Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Problem with Forgiveness Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How to Survive Infidelity We Started Well, but... Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Recovery Timeline The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 260 Resources Type Title Posted Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 12/07/2022 Pleasing Versus Loving 11/29/2022 Healing After the Affair: Whether or Not to Get Help 11/23/2022 How to survive an affair – How much should I share with my spouse? 11/15/2022 Handling Disappointment After Infidelity 11/08/2022 The Mystery of Change 11/02/2022 Is Change Really Possible? 10/26/2022 Am I Who They Want? 10/19/2022 Were They Thinking of Me? 10/12/2022 The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022 Anger: Its 6 Roots 9/28/2022 Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 9/21/2022 The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 9/14/2022 Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation 9/07/2022 Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 8/31/2022 The Fantasyland of an Affair 8/24/2022 Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 8/10/2022 Life After Divorce: How the Unfaithful Sees It 8/03/2022 Should I Get a Divorce? Am I Being Naive? 7/27/2022 Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 7/20/2022 What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 7/13/2022 Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 7/06/2022 Common Justifications for Why Women Cheat 6/29/2022 How Does My Spouse Escape the Neurochemical Process of Limerence? 6/22/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 6/08/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It 6/01/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5/25/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? 5/18/2022 Failing to Recommit 5/11/2022 Wanting to Be Wanted 5/04/2022 Limerence: Infatuation and How It Works 4/27/2022 Lessons Learned 4/20/2022 Romanticism: Don't Believe the Lie 4/13/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Love Addiction 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Emotional Affair 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Wanting the Marriage and the Affair 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Sexual Addiction 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Fallen in Love 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: One-Night Stand 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs 4/06/2022 How to Prevent Relapse: Healing After an Affair 3/30/2022 Understanding Codependency and Betrayal: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 3/22/2022 What Is A Forgiveness Letter? 3/16/2022 Forgiveness: How Does 70 Times 7 Work? 3/09/2022 Is There Hope After Infidelity? 3/02/2022 Affair Partners: Eight Reasons Not to Confront Them 2/23/2022 Pages123456next ›last »
