How to Forgive Everyone’s recovery looks different, but one consistent factor that must occur is forgiveness. Read the articles in this section to understand the process of forgiveness and to find tools for moving forward. Must Reads more less How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Power of Small Groups Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 164 Resources Type Title Posted The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 4/16/2025 The Myth of Greener Grass in Marriage 4/09/2025 Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 4/02/2025 Q&A Can I Forgive My Husband for Abandonment? 4/01/2025 What Are Some Practical Steps to Take to Forgive My Spouse? 2/04/2025 Mistakes Families Make After an Affair 11/13/2024 Reclaiming Dignity and Worth as a Woman with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC 8/28/2024 The Process of Healing from Infidelity 8/07/2024 Is Forgiveness Really Possible? 6/26/2024 Creating Healing Spaces 5/01/2024 Q&A What Does Making Restitution Look Like in a Marriage after an Affair? 1/30/2024 Q&A How Do I Get over the Fact He Wanted to Walk Out on Us? 1/30/2024 Who is the Other Woman? 12/06/2023 Forgiving Infidelity: The Gift of Forgiveness 11/07/2023 The Fight to Forgive 8/30/2023 What Is the Cost of Forgiving Infidelity? 5/10/2023 Q&A What If the Only Way I Can Heal Is without Horizontal Forgiveness? 4/12/2023 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Marrying Someone While Choosing to Essentially Re-Marry Him? 8/03/2022 Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 7/06/2022 What Is A Forgiveness Letter? 3/16/2022 Q&A Should My Unfaithful Spouse Make a Symbolic Sacrifice to Help My Healing? 11/04/2021 Q&A How Should I Answer Him When He Says I Should Forgive Him like the Bible Says to Forgive? 4/29/2021 Q&A Why Can't I Forgive One of the Multiple Affairs? 1/20/2021 Q&A Must I Be Completely Finished with the Grieving Task before I Can Move to Forgiveness? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Can I Take Control of My Life So That I Can Forgive and Heal? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is It Important for Me to Actually Tell Him That I Have Forgiven Him? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Do I Cope, Accept, and Reconcile with the Reckless Choice My Husband Made? 8/06/2020 Q&A Do You Have Any Suggestions on Forgiving Someone You Can't Work through Things With? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is It Possible to Forgive a Person but Not Forgive Their Actions? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is It Possible or Even Wise to Forgive My Spouse? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward in Forgiving Myself? 2/20/2020 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See the Time during the Affair as Something Other Than Tainted or Fake? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Get past the Things I Think He Might Have Said to Her? 1/31/2020 Q&A How Can I Ever Desire My Mate When I Can't Forget What Happened? 11/22/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies 11/13/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness 11/06/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment 10/30/2019 Q&A Can We Ever Get past This If I Know That I Don't Want to Forgive My Mate? 8/06/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about My Behavior? 7/03/2019 Q&A Is There a Chance for Forgiveness or Reconciliation? 6/11/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle the Injustice of It All? 6/05/2019 Q&A Is There a Difference between Just Getting over What Happened and Forgiveness? 5/21/2019 Q&A Does Forgiveness Give My Mate a Free Pass? 3/27/2019 Q&A How Do I Forgive the Unforgivable? 3/27/2019 Q&A Why Am I so Concerned About the Affair Partner? 3/20/2019 The Problem with Forgiveness 3/06/2019 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 1/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Choosing to Stay? 1/09/2019 Q&A Is This Normal or Is This a Sign of Unforgiveness? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Do We Navigate Forgiveness with outside Parties? 11/07/2018 Pages1234next ›last »
