Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less How to Survive Infidelity Recovery Timeline The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The 2 Stages of Pain How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted We Started Well, but... Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Free Resources Type Title Posted Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 9/14/2016 Why People Cheat - Part III - Justifications of the Unfaithful 9/8/2016 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 9/1/2016 Overcoming Trauma after Infidelity at EMS Weekend, Interviewing an Expert 8/24/2016 Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 8/18/2016 The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful 8/11/2016 Stuck? Three Methods to Get Moving 8/3/2016 The Infidelity Divorce Syndrome: Divorce Recovery After Infidelity 7/27/2016 Expert Q and A Submission: Should we consider separating? 7/20/2016 How do you deal with anger after infidelity? 7/14/2016 Emotional Affair: Will It Ever End? 7/7/2016 Discovery: Why do I Want to Know? 6/29/2016 Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair 6/23/2016 The Use and Abuse of the Polygraph 6/16/2016 Why Did They Cheat? Part 2: Entrapped or Enchanted 6/8/2016 Why Did They Cheat? Part 1:The Role of Oxytocin 6/2/2016 Michael & Melinda's Mentor Video 6/1/2016 Failing to Recommit 5/26/2016 Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 5/19/2016 Is My Mate Safe? 5/10/2016 A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey: Rewriting the Past 5/4/2016 How Does the Betrayed Spouse Grieve Properly? 4/27/2016 Living Without Fear 4/19/2016 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 4/13/2016 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 3 3/29/2016 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 2 3/22/2016 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 3/15/2016 Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 3/10/2016 The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 3/1/2016 The Story that Started Affair Recovery 2/24/2016 A Protocol for Reminders 2/17/2016 Surviving Infidelity: How Do You Handle The Disclosure Process? 2/9/2016 Surviving Infidelity: Avoid These Common Mistakes 1/27/2016 What is Healing? 1/20/2016 A Crucial Step To Surviving Infidelity: Discovery. Goals for the Betrayed - Part 4 1/13/2016 My Spouse Had an Affair: What Should I Do Now? 1/5/2016 Surviving the Holidays: 6 Tips 12/22/2015 Recovering from infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy 12/15/2015 Understanding Female Sexual Addiction: An Interview with a Survivor 12/9/2015 Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel? 12/2/2015 Affair Recovery Q & A: Answers from an Expert 11/17/2015 How to Prevent Relapse: Healing After an Affair 11/10/2015 Why Did They Cheat? Part 3: Do They Have an Addiction? 11/4/2015 Why She Cheats 10/28/2015 The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 10/20/2015 Find Strength for Your Journey With the Survivors' Blog 10/12/2015 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 10/8/2015 Is a Marriage Retreat Worth It? Interview with a Pioneer in the Field 9/30/2015 Monotonous Monogamy and the Emotional Affair 9/22/2015 Are They Lying About "Why?" 9/15/2015 1234> next
