Harboring Hope

Online Course For Betrayed Spouses.

Regardless of whether the unfaithful spouse is supportive, unsupportive, or gone, we want you to feel hope again. Whole again. Home again. Harboring Hope is specifically designed for betrayed spouses by professional counselors who are also betrayed spouses. We know the pain. We have been there. We want you to know that you are not alone, you are not crazy, and you are not destined to grieve forever. Harboring Hope can help you discover what you need to heal and help you find hope in your circumstance. We want to rebuild your confidence and give you room to thrive.

How to Sign up:

View registration details to know when Harboring Hope registration opens and subscribe to be notified. When registration opens, view registration details to add to your cart. Click here to review the available group times.

“The pain of infidelity is overwhelming and all-consuming. Harboring Hope is a gift. For me, Harboring Hope is people who truly understand my pain and what I'm living through. Without them, it feels as if I would have no hope.” - A, Armenia

What resources will I have?

This faith-based course joins you with other betrayed spouses of the same gender in a private small group. The group communicates via a weekly telephone conference call as well as an online small group wall that is accessible 24/7. Your small group is a safe, intimate place where you receive support from others while on your path to recovery. Harboring Hope includes:

  • Workbook written by experts
  • Streamed lecture videos
  • Weekly small group conference calls
  • Monthly Q&A Broadcast with Harboring Hope authors Leslie Hardie and John Haney
  • Small group wall for support throughout the week.
  • Complimentary six month Recovery Library membership

“Harboring Hope gave me the structure I needed to be able to work through the darkest time in my life so far.” -R, Texas

How does the healing process look in my day-to-day life?

Each week, you’ll start by reading the workbook chapter and watching the lecture video of Leslie and John. As you read the chapter, you will complete homework exercises, some of which you will share during your small group call. In addition, you’ll be able to submit questions to Leslie Hardie, LCSW and John Haney, PhD, LPC, the authors of Harboring Hope. Each month, we film their answers during a Q&A session and post them for you to watch online. You’ll also gain access to a library of past Harboring Hope Q&A sessions.

Upcoming Group Times

Below are the current available Group Days and Times for the upcoming registration. We will continue to add new groups as they become available prior to registration opening: Please note: All times are listed in U.S.A. Central Time zone. For help knowing what time it is in your time zone, use this tool - https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html

Important Note: The weekly conference call will NOT be a toll free number. It is a USA landline number and your calling plan rates will apply. If you are calling from outside the U.S. and do not have an applicable International calling plan, we suggest you use a VoIP system (i.e. Skype, Vonage, etc.). Purchasing VoIP credit is typically much less expensive than calling rates.

All women's groups for September 2019 Registration:

  • *SOLD OUT* Sundays at 12:00 PM CENTRAL TIME (women only)
  • *SOLD OUT* Sundays at 2:00 PM CENTRAL TIME (women only)
  • *SOLD OUT* Mondays at 1:00 PM CENTRAL TIME (women only)
  • *SOLD OUT* Mondays at 7:00 PM CENTRAL TIME (women only)
  • *SOLD OUT* Tuesdays at 7:00 PM CENTRAL TIME (women only)
  • *SOLD OUT* Tuesdays at 8:30 PM CENTRAL TIME (women only)
  • *SOLD OUT* Tuesdays at 9:00 PM CENTRAL TIME (women only)
  • *SOLD OUT* Wednesdays at 12:00 PM CENTRAL TIME (women only)
  • *SOLD OUT* Wednesdays at 1:00 PM CENTRAL TIME (women only)
  • *SOLD OUT* Wednesdays at 8:30 PM CENTRAL TIME (women only)
  • *SOLD OUT* Thursdays at 9:00 AM CENTRAL TIME (women only)
  • *SOLD OUT* Thursdays at 8:00 PM CENTRAL TIME (women only)
  • SOLD OUT* Thursdays at 8:30 PM CENTRAL TIME (women only)

All men's groups for September 2019 Registration:

  • *SOLD OUT* Sundays at 8:00 PM CENTRAL TIME (men only)
  • *SOLD OUT* Mondays at 8:00 PM CENTRAL TIME (men only)
  • *SOLD OUT* Thursdays at 8:00 PM CENTRAL TIME (men only)

During your checkout process, you will have the above day/time combinations from which to choose. Select all that apply when purchasing. If you are not available for any of the listed day/time options, please email us at info@hope-now.com. This time and day will be when your Small Group meets via conference call each week for the 13 weeks. Once we’ve finalized the groups, we will email your group’s Start Date to you.

Harboring Hope also includes 6 months of free access to the Recovery Library, a $180 value containing hundreds of articles, videos, and Q&A recordings by Affair Recovery's experts.

Who are the Group Leaders?

Group Leaders are carefully selected. Almost all of our Group Leaders are alumni of Affair Recovery’s programs who are several years out. After experiencing incredible healing themselves, they feel a calling to help others who are where they once were. They have the compassion, desire, and talent that’s required to lead groups through this process. Our Group Leaders have more than just book-knowledge because they’ve personally experienced infidelity. They don’t just have sympathy; they have real empathy. We’ve found that people who have walked this path before and who have completed our Group Leader training program are able to provide incredible support, leadership, and encouragement during this difficult time. They are a light to others in darkness.

What have participants said about Harboring Hope?

“Harboring Hope provided me the opportunity to receive the excellent support and resources I desperately needed to heal. It literally provided me a way out of the isolation that the despair of infidelity can bring and into the fellowship of hope found through shared experiences of recovery.” – L, New Mexico

“My Harboring Hope time was just that MY time. My time to heal. My time to receive encouragement and hope. It was exactly what I needed to begin navigating through this nightmare to a hopeful tomorrow.” –D, Kansas

“When I joined HH, I thought I was the only person experiencing the pain I was going through. Then I was connected with 5 other guys from Alaska to Austin. All of a sudden, I heard my story through their mouths. The same hurt, anger and frustrations were all expressed by these men. I'm so thankful for not only Harboring Hope, but for the other men that were able to work with me through our betrayal. I wasn't alone in my pain, these men were here to support me and mourn with me. Thanks for bringing hope back into my life.” -J, Arkansas

“Harboring Hope helped facilitate healing and personal growth during the most painful time in my life. I have gone from numbness, deep sorrow, and sadness to living with hope and confidence.” –M, Texas

Please note: Services offered by Affair Recovery are not therapy or counseling. Affair Recovery services are educational.

International? That's okay! We do have limited availability of select evening times offered for those outside of our regular North America times. Email us at info@hope-now.com for details.

​Payment Options

  • Pay in full: 1 payment of $495 
  • Installment Plan:  3 Monthly Installments of $173  

Installment Plan payments for Harboring Hope are not a subscription. They are in place of one single up-front payment.

Scholarships are available. Apply Here

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