Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How to Survive Infidelity Recovery Timeline How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons We Started Well, but... Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Free Resources Type Title Posted Discovery: Why Do I Want to Know? 4/14/2021 Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair 4/7/2021 A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering 3/24/2021 Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 3/17/2021 The Fight to Forgive 3/10/2021 Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known 3/3/2021 Hope for Healing Excerpt: 'Is My Life Out of Control?' 2/24/2021 When to Save a Marriage and Surviving Infidelity 2/17/2021 Discovery: Part 4 - Goals for the Betrayed 2/10/2021 Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 2/3/2021 Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 1/27/2021 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 1/20/2021 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 1/13/2021 Who is the Other Woman? 1/6/2021 Ever wonder why men cheat and why women cheat? 12/30/2020 Surviving the Holidays: 7 Tips 12/23/2020 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 12/16/2020 The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 12/8/2020 The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 12/2/2020 Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel? 11/25/2020 Tweeting Or Cheating? Social Media Affairs And What To Do 11/18/2020 Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help 11/11/2020 Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 11/4/2020 Your Brain on Porn and Understanding the Sex Addict 10/28/2020 The Mystery of Change 10/21/2020 Is Change Really Possible? 10/14/2020 Relapse: Why Can't You Stop? 10/7/2020 What are the 5 simple and proven steps that will protect your marriage? 9/30/2020 Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Unfaithful 9/23/2020 Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Betrayed 9/16/2020 Life After Divorce: How the Unfaithful Sees It 9/9/2020 Should I Get a Divorce? Am I Being Naive? 9/2/2020 Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 8/26/2020 Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 8/19/2020 Hope Rising 2020 Announcement 8/11/2020 Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy 8/5/2020 Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 7/29/2020 Practical Suggestions for Forgiveness 7/22/2020 Forgiving Infidelity: The Gift of Forgiveness 7/15/2020 Handling Disappointment After Infidelity 7/8/2020 Denial and Recovery 7/1/2020 Surviving Infidelity Part 2: What Didn’t Work For Unfaithful Spouses 6/24/2020 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 6/17/2020 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 6/10/2020 Is It Normal? 6/3/2020 Failing to Recommit 5/27/2020 The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 5/20/2020 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability 5/13/2020 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/6/2020 Make Four Months of Progress in Three Days 5/1/2020 12345> next
