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As past participants, we want our walks through infidelity to bring hope, inspiration, and courage to your own journey.
, 2 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel shares a humorous but poignant story about shame and self hatred.

, 2 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel discusses tools to help the unfaithful and betrayed spouse heal despite fear of uncertainty.

, 3 months 2 days ago

Samuel shares a common mistake he would often make with Samantha that kept them stuck.

, 3 months 1 week ago
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Self-Love.

Self-Worth.

Self-Compassion.

These are words that I have had to unlearn and relearn—words that I thought I knew, but now realize I misunderstood for most of my life. Now, they actually mean something to me.

Growing up, I would attend church with my mom and siblings. I had just enough of a smattering...

, 3 months 1 week ago

Samuel shares tips on battling depression after disclosure of infidelity or addiction.

, 3 months 1 week ago

Samuel interviews Rob about his life before, during, and after his wife's infidelity.

, 3 months 1 week ago
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Before what we in the infidelity community call "D-day," my life was full—full of gratitude, challenges, and mostly good. My life was nowhere near perfect—punctuated with the losses one experiences when we are lucky enough to live long enough. I had lived a largely intact existence...

, 3 months 2 weeks ago
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This is a question that almost all of us have asked or heard at some point during recovery from infidelity. It might have been screamed in anger, or muttered in a barely audible cry of exasperation. And it is a question we often hear over and over again, "How could you?" It is a good question, and it lies at the heart and sum of all...

, 3 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel interviews Melanie, an unfaithful female spouse, about her journey of unfaithfulness and restoration.

, 3 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel discusses doing hard things in repair work.

, 3 months 3 weeks ago
affair recovery-survivors blog-elizabeth-the biggest stumbling block to my own forgiveness has been pride

To forgive somebody is to say one way or another "You have done something unspeakable, and by all rights I should call it quits between us. Both my pride and my principles demand no less. However, although I make no...

, 3 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel shares thoughts on why we would rather run from our pain than heal from it.

, 3 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel shares pointed thoughts on rediscovering ourselves after infidelity.

, 4 months 2 days ago

Samuel discusses personal battles we all face in recovery.

, 4 months 1 week ago

Samuel shares a humorous but life changing principle of communication post infidelity.

, 4 months 1 week ago

Samuel tackles a touchy subject: helping the unfaithful spouse forgive.

, 4 months 1 week ago
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Today I am sharing with you something that someone sent to me after my dad died years ago. I have never forgotten it, and I share it with you today for encouragement wherever you are within the waves and wreckage of infidelity.

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, 4 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel shares a personal story of significant healing.

, 4 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel discusses the need for the unfaithful spouse to have a team around them.

, 4 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel discusses the journey of the unfaithful spouse and compassion.

, 4 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel shares truths he's learned on how he forgave himself and chose to find healing.

, 4 months 4 weeks ago

Samuel interviews Tullian Tchividjian about his personal journey before, during, and after infidelity.

, 5 months 17 hours ago

Samuel shares insight he and Samantha have used to heal both their hearts.

, 5 months 5 days ago

Samuel shares a tool he used and still uses in healing from his own infidelity.

, 5 months 1 week ago

Samuel shares essential and necessary principles of safety for the unfaithful.

, 5 months 1 week ago

Samuel shares do's and don'ts to potentially win back the betrayed spouse.

, 5 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel discusses the journey couples go through when trying to heal from infidelity or addiction.

, 5 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel discusses how every unfaithful spouse has a self destruct button and how to avoid it.

, 5 months 3 weeks ago
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I stink at being alone. I have never been alone; not even my time in my mother's womb was in solitude—I am a twin. I have always shared birthdays, rooms, busses, spotlights, cookies, bathrooms, etc.

When I first arrived at college, I remember sitting in my new dorm room by myself. My soon-to-be...

, 5 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel shares insight into why we find ourselves alone as unfaithful spouses.

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