and so our quest began.

We read everything we could get our hands on. We talked with other couples who had already navigated the healing process of an affair. We talked, we processed, we got honest, and I pursued becoming a man of faith and of character. The journey was amazing. I discovered you can never be loved unconditionally if you only conditionally let the other person know who you are. I was amazed that she could still love me and forgive me and that love began to change me. It wasn't long until everything seemed to change and our marriage became better than ever.

But it wasn't enough. Everywhere we turned, we ran into couples who were hurting...looking for ways to work through their pain...questioning if there was any way to really recover from a betrayal. We shared our story with as many as we could, but it seemed so insignificant compared to the need. After 5 years, Stephanie challenged me to go back to marriage and family therapy and to begin addressing this issue.

All of this has come as a bit of a surprise to me. We never planned for this.   We had no idea that what we had discovered in our recovery could help others. But as the saying goes, "necessity is the mother of invention" and we just wanted our lives back. Furthermore, much of what is contained in this course isn't original. It came from other couples and professionals who had already walked this road and who, thankfully, were willing to help lead us out of the darkness.

It wasn't until later when others, who were aware of our recovery from my infidelity, approached us asking if we would help. We had no idea that this system would work for others, but it did. Not only that, but these couples were healing much faster than Stephanie and me. To say the least, we were shocked. This wasn't anything we'd ever expected or intended. But if others could benefit...

Honestly, I feel really  unworthy to be doing this because of my past, but Stephanie kept reminding me that the failure and redemption of our marriage were the very things that ultimately qualified me.

Eventually, we began to track the couples using the 911 system and it was working for about  90% of them Not only that, but they were telling us their marriages were better than ever.  So we began looking for a way to make the 911 system available for everyone in need and that’s where 911marriageonline.com comes in.

I’m a simple guy and I never planned to be here, but here I am. Even worse I'm terrible at business (ask any of my friends). I wish I could promise that the 911 Marriage system would work for you in the same way it has for thousands of others, but I can’t. I know it works, (like I said that’s what surprised me), but there’s still that 11% or 12% of the time it doesn't help. Which is why I offer a guarantee so I don’t have to lay awake at night feeling I took advantage of someone.

If this 911 Marriage isn't for you or doesn't work for you,  don’t feel bad about asking for your money back. All I ask is that you complete the course. If you’ll do that I know the odds are you’ll begin to find what you want.

A Proven Method
For Recovering From
Infidelity...

Look, I've already worked with thousands of couples who have successfully recovered from infidelity and the vast majority of them now have the marriage they've always wanted.

And there is a process.

There are specific tasks that you can follow that will allow you to move beyond betrayal.

And while you may still have work to do after this 90 day course, if both parties follow this process you will certainly have a good sense of hope about the future and you'll have a new vision for your marriage.

This method works almost every time.

And the best part is...

Is 911 Marriage
Right For You?

There are some great resources written for individuals and couples trying to move beyond a betrayal. There are also some great forums such as BAN and others that give much needed support to those who are hurting. Finally, there are also some great therapists and marital coaches specializing in infidelity who can be a tremendous help. I would highly recommend taking advantage of all these resources but

911 Marriage is a totally unique and effective approach.

What are the
advantages of
911 Marriage?

911 Marriage is an online, group-based course for couples with a weekly group conference call and weekly teaching videos. You learn from the other couples as they wrestle with their recovery. You will gain new insights into your own marriage through their struggles.

• Imagine having others who understand and can support you.
• Imagine finally being believed or understood by your mate.
• Imagine how good it would feel to see a way out of your dilemma.
• Imagine being able to have positive feelings for your mate or to feel your mate has positive feelings toward you again.
• Imagine finally understanding why this happened.
• Imagine feeling hope that you can once again feel safe in your own home.

911 Marriage also provides a new level of flexibility and accessibility. You and your mate can do this course from the convenience of your own home, or if circumstances have you separated, you can still work in the group together; all you need is a phone. Many military families have taken advantage of this flexibility to allow them to continue working on their relationship even when separated by continents.

Finally, 911 Marriage is extremely affordable. My hourly rate is $200 an hour. If you were to come to see me personally for a weekend to cover the same material, it would cost $5,000. This course is less than a 1/10 of that cost and we've found the group process is even more effective. Why wouldn't you take advantage of a process that is more effective and costs less?

What Is
911 Marriage
Like?

In this course you will learn:

• How to deal with intrusive thoughts
• How to help your mate heal from the infidelity
• How to stop anger from being a destructive force in your marriage
• Why this has happened
• What has happened
• How to find new desire for your mate
• How to move beyond the unending questions
• How to get your mate to understand that you get it
• How to work together on the marriage
• How to keep this from ever happening again
• That your mate really does care
• How to find a new vision for your marriage
• How to have a healthy marriage
• Why to have hope

Each of us has an historical lens through which we see our mate. The longer you've been married the more distorted the lens. We don't really see our mate as they truly are or understand their motives.

Instead, we tend to truncate our mate and only see an abbreviated version of the real person. We tend to do this in order to simplify our interactions with them, but it's at the cost of really understanding who they truly are.

A betrayal only complicates this process and now both parties have a tendency to see their mate through a more negative lens. I've actually had people tell me that it took over a year for them to see anything in their mate that they considered positive.

The "group process" provides a vehicle where you can more clearly see and understand your mate. It is far easier to understand what's happening through the lives of the other couples then it is through your own mate. This new insight promotes a new empathy and compassion.

Why Should You
Believe Me?

I don't know. I'm just an ordinary guy. My only claim to fame is having married well and had a mate who was willing and able to take this journey with me, and who helped me learn about love and forgiveness. I have done the necessary research to show this approach works because I didn't want you to just believe me. I wanted to be able to prove that it works.

What does that mean to you? Why should you care?

It means simply this: I some how developed a system that can help you and your mate move beyond the wounds created by betrayal.

The 911 Marriage course is a blueprint you can use to find a path of healing for you and your mate in just 90 days. This is more than possible, but there are a few requirements:

• You need to complete the 90 day course
• You need to do the homework
• You need to join a weekly telephone conference
• You need to be open to looking at yourself
• You will need to spend about 4 hours a week on the course with the videos, conference calls, and homework.

Discover The Marriage
You've Always Wanted

In fact, if you buy 911 Marriage it might do for you what it's been able to do for many more before you.

Imagine:

• Having your mate finally "get it
• Having others who understand
• Having a safe and caring relationship
• Having a new found hope for the future
• Knowing what to do next
• Liking the person you're married to

Seriously consider the reasons for salvaging your marriage:

• Imagine being able to have a marriage where there is mutual respect, mutual caring, and mutual honesty. If you could have that type of marriage, why would you settle for an empty lonely room?
• Divorce sucks, and while that may seem like the only path out of your dilemma, it's not true. Research shows that it takes about five years to recover from a divorce, but less than two years to move beyond a betrayal. It will only take you 90 days to get your marriage back on the right track; why wouldn't you spend 90 days to see if you could save yourself five years of your life?
• If you have children, then for their sake at least explore whether you can work it out. The impact of divorce on children is staggering, not only does it complicate their lives, but research indicates it will impact their future standard of living as well as take four years off their life expectancy.
• For your own sake. If you are the type of person who believes in the institution of marriage and never imagined yourself as part of the divorce statistics, then personal integrity would suggest you explore working through the infidelity.

Frequently Asked
Questions
If you and I were talking you might have some questions about whether 911 Marriage would work for you. Since we're not sitting face to face, let me answer a few commonly asked questions...

Q. "What if I'm not sure if I want to save the marriage?"

A. Well, if you not sure you want to save your marriage, that also means you're not sure that you don't want to save it. Many couples find that the course helps them solidify what they would like to do. So you can use it as a means of determining what you want to do. Considering the emotional, financial, and relational cost of divorce, don't you think it might be worth exploring, for 90 days, whether or not your marriage could become what you've always wanted?

Q. "But I don't have any feelings for my mate, why should I think they would ever come back?"

A. Not having feeling at this point is normal. It's common for either the hurt spouse or the unfaithful spouse to have lost all desire for their mate. In fact, it's even worse than that, often it feels as if it's less than zero and the thought of your mate touching you, or you having to touch your mate, is repulsive. Even so, there is a strong probability those feelings will come back, but not without some changes on both your parts.

Now look, let's get real. People can and do change. The very fact that you have different feelings today than you did on the day you got married is proof that you can change. In fact, if on that day someone had told you that you would change and come to a point where you couldn't stand to be near your mate, you would have laughed and said it would never happen. When I tell you that you can change and find a strong desire for your mate again, then you'll laugh and say it couldn't happen, but you're wrong. It can.

The challenge, however, is that negative change can occur with little or no effort, but positive change takes effort on our part. If you're not willing to do the work, then you're right, change won't happen. But, if you'll get the necessary help, it can and 911 Marriage is a great place to start.

Q. "We already have a marriage therapist. Why would we want to do your course?"

A. The 911 Marriage course supplements normal marriage and family therapy. It is not therapy, it's education. But, it has several features that really help the recovery process. Having other couples working through the same program really helps facilitate understanding, honesty, caring, respect, and support. Many find that using this process is like putting the recovery process on steroids. It will help you move quickly and efficiently through the initial stages of your recovery process. In fact, you can use the exercises in your therapy to help facilitate healing.

Q. "What if we have to miss a week?"

A. One advantage of 911 Marriage is the flexibility it affords. All you need is access to a telephone to join your scheduled group, but if you can't make it then....with the group's permission, that session could be recorded so you could listen to it later, and/or you would be given time in the next group session to present your homework. You'll find your group to be very supportive and my experience has been they will do whatever is necessary to help you get what you need.

Q. "How can an online course really work?"

A. To me that is one of the most amazing discoveries of this process. Logically it would seem that it wouldn't work as well as being face to face with others, but research shows it actually works as well or better. I'm not sure I can tell you exactly why, but I have a theory. 90% of communication is visual. We pick up all kinds of messages from body language, but where there are no visuals we naturally begin to fill in the missing pieces. We imagine how others look, what their meanings and intents are. With an online course we get to fill in the blanks in the way that works best for us. In 911 Marriage you never see what the other people look like; you never even know their last names. For that reason, you get to just fill in the blanks as to who they are and as humans we tend to imagine them to be the way we need them to be in order for us to get the greatest benefit. It naturally takes away the judgments we might unconsciously make of others and allows us to see and hear their hearts more clearly, thereby helping us to better understand our own situation.

Q. "Why not just hire a marriage therapist to take us through this process?"

A. You should if you can afford it. As a professional marriage and family therapist, I know it can be very helpful. My only suggestion would be to get a therapist who specializes in working with infidelity. However, a good marriage and family therapist, at $100 an hour for 12 sessions might cost you $1,200. If you're not quite able to afford those rates, then 911 Marriage is a great option. Additionally, 911 Marriage offers ongoing support beyond the first 90 days to assure that you get the help you need.

Q. "What if this format doesn't work for me?"

A. That would be rare, but certainly possible. If it doesn't work that's why we offer an iron-clad guarantee. We want your healing far more than your money. If all we wanted was money, there would be much easier ways to set this system up, but that's not our goal. If it doesn't work, just let us know. You've already had to take enough risk just getting to this point; we'll take the risk for whether or not this works for you.

That being said, I would ask that you not judge the product before you complete the course. You can't possibly know whether or not it will work by your initial judgments. There is a proven process, but you have to be willing to go through the process in order for it to work.

Q. "Why does it cost so much?"

A. I guess that's a matter of opinion. Most of my friends, and even past participants, keep asking why is it so cheap. There is nothing else like this on the market. You are getting over 12 hours of video, which take you step by step through first stages of recovery. You are getting a professionally facilitated group once a week to keep you on track and to assure you are moving in the right direction. You are getting access to a mentor couple who can help encourage and facilitate your healing and you are getting access to forums and other free resources. While I know it's not as cheap as a book, it's not the same as a book. If you were to spend the same amount of time in individual or couple’s therapy and if you were to purchase all of the support courses, it would cost you well over a thousand dollars. It's not cheap, but for what you're getting, it's far less expensive than any other alternative.

Q. "I don't believe you. What do you have to say to that Mister Smarty Pants?

A. I don't blame you... you don't know me (if you did, you would trust me with your kids, your car, and your credit cards... and you would know you were 100% safe in doing so) But I understand the question.

That's why I offer...

What’s the cost?

The cost of 911 Marriage is $495 and some of you might be thinking that’s too much and others a steal?

(and yes there is a payment plan)

Let me put it into perspective…

It’s cheaper than one months child support..

It’s cheaper than attorneys.

It’s cheaper than than a divorce.

The cost of the 911 Course is driven by the delivery system. It’s not a book. You will have a professional moderator for each group call and a professional moderator to facilitate the calls.

You will also receive Two workbooks, one for the hurt spouse and one for the unfaithful spouse along with 12 DVDs for each week of the course.

In addition you will have access to the 911 Forums giving you the ability to communicate with others who are like you while maintaining your anonymity.

Even better I’ll answer your personal questions about recovery at the weekly 911 marriage Q and A call in. That resource alone is worth more than $2,000.

And since I want to be able to sleep at night,

and to assure you get your money’s worth I’m including…

Married For Life (10 month after care program) value $495

Our goal at the 911 marriage is for you to have a better than ever marriage. To that end we’ve developed the Married For Life program (MFL) This is a marriage enrichment program for you 911 Marriage small group that will help maintain support, but also give you some solid tools to enhance your marriage. This program is delivered by streaming video and PDF documents. To my knowledge this is the only program where you will receive 10 more months of support for free.

Access to Affair Recovery radio broadcast and articles  value $75

The Affair Recovery Archives contains all of the ARC Radio broadcast. There are over 50 episodes covering just about any topic you can imagine. This resource alone is like having a set of encyclopedias.

$50 discount for the Harboring Hope course

The is  a 12 week an online course for the hurt spouse.

$50 discount for the “New Live” course

This is a 12 week online course is for the unfaithful mate.

Total value of the bonus’s  $670

And just to make sure you feel you got a good value for your money I provide…

My Iron-Clad Guarantee

Don't Just Take My Word For It...

What Others Have To Say About Their Experience With 911 Marriage

Here's What to Do Now...

Imagine the peace you'd feel in having your questions answered, the relief in having the pain and suspicion stop...knowing your mate understood and cared...being able to feel good about yourself again...feeling safe in your own home...