Not long into the process, the conversation started. One woman said,
"Did you hear about so and so?"
The floodgates of opinions opened.
"I can't believe she hasn't just left the SOB".
"What a jerk. How could he do that?" ...
Samuel discusses how defensiveness diminishes safety from the recovery process.
Samuel shares a key approach to helping the unfaithful spouse get healthy after infidelity.
Samuel discusses a major paradigm shift in recovering from infidelity or addiction.
Samuel discusses one of the number one reasons couples don't make it in recovery or marriage.
Samuel answers a viewers question on why the unfaithful will often times withdraw in recovery work.
Samuel shares suggestions for the betrayed spouse in rediscovering the unfaithful's heart.
Hide and seek. This is a game my kids play for hours, even now as teenagers. There is such terror and anxiety in the moments you are waiting but the best part of the whole game is the feeling you get when you are found. I remember when my girls were little and would find great hiding spots. They were so excited they would often yell out, “I’m in here, come find me!” I often wonder why the game was so delightful for them. I’m guessing it...
Samuel shares pointers on how to help the unfaithful rediscover the betrayed's heart.
Samuel shares pivotal insight on how to navigate the transition of recovery work.
Samuel provides framework to one of the most sensitive questions a betrayed spouse can ask their unfaithful spouse.
Who is your confidant? Who do you reach out to when you need to talk? Not just for friendly chit-chats about the latest movie or daily frustrations over child care. But who do you pour out your heart to when you're sad, lonely, scared or angry? More importantly, who listens to your deepest fears, heartache and pain over the betrayal you're living with?
Have you found a confidant that you trust, that special someone who is there when you need to cry, mourn, yell or just sit and be held?
Susan was that...
Samuel provides insight into how to find greater freedom in recovery.
Samuel shares a story form his own journey about healing his heart.
Samuel answers a viewers question on what to do when the betrayed refuses to get help.
Samuel discusses several points on why infidelity has a 'spill over' affect.
Samuel discusses a vital principle in recovery that the unfaithful spouse needs for proper perspective into restoration.
Samuel discusses the topic of unforgiveness from the unfaithful spouse's perspective.
Samuel shares insight into how to protect and care for your own heart after the disclosure of infidelity.
Samuel explains why many betrayed spouses feel stuck later in recovery, even after expert help.
Samuel continues his current series in safety, while addressing un-managed anger in recovery.
Samuel discusses the struggle for couples to make decisions too early in recovery work.
Samuel shares pivotal insight on handling new information, or attempting to ask questions of your unfaithful spouse.
Samuel discusses drip feeding new information to your mate.
Samuel continues his discussion on how to create safety in recovery and address pride.
Samuel continues his discussion on how to create safety in recovery and address denial.
Samuel begins a new series on safety in recovery for both betrayed and unfaithful spouses.
Samuel answers a viewer's question surrounding the future of those who are trying to heal from infidelity.
Samuel shares pivotal insight into recovery work and uncertainty.
Samuel discusses the journey of the betrayed spouse in a unique outlook and approach.
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"You have to let go at some point in order to move forward." - C.S. Lewis
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