As past participants, we want our walks through infidelity to bring hope, inspiration, and courage to your own journey.
, 1 day 11 hours ago

Samuel shares a powerful and effective tool for individuals on both sides of infidelity to heal.

, 3 days 10 hours ago

Samuel provides a strategy for those trying to manage triggers and intrusive thoughts after disclosure.

, 1 week 1 day ago

Samuel shares important key principles to repair the lens a betrayed spouse sees their unfaithful partner through.

, 1 week 3 days ago

Samuel discusses emotional vs physical affairs and the impact emotional affairs have on betrayed spouses.

, 2 weeks 1 day ago

Samuel discusses how to navigate trauma in light of recent world events.

, 2 weeks 3 days ago

Samuel discusses anger, the betrayed spouse, and what the unfaithful can do to mitigate that anger.

, 2 weeks 4 days ago

Welcome to Affair Recovery's Harboring Hope Monthly Drawing. We want to know you. We want to serve you. This means we want to hear from you!

The first step is telling us what we can do for you. Please tell us why you’d like to take Harboring Hope.If you made a comment prior to a previous registration period, that comment is still good for your entry.

Remember, submit a comment of 500 words or less about why you'd like to take the Harboring Hope course. Remember, it's a random drawing so your entry won't be based on merit or on your situation. Comments will be moderated by AR...

, 3 weeks 13 hours ago

What do the words 'I'm sorry' really mean? They are used so frequently that they don't seem to carry much weight. If you are like me, however, they are the first thing we mutter when we realize we have made a mistake or done something wrong. When it comes to the pain of infidelity, the words 'I'm...

, 3 weeks 1 day ago

Samuel gives direction to both the betrayed and unfaithful on how to deal with isolation after disclosure.

, 3 weeks 3 days ago

Samuel helps the betrayed spouse understand if an unfaithful spouse is genuinely sorry or just sorry they got caught.

, 4 weeks 1 day ago

Samuel discusses a classic problem couples in crisis face when trying to heal from infidelity or addiction.

, 1 month 1 day ago

Samuel shares insight behind the need to choose your spouse.

, 1 month 5 days ago
Car Washes in the Dark

My husband and I have two teenagers in our house, and we are trying our best to raise them into responsible and caring adults. For those of you that have already been there and done that, I'm hoping you can look back on that time with a smile. You survived it. Teenagers, after all, can be quite fun, and they can add a lot of energy to the house.

For those of you that haven't or might not ever get a chance to raise these...

, 1 month 6 days ago

Samuel discusses infidelity and how to detox from an affair partner.

, 1 month 1 week ago

Samuel helps both spouses understand how to address blind spots in repair work.

, 1 month 1 week ago
healing emotional vertigo

Sometimes, my thoughts are punishing, my brain on fire.

Have you experienced this?

I am someone who deserves to be understood and cherished rather than criticized and improved.

It is time to arrest the process of depletion caused by the trauma I have suffered. It's time to stop ignoring my body's signals and instead allow them the authority to teach me about myself, time to keep...

, 1 month 1 week ago

Samuel answers the question: "What does it mean to own it in repair work?"

, 1 month 2 weeks ago

Samuel answers the question of whether the betrayed spouse should be farther along than they are.

, 1 month 2 weeks ago

Unfaithful Spouses,

You have been working really hard. Since discovery, you have received a chance at a new life, and you are determined to change your behavior. You want to see crumbs of hope in your marital relationship, but all you see is pain. What is likely underneath that pain is a violation so deep...

, 1 month 2 weeks ago

Samuel shares insight from his own personal journey on finding personal healing and restoration.

, 1 month 3 weeks ago

Samuel answers a popular question from betrayed spouses.

, 1 month 3 weeks ago

Samuel discusses what contempt does to couples who are trying to heal from infidelity or addiction.

, 1 month 4 weeks ago

Samuel shares critical insight for both the unfaithful and betrayed spouse who are trying to heal.

, 2 months 3 days ago

Samuel discusses what to do when couples feel stuck.

, 2 months 6 days ago

Samuel answers a question from an unfaithful spouse.

, 2 months 1 week ago

Today, my heart is reminded of the pain that once was, the pain that so many of you find yourselves in today. For me, it is a distant, tender scar. It is healing, but if I stare at it long enough or touch it in just the right ways, the pain can all come rushing back.

If you are in the middle of this kind of suffering, you are likely desperate for relief of any kind. Violently painful memories have carved your heart into pieces, and maybe you can't even remember what life...

, 2 months 1 week ago

Samuel discusses a trap many spouses fall into when they feel their spouse won't change.

, 2 months 1 week ago

Samuel discusses a pitfall many spouses fall into after the discovery of infidelity or addiction.

, 2 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel provides direction for those who feel they can't be happy again.

, 2 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel shares encouragement and perspective for those who are trying to heal.