Samuel shares insight about a struggle with Samantha on always feeling behind schedule.
Samuel discusses how soon to get to expert help after discovering infidelity in your relationship.
Samuel shares key insights into assumptions we make about our future and what life will look like on the other side of infidelity.
Samuel tackles the misconception that since recovery is a noble thing to do, it should be easy.
My daughter and I have been watching a series we found on Netflix named Dexter. Dexter is a blood spatter analyst by day and a serial killer by night. His adopted father was a cop and recognized Dexter’s “...
Samuel shares insight regarding his early belief that God was done with him and would never use him again.
Samuel shares practical insight on how to generate momentum and consistency in recovery.
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Samuel answers a viewer's question on some of the pitfalls of forgiving your spouse too soon.
Samuel shares the concept of having proper guardrails in recovery after infidelity.
Samuel breaks down a tool in recovery that will help diffuse conflict and restore intimacy much quicker.
Samuel answers the question of the betrayed spouse, 'Am i crazy for being willing to stay and forgive?'.
Samuel shares a hard hitting recovery principle not only for infidelity recovery but general marriage healing as well.
Our emotional diet in recovery speaks volumes. Today Samuel reflects on we are what we feed on.
Today Samuel shares insight on how to stay away from bitterness and how to to avoid the pitfalls of regret.
Samuel shares a humorous but telling story from his childhood which paints a picture of recovery for both spouses who are stuck.
Samuel helps the betrayed spouse deal with regret and fear.
Samuel tackles a difficult but necessary discussion regarding the inability to remember details by the unfaithful spouse.
Today Samuel uses an analogy to discuss how to allow the process of recovery to mold not only yourself but your spouse as well.
Today Samuel discusses how to flow through the endless ups and downs in recovery.
My husband’s affair was disclosed to me on a Friday, and on the following Tuesday, we were tucked into a cozy loveseat in the office of a local therapist recommended by our pastor. I was desperate for...
Today Samuel shares his own experience in adjusting to life after disclosure and embracing new patterns in life.
Samuel answers a viewer's question and helps the unfaithful understand they have power to change their image in the mind of the betrayed.
Samuel answers a viewer's question on how to alter the way they see their spouse early on in recovery.
Today Samuel takes us through a crash course in forgiveness, sharing what it is, what it isn't, and what it actually means to forgive.
The day my husband’s AP showed up at our house and told me that I needed to know “what kind of man I had married” one of my first thoughts was that our marriage was over. How can a marriage survive this type of destruction? I had always...
Today Samuel shares key insight and vision into the new life he and Samantha experience but never saw as a possibility early on.
Samuel shares insight into how recovery doesn't gain momentum upon the mountaintops but through the seemingly unremarkable, mundane days spent in the valleys below.
Today Samuel delves into the anger of the unfaithful spouse.
Today Samuel tackles the concern of pushing the unfaithful toward their affair partner.
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Alumnus. Unfaithful. Doing his best with his 2nd chance in his marriage and life.
Alumna. Betrayed. A soul restored. Encouraging others to keep walking because there is a way through. Author of Keep Walking: 40 Days to Hope and Freedom After Betrayal
Alumna. Betrayed. Grateful for God's love and grace. Recognizing that with God as my priority, I will be okay no matter what.
Alumna. Betrayed. Determined to be positive as I navigate the quagmire of recovery.
Alumnus. Betrayed. No matter how long it takes or how hard it is, my wife is always worth it!
Alumna. Betrayed. Learning to love recklessly while I cross the monkey bars of recovery.
"You have to let go at some point in order to move forward." - C.S. Lewis
Alumna. Betrayed. Walking in obedience to God's direction and experiencing a richer life and Renewed marriage.
Alumnus. Unfaithful. Living life differently, enjoying my wife and family, and grateful for God’s love.
Alumna. Betrayed. Experiencing God's love after divorce. Celebrating the healing of myself and my identity.
Alumna. Betrayed. Continuing to fight for my marriage and my children.
Alumnus. Unfaithful. Living proof that seeking truth offers both incredible pain and amazing freedom.