Relapse Prevention
Relapse is not the end of recovery, nor is it necessarily inevitable, but you will need a plan in place to maintain recovery. Learn to stay the course through the seasons of recovery.
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323 Resources
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Text How to Survive Infidelity 3/06/2024
Video Q&A Is It Ok for My Husband to Meet With His Affair Partner? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Tell My Unfaithful Spouse I Need Access to His Devices to Feel Safe? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A Can You Clarify What It Looks Like for Someone to Go into the Pre-contemplative and Contemplative Stage after a Relapse? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A What Is the Best Way to Keep Boundaries in a Situation Where the Affair Happens in a Tight Knit Community? 11/28/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With My Sexual Addiction When Everything I’ve Tried Isn’t Working? 10/23/2023
Video Q&A Are the Requests I’m Making to Feel Safe Unreasonable? 10/23/2023
Video Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Feel Unsafe When My Wife Is around the Affair Partner without Me? 10/23/2023
Video Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me? 9/12/2023
Text Relapse: Why Can't You Stop? 8/23/2023
Video Q&A What Is the Best Way to Set Boundaries in the Workplace? 8/15/2023
Video Q&A Should My Husband Contact the Affair Partner to Break Things off If They Haven’t Had Contact in Almost a Year? 6/29/2023
Video Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted? 5/19/2023
Video Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal? 5/19/2023
Text What Is the Cost of Forgiving Infidelity? 5/10/2023
Video Q&A Is It Necessary for Him to Be Proactive or Should I Be Happy He’s Doing What I Ask of Him? 4/12/2023
Video Q&A How Do We Handle Workplace Triggers in Recovery? 4/12/2023
Text Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 3/08/2023
Video Q&A What Action Do You Recommend If My Mates Behavior Doesn’t Change? 3/02/2023
Video Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable? 1/11/2023
Text Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 12/07/2022
Video Q&A How Can My Spouse Work with the Affair Partner and Still Be Okay? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A Is It Possible for Someone to Quit Porn Cold Turkey? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership? 7/07/2022
Video How Does My Spouse Escape the Neurochemical Process of Limerence? 6/22/2022
Video Q&A What Do I Do If My Spouse Works with Their Affair Partner? 5/24/2022
Video Q&A Is It OK for the Wayward Spouse to Keep in Touch with Affair Partners from the past That Happened Years before Us? 4/20/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Move Forward Knowing That He Already Has The Mindset That This Could Happen Again? 4/08/2022
Video Q&A How Do We Move Forward after Several Relapses? 4/06/2022
Text How to Prevent Relapse: Healing After an Affair 3/30/2022
Video Q&A Do You Agree It’s Necessary to Re-Establish No Contact? 2/17/2022
Video Q&A Should a Wayward Spouse Be Allowed to Have Friends of the Opposite Gender? 2/17/2022
Text Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 1/12/2022
Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 4: The Problem With Addictions 11/03/2021
Video Q&A Is It Common for the Wayward Spouse to Go Back to the Affair Partner? 10/07/2021
Video Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A How Do My Spouse and I Get On the Same Level When It Comes to Appropriate Communication to His Affair Partner about Their Daughter? 8/02/2021
Video Q&A I Want Proof That His Affair Partner Has Been Contacted and Told That It Is 100% Over and He Will Never Contact Her Again. How Do I Go About This? 6/16/2021
Video Q&A Is It Wrong to Expect My Husband to Stop Contact with an Affair Partner Who Is Close to the Family and My Best Friend? 5/12/2021
Video Q&A How on Earth Do I Enforce Boundaries during This Time without Pushing Her Back to the Affair Partner? 4/29/2021
Text Travel Plan: How to Create One and Why They're Worthwhile 3/31/2021
Video Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing? 2/11/2021
Video Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors? 1/25/2021
Video Q&A How Can I Get My Husband to Understand the Importance of Boundaries? 1/20/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Deal with Constant Relapse? 1/14/2021
Video Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask Her to Stop Social Media Use? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Should My Husband Find Another Job to Protect Himself from Relapse? 9/24/2020
Video Q&A What Factors Are Important When Deciding If the Wayward Spouse Needs to Leave a Job to Distance from the Affair Partner? 9/03/2020
Video Q&A What Continued Work Do You Recommend for the Years to Come? 7/16/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Trust My Husband in the Future If Only He and I Know? 6/03/2020

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