Relapse Prevention Relapse is not the end of recovery, nor is it necessarily inevitable, but you will need a plan in place to maintain recovery. Learn to stay the course through the seasons of recovery. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors We Started Well, but... The 2 Stages of Pain How to Survive Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Recovery Timeline 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected 316 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me? 9/12/2023 Relapse: Why Can't You Stop? 8/23/2023 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Set Boundaries in the Workplace? 8/15/2023 Q&A Should My Husband Contact the Affair Partner to Break Things off If They Haven’t Had Contact in Almost a Year? 6/29/2023 Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted? 5/19/2023 Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal? 5/19/2023 What Is the Cost of Forgiving Infidelity? 5/10/2023 Q&A Is It Necessary for Him to Be Proactive or Should I Be Happy He’s Doing What I Ask of Him? 4/12/2023 Q&A How Do We Handle Workplace Triggers in Recovery? 4/12/2023 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 3/08/2023 Q&A What Action Do You Recommend If My Mates Behavior Doesn’t Change? 3/02/2023 Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable? 1/11/2023 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 12/07/2022 Q&A How Can My Spouse Work with the Affair Partner and Still Be Okay? 12/06/2022 Q&A Is It Possible for Someone to Quit Porn Cold Turkey? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership? 7/07/2022 How Does My Spouse Escape the Neurochemical Process of Limerence? 6/22/2022 Q&A What Do I Do If My Spouse Works with Their Affair Partner? 5/24/2022 Q&A Is It OK for the Wayward Spouse to Keep in Touch with Affair Partners from the past That Happened Years before Us? 4/20/2022 Q&A How Do I Move Forward Knowing That He Already Has The Mindset That This Could Happen Again? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Do We Move Forward after Several Relapses? 4/06/2022 How to Prevent Relapse: Healing After an Affair 3/30/2022 Q&A Do You Agree It’s Necessary to Re-Establish No Contact? 2/17/2022 Q&A Should a Wayward Spouse Be Allowed to Have Friends of the Opposite Gender? 2/17/2022 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 1/12/2022 How to Survive Infidelity 1/05/2022 Why Did They Cheat? Part 4: The Problem With Addictions 11/03/2021 Q&A Is It Common for the Wayward Spouse to Go Back to the Affair Partner? 10/07/2021 Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do My Spouse and I Get On the Same Level When It Comes to Appropriate Communication to His Affair Partner about Their Daughter? 8/02/2021 Q&A I Want Proof That His Affair Partner Has Been Contacted and Told That It Is 100% Over and He Will Never Contact Her Again. How Do I Go About This? 6/16/2021 Q&A Is It Wrong to Expect My Husband to Stop Contact with an Affair Partner Who Is Close to the Family and My Best Friend? 5/12/2021 Q&A How on Earth Do I Enforce Boundaries during This Time without Pushing Her Back to the Affair Partner? 4/29/2021 Travel Plan: How to Create One and Why They're Worthwhile 3/31/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing? 2/11/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors? 1/25/2021 Q&A How Can I Get My Husband to Understand the Importance of Boundaries? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with Constant Relapse? 1/14/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask Her to Stop Social Media Use? 10/22/2020 Q&A Should My Husband Find Another Job to Protect Himself from Relapse? 9/24/2020 Q&A What Factors Are Important When Deciding If the Wayward Spouse Needs to Leave a Job to Distance from the Affair Partner? 9/03/2020 Q&A What Continued Work Do You Recommend for the Years to Come? 7/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Trust My Husband in the Future If Only He and I Know? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Avoid Relapse? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Do the Processes for Recovery and Relapse Prevention Differ for Sex Addicts? 5/19/2020 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Helping Us Break Contact with the Affair Partner? 4/16/2020 Q&A What Behaviors Constitute Relapse? 3/10/2020 Q&A Is There Hope of Healing without Relapse along the Way? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Can We Prevent Relapse in This Work Situation? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do We Keep the Affair Partner from Pursuing My Spouse? 2/14/2020 Pages1234567next ›last »
