As past participants, we want our walks through infidelity to bring hope, inspiration, and courage to your own journey.
, 3 days 5 hours ago

Samuel shares a hard hitting recovery principle not only for infidelity recovery but general marriage healing as well.

, 4 days 5 hours ago

Our emotional diet in recovery speaks volumes. Today Samuel reflects on we are what we feed on.

, 1 week 3 days ago

Today Samuel shares insight on how to stay away from bitterness and how to to avoid the pitfalls of regret.

, 1 week 4 days ago

Samuel shares a humorous but telling story from his childhood which paints a picture of recovery for both spouses who are stuck.

, 2 weeks 3 days ago

Samuel helps the betrayed spouse deal with regret and fear.

, 2 weeks 4 days ago

Samuel tackles a difficult but necessary discussion regarding the inability to remember details by the unfaithful spouse.

, 3 weeks 3 days ago

Today Samuel uses an analogy to discuss how to allow the process of recovery to mold not only yourself but your spouse as well.

, 3 weeks 3 days ago

Welcome to Affair Recovery's Harboring Hope Monthly Drawing. We want to know you. We want to serve you. This means we want to hear from you!

The first step is telling us what we can do for you. Please tell us why you’d like to...

, 3 weeks 3 days ago

Today Samuel discusses how to flow through the endless ups and downs in recovery.

, 4 weeks 23 hours ago

My husband’s affair was disclosed to me on a Friday, and on the following Tuesday, we were tucked into a cozy loveseat in the office of a local therapist recommended by our pastor.  I was desperate for...

, 1 month 1 hour ago

Today Samuel shares his own experience in adjusting to life after disclosure and embracing new patterns in life.

, 1 month 22 hours ago

Samuel answers a viewer's question and helps the unfaithful understand they have power to change their image in the mind of the betrayed.

, 1 month 1 week ago

Samuel answers a viewer's question on how to alter the way they see their spouse early on in recovery.

, 1 month 1 week ago

Today Samuel takes us through a crash course in forgiveness, sharing what it is, what it isn't, and what it actually means to forgive.

, 1 month 1 week ago

The day my husband’s AP showed up at our house and told me that I needed to know “what kind of man I had married” one of my first thoughts was that our marriage was over. How can a marriage survive this type of destruction? I had always...

, 1 month 2 weeks ago

Today Samuel shares key insight and vision into the new life he and Samantha experience but never saw as a possibility early on.

, 1 month 2 weeks ago

Samuel shares insight into how recovery doesn't gain momentum upon the mountaintops but through the seemingly unremarkable, mundane days spent in the valleys below.

, 1 month 3 weeks ago

Today Samuel delves into the anger of the unfaithful spouse.

, 1 month 3 weeks ago

Today Samuel tackles the concern of pushing the unfaithful toward their affair partner.

, 1 month 4 weeks ago

Today, much to my dismay, I read that timekeepers at the International Earth Rotation and Reference Systems Service will be adding a “leap second” to 2016 (which was already a leap year) on December 31.  The...

, 1 month 4 weeks ago

Detoxing in recovery is not always about the unfaithful spouse and their affair partner or habits, but also about uprooting dysfunction.

, 2 months 5 hours ago

Samuel shares insight on the belief "What a Betrayed Spouse Tolerates they Reinforce".

, 2 months 4 days ago

Only a few short days after discovery, I started searching the internet for answers. I wasn’t even sure what I was looking for, I just randomly entered search phrases such as “my husband had an affair” and “how...

, 2 months 5 days ago

Samuel concludes the "It's never enough for you" series and shares ways to diffuse the frustration surrounding recovery.

, 2 months 6 days ago

Samuel continues his insight with thoughts on why betrayed spouses may say, "It's never enough for you".

, 2 months 1 week ago

Samuel shares insight into a phrase couples in recovery use often when they are frustrated: "It's never enough for you."

, 2 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel continues a discussion today with part 2 of emotional intelligence.

, 2 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel discusses a concept called emotional intelligence both in marriage and in recovery.

, 2 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel discusses a time when his mentor confronted him on his pride and justification.

, 3 months 4 days ago

Samuel discusses the mental struggles of a spouse in recovery due to infidelity.