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As past participants, we want our walks through infidelity to bring hope, inspiration, and courage to your own journey.
, 1 year 1 month ago

Samuel shares six gifts we can give ourselves to help heal from infidelity.

, 1 year 2 months ago
one of the greatest things you can do to help others is not just to share and give what you have, but to help them discover what they have within themselves to help themselves-rita zahara

This quote flashed on the screen behind the minister in church today. He'd already said he was not going to comment on any of the quotes behind him as he had his own schtick to say. When I read this, he lost me for a few moments as I took in the wisdom within the printed words.

And then it occurred to me—I have attempted to pour out the effect my husband's betrayals have had on me in hope that you, the reader, might...

, 1 year 2 months ago

Samuel shares insights from his own personal journey with despair and hopelessness on how to make it to the other side.

, 1 year 2 months ago

Samuel shares the seven biggest pitfalls couples are struggling with in 2019.

, 1 year 2 months ago
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When we entered into recovery from infidelity, there was a long season of disbelief—even though I was telling the truth. Granted, after what I had done to my marriage, I didn't deserve to be believed; nevertheless, it is a very disheartening and discouraging time.

After discovery, I knew I had hit what many would call "rock bottom." I was so tired of my lies, my life, and myself—so I came clean. I told the entire truth about what I had done. For the first time in my life, it felt good to...

, 1 year 2 months ago

It's all too common for women to have to navigate the self-condemning voice of insecurity. And although all of us are susceptible to these narratives, a betrayed woman especially has to fight against the negative messages she might believe about herself in the aftermath of her mate's infidelity. In today's video, you will hear an approach from one of our EMS panel specialists for identifying and moving through personal insecurities and walk away with tools for reclaiming self-acceptance. We hope that you will be encouraged to take a deeper look within as you allow the pain to be transformed.

, 1 year 2 months ago

Samuel interviews Ryan and Jessica who both were unfaithful in their own ways and share how they were able to forgive and heal.

, 1 year 2 months ago
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Remember Inside Out – the Disney Pixar movie where each character represents different parts of a little girl's emotions? Each emotion – or character in the film – vies for attention and control inside her mind. It's a cute idea, and one steeped in reality.

Riley Anderson is born in a small town in Minnesota. Within her mind's Headquarters, five personifications of her basic emotions —...

, 1 year 2 months ago
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Dear Betrayed Wife,

I am the other woman.

By admitting that, I know I am the one person that truly and most easily deserves your hatred and your spite. I know I am a source of your anger and contempt. I am a huge source of your pain. Essentially, I am the person that is largely responsible for the ache in your heart that seems like it will never go away.

I am quite certain you must periodically wish that I had never existed. Of course, I am making a...

, 1 year 2 months ago

Samuel interviews MJ Denis once more, discussing how the betrayed spouse can help soothe themselves when the wayward spouse won't get help of their own.

, 1 year 2 months ago
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I'm not the one who cheated,
why do I feel so ashamed?
Am I going crazy?
Why is this so hard for me?
Is healing actually possible?
Is forgiveness what I think it is?
What's normal when it comes to sex?

As I began to wrap my head around the betrayal in my marriage, I was bombarded with...

, 1 year 2 months ago

MJ Denis returns to the studio to discuss sexual trauma, infidelity, and her upcoming session at Hope Rising 2019.

, 1 year 2 months ago

Samuel interviews an adult child of a wayward spouse who shares her personal journey of healing and restoration.

, 1 year 2 months ago

Samuel shares insight into five ways to measure the effectiveness of your own personal healing.

, 1 year 3 months ago

Samuel has a heart to heart talk with those in crisis due to infidelity about their own healing and restoration.

, 1 year 3 months ago

Samuel uncovers the truth behind why the unfaithful spouse resorts to blaming their spouse or partner for their affair.

, 1 year 3 months ago

Samuel addresses a significant pitfall couples fall into when trying to recover from infidelity.

, 1 year 3 months ago

Samuel answers a viewers question about respect and the repair process.

, 1 year 3 months ago
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I've been reading about something called 'neural plasticity' in Emily Nagoski's book, Come As You Are – a book often recommended by Rick to learn about women's sexuality. In the midst of this seemingly endless period of 'recovery,' I really needed to read something positive and hopeful and validating.

How could a book discussing...

, 1 year 3 months ago
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This past month, I had the opportunity to take a two-week trip traveling through Germany, Poland, Austria, the Alps, and the Czech Republic with my oldest daughter. Although I have journeyed to three of the other continents, I had never been to Europe. It was an educational trip, full of history about Jewish culture, the Nazi regime, and World War II. Growing up, I had an appreciation for history but never had great teachers on the subject. Because of this, I left for the trip excited, yet...

, 1 year 3 months ago

Samuel answers a viewer's question about making it up to the betrayed spouse.

, 1 year 3 months ago

Samuel shares more insight into why the unfaithful spouse must forgive themselves if they are going to heal.

, 1 year 3 months ago

Samuel shares the battle unfaithful spouses must work through towards self compassion.

, 1 year 3 months ago

Samuel discusses some of the most common pitfalls and cop outs spouses use when trying to heal.

, 1 year 3 months ago
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"For what it's worth: it's never too late to be who you want to be. I hope you live a life you're proud of, and if you find that you're not, I hope you have the strength to start over."
– Eric Roth

Three years can sometimes seem like three thousand years, and at other times, it...

, 1 year 4 months ago

Samuel shares a key viewpoint which is essential for couples to heal from infidelity or addiction.

, 1 year 4 months ago

Samuel gets personal today and shares how he handled the loneliness that infidelity created for him.

, 1 year 4 months ago

Samuel shares one of the most important tips to help couples in crisis heal.

, 1 year 4 months ago

Samuel shares four key points to help betrayed spouses reconnect with their unfaithful spouse.

, 1 year 4 months ago
affair recovery - survivors blog - christine - what was real

Last blog I posed a thought life challenge I've heard many betrayed express. Was my life 'real'? I don't know what to believe. What was real and what wasn't? To say that my life had not been what I thought it was would be quite an understatement. Real in every way to me, yet I was in fact controlled via the withholding of vital information to believe I was safe and in the gentle care of a loving, faithful spouse.

I won't pretend to say my thoughts on this are true for anyone but myself, but you may find threads of similarity with my feelings....

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