I completed the EMS online course. At first I was very apprehensive about it, knowing that it was a different cultural experience and I may be subject to 13 weeks of absorbing blame and accepting fault. I must admit that there is a high level of accepting responsibility for the wrongs that you would have done to someone who you made a vow to. However, each phase of the program allows you to contextualize the responsibility that you are taking. The greatest benefit for me was the ability to retrace my own personal history and understand the factors that would have led to me making poor decisions. The fact that spirituality is at the core of it will keep any believer in check, especially me who had multiple affairs. I have already recommended this course to many folks in my area and I believe it can help us look at infidelity through a different lens.