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As past participants, we want our walks through infidelity to bring hope, inspiration, and courage to your own journey.
, 2 months 6 days ago

Samuel answers a viewers question on what you should do when you've lost respect for your unfaithful spouse.

, 2 months 1 week ago
you have what it takes to heal

Around age 10 or 11 they finally allowed us to steal bases in little league. This change transitioned the position of catcher from a simple filler spot that shagged stray pitches into an...

, 2 months 1 week ago

Samuel answers a viewers question on what you should do when you've lost respect for your unfaithful spouse.

, 2 months 1 week ago

Samuel discusses roadblocks couples face in recovery due to a lack of safety.

, 2 months 2 weeks ago
what does change look like - Elizabeth

Today I was reminded of a story by Portia Nelson I heard long ago:

Autobiography in Five Chapters

by Portia Nelson...

, 2 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel discusses roadblocks couples face in recovery due to a lack of safety.

, 2 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel interviews MJ Denis, a trauma specialist, about how couples can heal from infidelity.

, 2 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel interviews MJ Denis, a trauma specialist, about how couples can heal from infidelity.

, 2 months 4 weeks ago
There is Great Opportunity in What Lies Ahead

Our community is used to the threat of tropical weather. Usually, the early notices start with escalated threats that ultimately result in a windy rain storm passing over...

, 3 months 2 days ago

Samuel addresses the situation where a couple may not believe in their marriage again.

, 3 months 4 days ago

Samuel answers a viewers question and also explains why an unfaithful spouse may label their betrayed spouse controlling.

, 3 months 1 week ago
you are not alone. when shame has the last word - elizabeth - affair recovery survivors blog

Shame.

I hate the word. I hate the feeling. I am guessing for most of you...

, 3 months 1 week ago

Samuel discusses when and how to use an ultimatum in recovery work.

, 3 months 1 week ago

Samuel shares hope and tangible encouragement for those struggling to find hope.

, 3 months 2 weeks ago
the more i grow in my own journey of self-discovery, the more i begin to see my situation from a higher level. author - chase

A good friend of mine, and fellow betrayed husband (yes, we met at an EMS weekend), coined it best...

, 3 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel shares a significant pointer for the unfaithful spouse trying to win back trust.

, 3 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel shares insight into three recoveries that have to be addressed when healing from infidelity.

, 3 months 2 weeks ago

Today in counseling I was stunned by a concept I’ve heard most my life. Similar to the old quilt that covers our bed, I became so familiar with it I no longer saw the depth of beauty in it.

My counselor asked me how I felt I...

, 3 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel shares insight into the tactic of 'rewriting history' and how to recover from it.

, 3 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel discusses the common question in recovery; are we too far gone to be healed?

, 4 months 19 hours ago

Samuel discusses a trap many unfaithful spouses fall into in recovery.

, 4 months 2 days ago

Samuel shares a controversial but powerful approach to finding true healing.

, 4 months 1 week ago

Samuel shares insight into how to forgive the affair partner after the discovery of infidelity.

, 4 months 1 week ago

Samuel discusses how we can be traumatized by well meaning therapists and authority figures.

, 4 months 1 week ago

"Learn how to be okay
when things are not...

, 4 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel shares insight into a common mistake couples make in recovering from infidelity or addiction.

, 4 months 2 weeks ago

Samuel shares the proper motivation for recovery work after infidelity for both spouses.

, 4 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel discusses a necessary paradigm shift if couples are going to heal from infidelity.

, 4 months 3 weeks ago

Samuel shares his own experience in adjusting to life after disclosure and embracing new patterns in life.

, 4 months 4 weeks ago

Samuel speaks to the betrayed spouse on what anger is costing them in their recovery.

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