Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity The 2 Stages of Pain We Started Well, but... 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Problem with Forgiveness Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Recovery Timeline Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 258 Resources Type Title Posted Life After Divorce: How the Unfaithful Sees It 8/03/2022 Should I Get a Divorce? Am I Being Naive? 7/27/2022 Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 7/20/2022 What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 7/13/2022 Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 7/06/2022 Common Justifications for Why Women Cheat 6/29/2022 How Does My Spouse Escape the Neurochemical Process of Limerence? 6/22/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 6/08/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It 6/01/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5/25/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? 5/18/2022 Failing to Recommit 5/11/2022 Wanting to Be Wanted 5/04/2022 Limerence: Infatuation and How It Works 4/27/2022 Lessons Learned 4/20/2022 Romanticism: Don't Believe the Lie 4/13/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Love Addiction 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Emotional Affair 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Wanting the Marriage and the Affair 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Sexual Addiction 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Fallen in Love 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: One-Night Stand 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs 4/06/2022 How to Prevent Relapse: Healing After an Affair 3/30/2022 Understanding Codependency and Betrayal: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 3/22/2022 What Is A Forgiveness Letter? 3/16/2022 Forgiveness: How Does 70 Times 7 Work? 3/09/2022 Is There Hope After Infidelity? 3/02/2022 Affair Partners: Eight Reasons Not to Confront Them 2/23/2022 Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair 2/16/2022 Betrayal Trauma: How We Get Stuck in Trauma Bonds 2/09/2022 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 2/02/2022 Announcing NEW Infidelity Video Blog: Songs for the Soul 1/26/2022 Grieving Betrayal 1/19/2022 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 1/12/2022 How to Survive Infidelity 1/05/2022 Dealing with Reminders 12/29/2021 Surviving the Holidays: 7 Tips 12/22/2021 Social Shame: Four Ways to Stay In It 12/13/2021 Social Shame: Surviving Infidelity Isn’t Enough 12/08/2021 Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 12/01/2021 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 11/24/2021 The Number One Issue And How To Recover From An Affair 11/17/2021 The Use and Abuse of the Polygraph 11/10/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 4: The Problem With Addictions 11/03/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 3: Do They Have an Addiction? 10/27/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 2: Entrapped or Enchanted 10/20/2021 Pages123456next ›last »