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As past participants, we want our walks through infidelity to bring hope, inspiration, and courage to your own journey.
, 11 hours 13 min ago

Samuel answers a question from a viewer on what if my spouse doesn't respond to boundaries.

, 1 day 19 hours ago

Welcome to Affair Recovery's Harboring Hope Monthly Drawing. We want to know you. We want to serve you. This means we want to hear from you!

The first step is telling us what we can do for you. Please tell us why you’d like to...

, 2 days 9 hours ago

Samuel discusses methods of self love and self care in an effort to defeat codependency.

, 1 week 9 hours ago

Samuel shares practical insight into how to handle and resist triggers in recovery.

, 1 week 2 days ago

Samuel shares three poignant stories of his own recovery to represent different stages both spouses go through in recovery.

, 1 week 6 days ago

As I wrote in my previous blog article, “Is He Worth It?” my husband is capable of both enormous deception and immense change. So the other day when he...

, 2 weeks 9 hours ago

Samantha shares her thoughts on how to handle the emotional and mental aftermath of discovery in infidelity. Today is part two in a series where Samantha shares insight into her personal journey...

, 3 weeks 10 hours ago

Samantha shares insight into her personal journey of recovery in part one of this series.

, 3 weeks 2 days ago

Samuel offers help for the unfaithful spouse on how to handle a conflict with their betrayed spouse.

, 4 weeks 9 hours ago

Samuel offers perspective into handling and processing fear as an unfaithful or betrayed spouse.

, 1 month 10 hours ago

Samuel shares helpful insight for the betrayed spouse on dealing with anger throughout the course of infidelity and disclosure.

, 1 month 5 days ago

Samuel shares insight into why the unfaithful spouse is angry and how to process through it.

, 1 month 1 week ago

Samuel shares insight on one of the key approaches by the betrayed which prevents healing in his third part of the mini series.

Part 1: https://www.affairrecovery....

, 1 month 1 week ago

Sex and intimacy are such big topics and it seems all couples struggle with one or both in some way. Couples that say they don’t struggle in either area are either the rare exception or more likely, they are...

, 1 month 1 week ago

Samuel continues his mini-series on what mindsets prevent healing in recovery.
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, 1 month 2 weeks ago

Samuel shares factors which prevent the betrayed spouse from trusting again.

, 1 month 2 weeks ago

Eleven days after D-day and moving in with his Affair Partner my husband returned home so we could see if our marriage was worth saving. For a couple of hours that evening we sat together reading old letters and looking at old...

, 1 month 3 weeks ago

Samantha joins Samuel again today for the third and final installment of a 3 part series. She shares her side of their journey after infidelity and Samuel's affair from her perspective as the...

, 1 month 3 weeks ago

Samantha joins Samuel again today for the second installment of a 3 part series. She shares her side of their journey after infidelity and Samuel's affair from her perspective as the betrayed...

, 1 month 4 weeks ago

Samantha joins Samuel today for the first installment of a 3 part series. She shares her side of their journey after infidelity and Samuel's affair from her perspective as the betrayed spouse...

, 2 months 4 days ago

Yes? Congratulations!!

Bet you didn’t expect that statement after revealing what felt like your spouse tearing your heart out of your chest and stomping on it, did you?

I remember back...

, 2 months 5 days ago

Samuel explains the journey of recovery and how it continues to be an unfolding process, not a one time event.

, 2 months 1 week ago

Samuel does a follow up to his first video on his journey to faith, addressing disappointment.

, 2 months 1 week ago

Samuel begins a new mini series entitled blockages to healing where he discusses the various roadblocks common to recovery after infidelity.

, 2 months 2 weeks ago

John Gray wrote Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus in 1992 and subtitled it “A Practical Guide for Improving Communication and Getting What You Want in Your...

, 2 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel shares the most important language an unfaithful spouse can speak and the most important language a betrayed spouse looks for.

, 2 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel shares more about he and Samantha's past and how early on, he was terrified of himself.

, 2 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel shares insight about a struggle with Samantha on always feeling behind schedule.

, 2 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel discusses how soon to get to expert help after discovering infidelity in your relationship.

, 3 months 2 days ago

Samuel shares key insights into assumptions we make about our future and what life will look like on the other side of infidelity.

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