Affair Recovery

Samuel shares tips on battling depression after disclosure of infidelity or addiction.

Before what we in the infidelity community call "D-day," my life was full—full of gratitude, challenges, and mostly good. My life was nowhere near perfect—punctuated with the losses one experiences when we are lucky enough to live long enough. I had lived a largely intact existence blessed with friends, a beautiful place to call home, and good food on my table.

As a function of my positive, benefit-of-the-doubt...

Samuel interviews Melanie, an unfaithful female spouse, about her journey of unfaithfulness and restoration.

Samuel shares pointed thoughts on rediscovering ourselves after infidelity.

Samuel shares a humorous but life changing principle of communication post infidelity.

Today I am sharing with you something that someone sent to me after my dad died years ago. I have never forgotten it, and I share it with you today for encouragement wherever you are within the waves and wreckage of infidelity.

Samuel discusses the need for the unfaithful spouse to have a team around them.

Samuel shares truths he's learned on how he forgave himself and chose to find healing.

Samuel shares insight he and Samantha have used to heal both their hearts.

Samuel shares essential and necessary principles of safety for the unfaithful.

Samuel discusses the journey couples go through when trying to heal from infidelity or addiction.

I stink at being alone. I have never been alone; not even my time in my mother's womb was in solitude—I am a twin. I have always shared birthdays, rooms, busses, spotlights, cookies, bathrooms, etc.

When I first arrived at college, I remember sitting in my new dorm room by myself. My soon-to-be roommate would never show. Apparently she got cold feet and withdrew from the university. I remember for the first time in my life having a very primal...

Samuel shares six gifts we can give ourselves to help heal from infidelity.