As past participants, we want our walks through infidelity to bring hope, inspiration, and courage to your own journey.
, 4 hours 13 min ago

Today Samuel uses an analogy to discuss how to allow the process of recovery to mold not only yourself but your spouse as well.

, 13 hours 56 min ago

Welcome to Affair Recovery's Harboring Hope Monthly Drawing. We want to know you. We want to serve you. This means we want to hear from you!

The first step is telling us what we can do for you. Please tell us why you’d like to...

, 23 hours 36 min ago

Today Samuel discusses how to flow through the endless ups and downs in recovery.

, 4 days 23 hours ago

My husband’s affair was disclosed to me on a Friday, and on the following Tuesday, we were tucked into a cozy loveseat in the office of a local therapist recommended by our pastor.  I was desperate for...

, 6 days 1 hour ago

Today Samuel shares his own experience in adjusting to life after disclosure and embracing new patterns in life.

, 6 days 23 hours ago

Samuel answers a viewer's question and helps the unfaithful understand they have power to change their image in the mind of the betrayed.

, 2 weeks 4 hours ago

Samuel answers a viewer's question on how to alter the way they see their spouse early on in recovery.

, 2 weeks 22 hours ago

Today Samuel takes us through a crash course in forgiveness, sharing what it is, what it isn't, and what it actually means to forgive.

, 2 weeks 5 days ago

The day my husband’s AP showed up at our house and told me that I needed to know “what kind of man I had married” one of my first thoughts was that our marriage was over. How can a marriage survive this type of destruction? I had always...

, 3 weeks 5 hours ago

Today Samuel shares key insight and vision into the new life he and Samantha experience but never saw as a possibility early on.

, 3 weeks 1 day ago

Samuel shares insight into how recovery doesn't gain momentum upon the mountaintops but through the seemingly unremarkable, mundane days spent in the valleys below.

, 3 weeks 6 days ago

Today Samuel delves into the anger of the unfaithful spouse.

, 4 weeks 1 day ago

Today Samuel tackles the concern of pushing the unfaithful toward their affair partner.

, 1 month 4 days ago

Today, much to my dismay, I read that timekeepers at the International Earth Rotation and Reference Systems Service will be adding a “leap second” to 2016 (which was already a leap year) on December 31.  The...

, 1 month 5 days ago

Detoxing in recovery is not always about the unfaithful spouse and their affair partner or habits, but also about uprooting dysfunction.

, 1 month 6 days ago

Samuel shares insight on the belief "What a Betrayed Spouse Tolerates they Reinforce".

, 1 month 1 week ago

Only a few short days after discovery, I started searching the internet for answers. I wasn’t even sure what I was looking for, I just randomly entered search phrases such as “my husband had an affair” and “how...

, 1 month 1 week ago

Samuel concludes the "It's never enough for you" series and shares ways to diffuse the frustration surrounding recovery.

, 1 month 1 week ago

Samuel continues his insight with thoughts on why betrayed spouses may say, "It's never enough for you".

, 1 month 2 weeks ago

Samuel shares insight into a phrase couples in recovery use often when they are frustrated: "It's never enough for you."

, 1 month 2 weeks ago

Samuel continues a discussion today with part 2 of emotional intelligence.

, 1 month 3 weeks ago

Samuel discusses a concept called emotional intelligence both in marriage and in recovery.

, 1 month 3 weeks ago

Samuel discusses a time when his mentor confronted him on his pride and justification.

, 2 months 1 week ago

Samuel discusses the mental struggles of a spouse in recovery due to infidelity.

, 2 months 2 weeks ago

Something occurred at work today that took me back to memories of life just after Dday.  I was a basket case for a while. Even after the worst of it I was still very much buried in the weeds of the jungle that is recovery. It was almost...

, 2 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel discusses concepts and mannerisms you can't take into the next season of recovery for your marriage or personal life.

, 2 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel answers a viewer's question on dread and how to fight back when you're living in recovery from an affair.

, 2 months 3 weeks ago

When it comes to intimacy, it’s important to address not only physical intimacy but also spiritual and emotional intimacy. Humans are extremely complex and it is miraculous how our body, mind...

, 2 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel shares his own experience in adjusting to life after disclosing his infidelity and embracing new patterns in life.

, 3 months 4 hours ago

This week Samuel shares insight about a concept foreign to many in recovery: delayed anger.