As past participants, we want our walks through infidelity to bring hope, inspiration, and courage to your own journey.
, 4 hours 59 min ago

Samuel shares insight on the belief "What a Betrayed Spouse Tolerates they Reinforce".

, 4 days 1 hour ago

Only a few short days after discovery, I started searching the internet for answers. I wasn’t even sure what I was looking for, I just randomly entered search phrases such as “my husband had an affair” and “how...

, 5 days 4 hours ago

Samuel concludes the "It's never enough for you" series and shares ways to diffuse the frustration surrounding recovery.

, 6 days 2 hours ago

Samuel continues his insight with thoughts on why betrayed spouses may say, "It's never enough for you".

, 1 week 6 days ago

Samuel shares insight into a phrase couples in recovery use often when they are frustrated: "It's never enough for you."

, 2 weeks 4 hours ago

Samuel continues a discussion today with part 2 of emotional intelligence.

, 2 weeks 4 days ago

Samuel discusses a concept called emotional intelligence both in marriage and in recovery.

, 2 weeks 5 days ago

Welcome to Affair Recovery's Harboring Hope Monthly Drawing. We want to know you. We want to serve you. This means we want to hear from you!

The first step is telling us what we can do for you. Please tell us why you’d like to...

, 2 weeks 6 days ago

Samuel discusses a time when his mentor confronted him on his pride and justification.

, 1 month 4 days ago

Samuel discusses the mental struggles of a spouse in recovery due to infidelity.

, 1 month 1 week ago

Something occurred at work today that took me back to memories of life just after Dday.  I was a basket case for a while. Even after the worst of it I was still very much buried in the weeds of the jungle that is recovery. It was almost...

, 1 month 1 week ago

Samuel discusses concepts and mannerisms you can't take into the next season of recovery for your marriage or personal life.

, 1 month 1 week ago

Samuel answers a viewer's question on dread and how to fight back when you're living in recovery from an affair.

, 1 month 2 weeks ago

When it comes to intimacy, it’s important to address not only physical intimacy but also spiritual and emotional intimacy. Humans are extremely complex and it is miraculous how our body, mind...

, 1 month 2 weeks ago

Samuel shares his own experience in adjusting to life after disclosing his infidelity and embracing new patterns in life.

, 1 month 3 weeks ago

This week Samuel shares insight about a concept foreign to many in recovery: delayed anger.

, 1 month 3 weeks ago

Samuel shares part two of his mini series on grieving through recovery from infidelity and how we get stuck in the process.

, 1 month 3 weeks ago

Betrayal is a pain like no other. 10 years ago, I didn't know that there was science behind the physical reality I was feeling each year as I passed the anniversary of beginning Affair Recovery...

, 2 months 2 days ago

This week Samuel starts a mini series on the topic of grieving in recovery.

, 2 months 1 week ago

Samuel shares a poignant but delicate topic on how the betrayed spouse can sometimes bully their unfaithful spouse.

, 2 months 1 week ago

Samuel shares a poignant vlog on how unfaithful spouses sometimes bully their betrayed spouse.

, 2 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel answers a pivotal question today: When is the best time to work on your marriage?

, 2 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel gives pointers from his own experiences on what works and what doesn't work when trying to show empathy while recovering from infidelity.

, 2 months 3 weeks ago

Lynn never planned on being the girl you thought of when you found out about a porn problem, but she is. And surprisingly, she's glad she can be that girl for those who are reeling from the...

, 2 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel shares what to look for in both genuine and false empathy.

, 2 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel shares insight on faulty approaches to recovery from infidelity.

, 2 months 4 weeks ago

Samuel shares a recent traumatic experience that uprooted trauma in his own life and how it affected his recovery.

, 2 months 4 weeks ago

Today Samuel shares insight from EMS Weekend as well as his own story about great suffering in recovery from infidelity.

, 3 months 5 days ago

Several times I’ve mentioned in my blog articles that I’m amazed at the positive changes my husband has made since D-day, changes I never thought possible. I’ve made changes as well. Both of our changes have benefited our relationship in...

, 3 months 6 days ago

Today Samuel shares a poignant word picture of what recovery looks like and how healing is found in recovery from infidelity.