Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less We Started Well, but... How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The 2 Stages of Pain Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Recovery Timeline Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Free Resources Type Title Posted Why Did They Cheat? Part 1:The Role of Oxytocin 10/13/2021 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 10/6/2021 The #1 Challenge to Recovery 9/29/2021 Healing After An Affair: Emotional Flooding & Reminders 9/22/2021 Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 2: The Art of Cherishing 9/15/2021 Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 1: How to Reengage 9/8/2021 Mastering Marriage Part 2: Practicing the Process of Marriage and Recovery 8/25/2021 Mastering Marriage Part 1: Interpreting Plateaus in Marriage and Recovery 8/18/2021 A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey: Rewriting the Past After Disclosure 8/11/2021 My Spouse Had an Affair: What Should I Do Now? 8/4/2021 How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity? 7/28/2021 After Infidelity: How Wise Are You? 7/21/2021 Denial and Recovery After an Affair 7/14/2021 How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity? 7/7/2021 Is Ambivalence Common When Healing from Infidelity? 6/30/2021 The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful 6/23/2021 Recovering From Infidelity Pain: Are They Lying About ‘Why’? 6/16/2021 Stuck? 3 Methods to Get Moving in Infidelity Recovery 6/9/2021 Mental Health and Parenting: How to Support Yourself and Your Kids 6/2/2021 How Couples Can Promote Good Mental Health During and After the COVID-19 Pandemic 5/26/2021 Hope Rising Conference 2021 Announcement: Words of Wisdom from Keynote Speaker Shauna Shanks 5/19/2021 Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity 5/12/2021 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/5/2021 What Is the Cost of Forgiving Infidelity? 4/28/2021 A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity 4/21/2021 Discovery: Why Do I Want to Know? 4/14/2021 Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair 4/7/2021 A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering 3/24/2021 Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 3/17/2021 The Fight to Forgive 3/10/2021 Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known 3/3/2021 Hope for Healing Excerpt: 'Is My Life Out of Control?' 2/24/2021 When to Save a Marriage and Surviving Infidelity 2/17/2021 Discovery: Part 4 - Goals for the Betrayed 2/10/2021 Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 2/3/2021 Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 1/27/2021 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 1/20/2021 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 1/13/2021 Who is the Other Woman? 1/6/2021 Ever wonder why men cheat and why women cheat? 12/30/2020 Surviving the Holidays: 7 Tips 12/23/2020 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 12/16/2020 The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 12/8/2020 The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 12/2/2020 Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel? 11/25/2020 Tweeting Or Cheating? Social Media Affairs And What To Do 11/18/2020 Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help 11/11/2020 Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 11/4/2020 Your Brain on Porn and Understanding the Sex Addict 10/28/2020 The Mystery of Change 10/21/2020 12345> next
