Samuel discusses the struggle the betrayed spouse feels internally when rushed to heal or 'get over it.'
Samuel answers a common question in healing from infidelity.
Samuel shares one of the biggest mistakes an unfaithful spouse can make in recovery.
Samuel discusses ways to break free form old destructive patters in marriage.
Samuel shares personal tools he would use in recovery.
Samuel shares a significant pitfall couples make in attempting to heal from infidelity.
Samuel shares a particular type of affair called the 'double betrayal' and how to recover from it.
Samuel shares poignant information regarding why spouses both cheat and relapse.
A special "Thank You" from Samuel.
Samuel addresses the desire of betrayed spouses to sometimes see their spouse suffer for their choices.
Samuel shares insight into the observations and struggles of the unfaithful spouse.
Samuel shares one of the pivotal reasons spouses cheat.
Today Samuel discusses a major trap unfaithful spouses fall into after disclosure.
Today Samuel shares helpful insight into do's and don'ts for attempting to woo your spouse back.
Samuel shares key points on how to break free from longing for the past.
Samuel shares personal insight on how to find new strength in recovery.
Samuel discusses what we use to comfort us in our pain and shame, may not always be helpful.
Samuel discusses a major pitfall in recovery: letting pain be our guide.
Samuel discusses the in's and out's of recovery and personal stories of failure and healing.
Samuel lays out a recovery protocol for weariness in recovery from the effects from infidelity.
Samuel answers a pivotal question in recovery: Will all this pain ever go away?
Last May was our three-year anniversary post D-day and as I anticipated, it hardly caused a ripple in my emotions. I knew the day was nearing but we were in a good place and we breezed through it without drama, triggers, or...
Samuel shares humorous but effective stories about how to make it though the dark days of recovery.
Samuel tackles a sensitive subject: understanding the importance of why a spouse cheats.
Samuel shares insight into the choice we have in dealing with the pain of infidelity.
Samuel provides insight into just a few reasons the betrayed spouse can find their recovery paralyzed.
Samuel answers questions about how to handle the pain of ending dysfunction in recovery.
Samuel shares five significant reasons unfaithful spouses remain stuck in their situation.
Today Samuel tackles a complex but important topic in infidelity: enablement.
Samuel shares insight into why the choice to blame is so enticing for unfaithful spouses.
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Alumnus. Unfaithful. Doing his best with his 2nd chance in his marriage and life.
Alumnus. Betrayed. Trying to find his way back.
Alumna. Unfaithful. A broken and undeserving mess who is learning what real love looks like.
Alumna. Betrayed. Determined to be positive as I navigate the quagmire of recovery.
Alumna. Betrayed. A soul restored. Encouraging others to keep walking because there is a way through. Author of Keep Walking: 40 Days to Hope and Freedom After Betrayal
Alumna. Betrayed. Grateful for God's love and grace. Recognizing that with God as my priority, I will be okay no matter what.
Alumnus. Betrayed. No matter how long it takes or how hard it is, my wife is always worth it!
Alumna. Betrayed. Learning to love recklessly while I cross the monkey bars of recovery.
"You have to let go at some point in order to move forward." - C.S. Lewis
Alumna. Betrayed. Walking in obedience to God's direction and experiencing a richer life and Renewed marriage.
Alumnus. Unfaithful. Living life differently, enjoying my wife and family, and grateful for God’s love.
Alumna. Betrayed. Experiencing God's love after divorce. Celebrating the healing of myself and my identity.
Alumna. Betrayed. Continuing to fight for my marriage and my children.
Alumnus. Unfaithful. Living proof that seeking truth offers both incredible pain and amazing freedom.