Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity We Started Well, but... 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The 2 Stages of Pain The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Recovery Timeline Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 254 Resources Type Title Posted Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5/25/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? 5/18/2022 Failing to Recommit 5/11/2022 Wanting to Be Wanted 5/04/2022 Limerence: Infatuation and How It Works 4/27/2022 Lessons Learned 4/20/2022 Romanticism: Don't Believe the Lie 4/13/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Love Addiction 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Emotional Affair 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Wanting the Marriage and the Affair 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Sexual Addiction 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Fallen in Love 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: One-Night Stand 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs 4/06/2022 How to Prevent Relapse: Healing After an Affair 3/30/2022 Understanding Codependency and Betrayal: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 3/22/2022 What Is A Forgiveness Letter? 3/16/2022 Forgiveness: How Does 70 Times 7 Work? 3/09/2022 Is There Hope After Infidelity? 3/02/2022 Affair Partners: Eight Reasons Not to Confront Them 2/23/2022 Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair 2/16/2022 Betrayal Trauma: How We Get Stuck in Trauma Bonds 2/09/2022 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 2/02/2022 Announcing NEW Infidelity Video Blog: Songs for the Soul 1/26/2022 Grieving Betrayal 1/19/2022 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 1/12/2022 How to Survive Infidelity 1/05/2022 Dealing with Reminders 12/29/2021 Surviving the Holidays: 7 Tips 12/22/2021 Social Shame: Four Ways to Stay In It 12/13/2021 Social Shame: Surviving Infidelity Isn’t Enough 12/08/2021 Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 12/01/2021 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 11/24/2021 The Number One Issue And How To Recover From An Affair 11/17/2021 The Use and Abuse of the Polygraph 11/10/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 4: The Problem With Addictions 11/03/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 3: Do They Have an Addiction? 10/27/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 2: Entrapped or Enchanted 10/20/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 1:The Role of Oxytocin 10/13/2021 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 10/06/2021 The #1 Challenge to Recovery 9/29/2021 Healing After An Affair: Emotional Flooding & Reminders 9/22/2021 Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 2: The Art of Cherishing 9/15/2021 Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 1: How to Reengage 9/08/2021 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 9/01/2021 Mastering Marriage Part 2: Practicing the Process of Marriage and Recovery 8/25/2021 Mastering Marriage Part 1: Interpreting Plateaus in Marriage and Recovery 8/18/2021 A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey: Rewriting the Past After Disclosure 8/11/2021 Pages123456next ›last »
