How to Forgive Everyone’s recovery looks different, but one consistent factor that must occur is forgiveness. Read the articles in this section to understand the process of forgiveness and to find tools for moving forward. Must Reads more less How to Survive Infidelity We Started Well, but... Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? How do you respond to blackmail? Part II The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Recovery Timeline How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The 2 Stages of Pain Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Problem with Forgiveness Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 155 Resources Type Title Posted Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 9/21/2022 The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 9/14/2022 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Marrying Someone While Choosing to Essentially Re-Marry Him? 8/03/2022 Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 7/06/2022 What Is A Forgiveness Letter? 3/16/2022 Forgiveness: How Does 70 Times 7 Work? 3/09/2022 Q&A Should My Unfaithful Spouse Make a Symbolic Sacrifice to Help My Healing? 11/04/2021 Q&A How Should I Answer Him When He Says I Should Forgive Him like the Bible Says to Forgive? 4/29/2021 What Is the Cost of Forgiving Infidelity? 4/28/2021 The Fight to Forgive 3/10/2021 Q&A Why Can't I Forgive One of the Multiple Affairs? 1/20/2021 Who is the Other Woman? 1/06/2021 Q&A Must I Be Completely Finished with the Grieving Task before I Can Move to Forgiveness? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Can I Take Control of My Life So That I Can Forgive and Heal? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is It Important for Me to Actually Tell Him That I Have Forgiven Him? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Do I Cope, Accept, and Reconcile with the Reckless Choice My Husband Made? 8/06/2020 Practical Suggestions for Forgiveness 7/22/2020 Forgiving Infidelity: The Gift of Forgiveness 7/15/2020 Q&A Do You Have Any Suggestions on Forgiving Someone You Can't Work through Things With? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is It Possible to Forgive a Person but Not Forgive Their Actions? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is It Possible or Even Wise to Forgive My Spouse? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward in Forgiving Myself? 2/20/2020 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See the Time during the Affair as Something Other Than Tainted or Fake? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Get past the Things I Think He Might Have Said to Her? 1/31/2020 Q&A How Can I Ever Desire My Mate When I Can't Forget What Happened? 11/22/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies 11/13/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness 11/06/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment 10/30/2019 Q&A Can We Ever Get past This If I Know That I Don't Want to Forgive My Mate? 8/06/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about My Behavior? 7/03/2019 Q&A Is There a Chance for Forgiveness or Reconciliation? 6/11/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle the Injustice of It All? 6/05/2019 Q&A Is There a Difference between Just Getting over What Happened and Forgiveness? 5/21/2019 Q&A Does Forgiveness Give My Mate a Free Pass? 3/27/2019 Q&A How Do I Forgive the Unforgivable? 3/27/2019 Q&A Why Am I so Concerned About the Affair Partner? 3/20/2019 The Problem with Forgiveness 3/06/2019 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 1/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Choosing to Stay? 1/09/2019 Q&A Is This Normal or Is This a Sign of Unforgiveness? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Do We Navigate Forgiveness with outside Parties? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do We Move past All the Secrets? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Forgive What My Mate Has Done? 10/10/2018 Q&A How Do We Get Closure? 9/12/2018 Q&A What Does Desire for Reconciliation Look Like? 9/12/2018 Q&A Is There Hope for Us? 8/01/2018 Q&A How Can We Move past Resentments and Heal Our Marriage? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Do I Move past the Feelings of Rage I Have Towards the Affair Partner? 7/11/2018 Q&A What Does Forgiveness Look like after Multiple Relapses? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust and Become Vulnerable Again? 6/06/2018 Pages1234next ›last »
