Rebuilding Trust In the short run, transparency can take the place of trust until trust is reestablished. Learn the components of trust, how to function in its absence, and what it takes to reconnect. Must Reads more less Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected How to Survive Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Recovery Timeline How do you respond to blackmail? Part II The Problem with Forgiveness Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The 2 Stages of Pain We Started Well, but... 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 343 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me? 9/12/2023 Q&A Why Do I Still Respond Physically like I Am Lying When I’m Telling the Truth? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Can Someone Who Has Become Such an Accomplished Liar Prove to the Betrayed Spouse That They Can Be Trusted? 4/12/2023 Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed? 4/12/2023 Q&A How Do I Approach This Polygraph without Feeling like My Marriage Is on the Line? 3/17/2023 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 3/08/2023 Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate That I’m Not Talking to the Affair Partner? 3/02/2023 Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 1/04/2023 Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Who Won’t Be Open with Me? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Can My Spouse Work with the Affair Partner and Still Be Okay? 12/06/2022 Q&A What Do I Do If I Don’t Believe My Mate Has Been Completely Honest with Their Full Disclosure? 10/13/2022 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Believe I’m Not Manipulating Him? 10/13/2022 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When I’m Not Sure He Can Admit to Himself What His Demons Are? 8/26/2022 Q&A Can I Truly Trust a Polygraph? 6/14/2022 Q&A Where Does a Failed Polygraph Leave Us in Regards to a Timeline in Recovery? 5/24/2022 Q&A What Do I Do If My Spouse Works with Their Affair Partner? 5/24/2022 Romanticism: Don't Believe the Lie 4/13/2022 Q&A How Can I Trust Him Again? 3/10/2022 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 2/02/2022 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 1/12/2022 How to Survive Infidelity 1/05/2022 The Number One Issue And How To Recover From An Affair 11/17/2021 Q&A How Can We Make Progress and How Can I Trust Him? 10/07/2021 Q&A How Can I Stop the Feeling That I Constantly Need to Check on My Wayward Spouse for Safety? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Best Do I Ask for This Information So That He Understands the Level of Transparency I Need to Feel Safe? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Can I Move Forward While Convinced That He Is Still Lying to Me? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Can We Ever Build Trust? 5/12/2021 Q&A Should I Ask My Wife to Take Another Polygraph? 5/12/2021 Q&A How Do We Safely and Respectfully Navigate Reconciliation, and Re-Integration to the Home, While Separated? 3/22/2021 Q&A What Steps Can I Take to Learn to Trust Again? 3/04/2021 Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story? 2/23/2021 Q&A How Do I Know What Is Too Much Information? 1/28/2021 Q&A Can I Trust That He Is Being Honest? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Discern If or When It's Safe to Trust Him Again? 11/12/2020 Q&A What Does Moving Forward a Year Later Look Like? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When I Don't Believe Something That He Consistently Says Is True? 10/05/2020 Q&A How Do We Get to the Truth? 10/05/2020 Forgiving Infidelity: The Gift of Forgiveness 7/15/2020 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Q&A As the Wayward Spouse, How Can I Rebuild Trust with My Husband? 7/09/2020 Q&A What Can I Tell Him to Do for Me If I Can’t Trust Anything He Says or Does? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Trust a Man That Has Cheated Most of Our Marriage? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Is Being Genuine? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Do I Build Trust with My Wayward Spouse? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do We Build Trust When I Don't Quite Feel Safe Yet? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Trust My Husband in the Future If Only He and I Know? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Now Distinguish between Truth and Deception? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Are Your Suggestions When It’s Hard to Trust? 4/28/2020 Pages1234567next ›last »