Rebuilding Trust In the short run, transparency can take the place of trust until trust is reestablished. Learn the components of trust, how to function in its absence, and what it takes to reconnect. Must Reads more less Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected We Started Well, but... Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? The 2 Stages of Pain Recovery Timeline Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How do you respond to blackmail? Part II 326 Resources Type Title Posted Romanticism: Don't Believe the Lie 4/13/2022 Q&A How Can I Trust Him Again? 3/10/2022 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 2/02/2022 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 1/12/2022 How to Survive Infidelity 1/05/2022 The Number One Issue And How To Recover From An Affair 11/17/2021 Q&A How Can We Make Progress and How Can I Trust Him? 10/07/2021 Q&A How Can I Move Forward While Convinced That He Is Still Lying to Me? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Can We Ever Build Trust? 5/12/2021 Q&A Should I Ask My Wife to Take Another Polygraph? 5/12/2021 Q&A How Do We Safely and Respectfully Navigate Reconciliation, and Re-Integration to the Home, While Separated? 3/22/2021 Q&A What Steps Can I Take to Learn to Trust Again? 3/04/2021 Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story? 2/23/2021 Q&A How Do I Know What Is Too Much Information? 1/28/2021 Q&A Can I Trust That He Is Being Honest? 1/20/2021 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Discern If or When It's Safe to Trust Him Again? 11/12/2020 Q&A What Does Moving Forward a Year Later Look Like? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When I Don't Believe Something That He Consistently Says Is True? 10/05/2020 Q&A How Do We Get to the Truth? 10/05/2020 Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 8/19/2020 Forgiving Infidelity: The Gift of Forgiveness 7/15/2020 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Q&A As the Wayward Spouse, How Can I Rebuild Trust with My Husband? 7/09/2020 Q&A What Can I Tell Him to Do for Me If I Can’t Trust Anything He Says or Does? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Trust a Man That Has Cheated Most of Our Marriage? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Is Being Genuine? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Do I Build Trust with My Wayward Spouse? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do We Build Trust When I Don't Quite Feel Safe Yet? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Trust My Husband in the Future If Only He and I Know? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Now Distinguish between Truth and Deception? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Are Your Suggestions When It’s Hard to Trust? 4/28/2020 Q&A Will We Ever Be Able to Restore Trust in Our Marriage? 4/28/2020 Q&A What Methods Do You Recommend for Restoring Trust? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery? 1/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Ever Trust Again without Knowing the Full Truth? 1/09/2020 Q&A How Do We Restore Trust? 1/09/2020 Q&A Why Wasn't My Husband Honest with Me? 1/03/2020 Q&A How Do We Rebuild Trust? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Re-Establish Trust? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Differentiate between What Secrets Are Safe to Keep and Which Should Be Shared? 12/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Fix the Problem of Trickle Truth? 12/16/2019 Q&A How Can I Begin to Trust with All of the Trickle Truth Happening? 12/05/2019 Q&A How Do I Know Who My Mate Really Is? 11/22/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Safely Reaching Full Disclosure without a Polygraph? 11/21/2019 Q&A Why Can't My Mate Be Honest? 11/05/2019 Q&A How Can We Move Forward with This Lack of Trust? 10/02/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Is Being Honest When Discussing the Affair Partner? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Can I Trust What the Wayward Spouse Is Disclosing to Me? 9/18/2019 Pages1234567next ›last »