Samuel shares insight on the belief "What a Betrayed Spouse Tolerates they Reinforce".
Only a few short days after discovery, I started searching the internet for answers. I wasn’t even sure what I was looking for, I just randomly entered search phrases such as “my husband had an affair” and “how...
Samuel concludes the "It's never enough for you" series and shares ways to diffuse the frustration surrounding recovery.
Samuel continues his insight with thoughts on why betrayed spouses may say, "It's never enough for you".
Samuel shares insight into a phrase couples in recovery use often when they are frustrated: "It's never enough for you."
Samuel continues a discussion today with part 2 of emotional intelligence.
Samuel discusses a concept called emotional intelligence both in marriage and in recovery.
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Samuel discusses a time when his mentor confronted him on his pride and justification.
Samuel discusses the mental struggles of a spouse in recovery due to infidelity.
Something occurred at work today that took me back to memories of life just after Dday. I was a basket case for a while. Even after the worst of it I was still very much buried in the weeds of the jungle that is recovery. It was almost...
Samuel discusses concepts and mannerisms you can't take into the next season of recovery for your marriage or personal life.
Samuel answers a viewer's question on dread and how to fight back when you're living in recovery from an affair.
When it comes to intimacy, it’s important to address not only physical intimacy but also spiritual and emotional intimacy. Humans are extremely complex and it is miraculous how our body, mind...
Samuel shares his own experience in adjusting to life after disclosing his infidelity and embracing new patterns in life.
This week Samuel shares insight about a concept foreign to many in recovery: delayed anger.
Samuel shares part two of his mini series on grieving through recovery from infidelity and how we get stuck in the process.
Betrayal is a pain like no other. 10 years ago, I didn't know that there was science behind the physical reality I was feeling each year as I passed the anniversary of beginning Affair Recovery...
This week Samuel starts a mini series on the topic of grieving in recovery.
Samuel shares a poignant but delicate topic on how the betrayed spouse can sometimes bully their unfaithful spouse.
Samuel shares a poignant vlog on how unfaithful spouses sometimes bully their betrayed spouse.
Samuel answers a pivotal question today: When is the best time to work on your marriage?
Samuel gives pointers from his own experiences on what works and what doesn't work when trying to show empathy while recovering from infidelity.
Lynn never planned on being the girl you thought of when you found out about a porn problem, but she is. And surprisingly, she's glad she can be that girl for those who are reeling from the...
Samuel shares what to look for in both genuine and false empathy.
Samuel shares insight on faulty approaches to recovery from infidelity.
Samuel shares a recent traumatic experience that uprooted trauma in his own life and how it affected his recovery.
Today Samuel shares insight from EMS Weekend as well as his own story about great suffering in recovery from infidelity.
Several times I’ve mentioned in my blog articles that I’m amazed at the positive changes my husband has made since D-day, changes I never thought possible. I’ve made changes as well. Both of our changes have benefited our relationship in...
Today Samuel shares a poignant word picture of what recovery looks like and how healing is found in recovery from infidelity.
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Alumnus. Unfaithful. Doing his best with his 2nd chance in his marriage and life.
Alumna. Betrayed. A soul restored. Encouraging others to keep walking because there is a way through. Author of Keep Walking: 40 Days to Hope and Freedom After Betrayal
Alumna. Betrayed. Grateful for God's love and grace. Recognizing that with God as my priority, I will be okay no matter what.
Alumna. Betrayed. Determined to be positive as I navigate the quagmire of recovery.
Alumnus. Betrayed. No matter how long it takes or how hard it is, my wife is always worth it!
Alumna. Betrayed. Learning to love recklessly while I cross the monkey bars of recovery.
"You have to let go at some point in order to move forward." - C.S. Lewis
Alumna. Betrayed. Walking in obedience to God's direction and experiencing a richer life and Renewed marriage.
Alumnus. Unfaithful. Living life differently, enjoying my wife and family, and grateful for God’s love.
Alumna. Betrayed. Experiencing God's love after divorce. Celebrating the healing of myself and my identity.
Alumna. Betrayed. Continuing to fight for my marriage and my children.
Alumnus. Unfaithful. Living proof that seeking truth offers both incredible pain and amazing freedom.