Relapse Prevention Relapse is not the end of recovery, nor is it necessarily inevitable, but you will need a plan in place to maintain recovery. Learn to stay the course through the seasons of recovery. Must Reads more less The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The 2 Stages of Pain How to Survive Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Recovery Timeline We Started Well, but... 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Problem with Forgiveness Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected 309 Resources Type Title Posted Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 3/08/2023 Q&A What Action Do You Recommend If My Mates Behavior Doesn’t Change? 3/02/2023 Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable? 1/11/2023 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 12/07/2022 Q&A How Can My Spouse Work with the Affair Partner and Still Be Okay? 12/06/2022 Q&A Is It Possible for Someone to Quit Porn Cold Turkey? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership? 7/07/2022 How Does My Spouse Escape the Neurochemical Process of Limerence? 6/22/2022 Q&A What Do I Do If My Spouse Works with Their Affair Partner? 5/24/2022 Q&A Is It OK for the Wayward Spouse to Keep in Touch with Affair Partners from the past That Happened Years before Us? 4/20/2022 Q&A How Do I Move Forward Knowing That He Already Has The Mindset That This Could Happen Again? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Do We Move Forward after Several Relapses? 4/06/2022 How to Prevent Relapse: Healing After an Affair 3/30/2022 Q&A Do You Agree It’s Necessary to Re-Establish No Contact? 2/17/2022 Q&A Should a Wayward Spouse Be Allowed to Have Friends of the Opposite Gender? 2/17/2022 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 1/12/2022 How to Survive Infidelity 1/05/2022 Why Did They Cheat? Part 4: The Problem With Addictions 11/03/2021 Q&A Is It Common for the Wayward Spouse to Go Back to the Affair Partner? 10/07/2021 Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do My Spouse and I Get On the Same Level When It Comes to Appropriate Communication to His Affair Partner about Their Daughter? 8/02/2021 Q&A I Want Proof That His Affair Partner Has Been Contacted and Told That It Is 100% Over and He Will Never Contact Her Again. How Do I Go About This? 6/16/2021 Q&A Is It Wrong to Expect My Husband to Stop Contact with an Affair Partner Who Is Close to the Family and My Best Friend? 5/12/2021 Q&A How on Earth Do I Enforce Boundaries during This Time without Pushing Her Back to the Affair Partner? 4/29/2021 What Is the Cost of Forgiving Infidelity? 4/28/2021 Travel Plan: How to Create One and Why They're Worthwhile 3/31/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing? 2/11/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors? 1/25/2021 Q&A How Can I Get My Husband to Understand the Importance of Boundaries? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with Constant Relapse? 1/14/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask Her to Stop Social Media Use? 10/22/2020 Relapse: Why Can't You Stop? 10/07/2020 Q&A Should My Husband Find Another Job to Protect Himself from Relapse? 9/24/2020 Q&A What Factors Are Important When Deciding If the Wayward Spouse Needs to Leave a Job to Distance from the Affair Partner? 9/03/2020 Q&A What Continued Work Do You Recommend for the Years to Come? 7/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Trust My Husband in the Future If Only He and I Know? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Avoid Relapse? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Do the Processes for Recovery and Relapse Prevention Differ for Sex Addicts? 5/19/2020 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Helping Us Break Contact with the Affair Partner? 4/16/2020 Q&A What Behaviors Constitute Relapse? 3/10/2020 Q&A Is There Hope of Healing without Relapse along the Way? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Can We Prevent Relapse in This Work Situation? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do We Keep the Affair Partner from Pursuing My Spouse? 2/14/2020 Q&A Can I Trust That the Affair Is Really Over? 1/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Spouse Still Trying to Contact the Affair Partner? 12/16/2019 Q&A At What Point Do the Thoughts, Feelings, and Mental Pictures Go Away? 11/21/2019 Q&A Should We Continue with the Course Work in Spite of Relapse? 11/14/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle a Relapse in the Middle of Recovery? 11/05/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal, Recover, and Prevent Relapse? 10/16/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe about My Husband Having Female Friends at Work? 9/26/2019 Pages1234567next ›last »
