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As past participants, we want our walks through infidelity to bring hope, inspiration, and courage to your own journey.
, 7 months 1 week ago
text hereThe other day I was getting my haircut. If you are a woman, or even know a woman, you most likely know we can be in there for hours. I pay to be blonder than I am.

Not long into the process, the conversation started. One woman said,
"Did you hear about so and so?"
The floodgates of opinions opened.
"I can't believe she hasn't just left the SOB".
"What a jerk. How could he do that?"
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, 7 months 1 week ago

Samuel discusses how defensiveness diminishes safety from the recovery process.

, 7 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel shares a key approach to helping the unfaithful spouse get healthy after infidelity.

, 7 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel discusses a major paradigm shift in recovering from infidelity or addiction.

, 7 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel discusses one of the number one reasons couples don't make it in recovery or marriage.

, 7 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel answers a viewers question on why the unfaithful will often times withdraw in recovery work.

, 7 months 4 weeks ago

Samuel shares suggestions for the betrayed spouse in rediscovering the unfaithful's heart.

, 8 months 3 days ago
Find the courage to come out of hiding

Why is hiding so tempting and where does the desire come from?

Hide and seek. This is a game my kids play for hours, even now as teenagers. There is such terror and anxiety in the moments you are waiting but the best part of the whole game is the feeling you get when you are found. I remember when my girls were little and would find great hiding spots. They were so excited they would often yell out, “I’m in here, come find me!” I often wonder why the game was so delightful for them. I’m guessing it...

, 8 months 4 days ago

Samuel shares pointers on how to help the unfaithful rediscover the betrayed's heart.

, 8 months 6 days ago

Samuel shares pivotal insight on how to navigate the transition of recovery work.

, 8 months 1 week ago

Samuel provides framework to one of the most sensitive questions a betrayed spouse can ask their unfaithful spouse.

, 8 months 1 week ago
It's important that you find a confidant after discovery. Do not think you can go through this agony alone.

Who is your confidant? Who do you reach out to when you need to talk? Not just for friendly chit-chats about the latest movie or daily frustrations over child care. But who do you pour out your heart to when you're sad, lonely, scared or angry? More importantly, who listens to your deepest fears, heartache and pain over the betrayal you're living with?

Have you found a confidant that you trust, that special someone who is there when you need to cry, mourn, yell or just sit and be held?

Susan was that...

, 8 months 1 week ago

Samuel provides insight into how to find greater freedom in recovery.

, 8 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel shares a story form his own journey about healing his heart.

, 8 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel answers a viewers question on what to do when the betrayed refuses to get help.

, 9 months 2 days ago

Samuel discusses several points on why infidelity has a 'spill over' affect.

, 9 months 4 days ago

Samuel discusses a vital principle in recovery that the unfaithful spouse needs for proper perspective into restoration.

, 9 months 1 week ago

Samuel discusses the topic of unforgiveness from the unfaithful spouse's perspective.

, 9 months 1 week ago

Samuel shares insight into how to protect and care for your own heart after the disclosure of infidelity.

, 9 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel explains why many betrayed spouses feel stuck later in recovery, even after expert help.

, 10 months 20 hours ago

Samuel continues his current series in safety, while addressing un-managed anger in recovery.

, 10 months 2 days ago

Samuel discusses the struggle for couples to make decisions too early in recovery work.

, 10 months 1 week ago

Samuel shares pivotal insight on handling new information, or attempting to ask questions of your unfaithful spouse.

, 10 months 1 week ago

Samuel discusses drip feeding new information to your mate.

, 10 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel continues his discussion on how to create safety in recovery and address pride.

, 10 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel continues his discussion on how to create safety in recovery and address denial.

, 10 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel begins a new series on safety in recovery for both betrayed and unfaithful spouses.

, 10 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel answers a viewer's question surrounding the future of those who are trying to heal from infidelity.

, 10 months 4 weeks ago

Samuel shares pivotal insight into recovery work and uncertainty.

, 11 months 18 hours ago

Samuel discusses the journey of the betrayed spouse in a unique outlook and approach.

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