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How Can I Feel Safe When This Happens? 4/25/2024 Q&A How Do You Stop Thinking About and Forgive The Affair Partner? 4/25/2024 Q&A How Do I Do Everything Right at Every Moment for My Wife? 4/25/2024 Q&A How Do We Know if Our Cheating Spouse Is a Sex Addict, Has a Personality Disorder, or if It Is Something Else? 4/25/2024 Understanding Codependency and Betrayal: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 4/24/2024 The Affair Causing Habit 4/17/2024 Lessons Learned After Infidelity 4/10/2024 Q&A How Do You Move Past Regret Into Acceptance? 4/03/2024 Q&A How Can I Be More Help to My Wayward Spouse Like He Has Been for Me? 4/03/2024 Overcoming the Barriers to Recommitment 4/03/2024 The Truth About Lying 3/27/2024 Regulating Our Stress Response During Recovery 3/13/2024 How to Survive Infidelity 3/06/2024 Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Feel Safe When She Is Triggered? 2/28/2024 Manifestation of Shame Part 1: The Unfaithful 2/21/2024 Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair 2/14/2024 Betrayal Trauma: How We Get Stuck in Trauma Bonds 2/07/2024 Q&A What Does Making Restitution Look Like in a Marriage after an Affair? 1/30/2024 What Does Doing the Work of Infidelity Recovery Mean for the Unfaithful - Infidelity Recovery 1/24/2024 Grieving Betrayal 1/17/2024 What is Healing? 1/10/2024 Q&A Is It Ok for My Husband to Meet With His Affair Partner? 1/09/2024 Q&A Can You Clarify What It Looks Like for Someone to Go into the Pre-contemplative and Contemplative Stage after a Relapse? 1/09/2024 Common Mistakes Made When Recovering from Infidelity 12/27/2023 Q&A What Traits Should We Look For in an Accountability Partner? 11/28/2023 Community for Healing from Infidelity – Affair Recovery 11/22/2023 Affair Recovery: The Number One Question and How to Answer It 11/15/2023 Forgiving Infidelity: The Gift of Forgiveness 11/07/2023 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 10/24/2023 Q&A Can You Address Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse? 10/23/2023 The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 10/18/2023 Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known 10/11/2023 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 10/04/2023 Q&A How Do I Get My Conflict-Avoidant Spouse to Do Anything? 9/29/2023 The Importance of Wisdom Following Infidelity 9/27/2023 Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders 9/20/2023 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 9/13/2023 A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey: Rewriting the Past After Disclosure 8/16/2023 Q&A What Would Be Best for His Healing and Our Reconciliation? 8/15/2023 Q&A Are the Boundaries My Mate Has Placed on Our Conversations a Red Flag in Recovery? 8/15/2023 My Spouse Had an Affair: What Should I Do Now? 8/09/2023 The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful 7/26/2023 How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity? 7/19/2023 Stuck? Three Methods to Get Moving in Infidelity Recovery 7/12/2023 Denial and Recovery After an Affair 7/05/2023 Recovering From Infidelity Pain: Are They Lying About ‘Why’? 6/28/2023 Hope for Healing Excerpt: 'Is My Life Out of Control?' 6/21/2023 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Acknowledge the Work My Husband Is Doing Without Giving Him Too Much Praise? 6/16/2023 Q&A I Understand the Importance of Not Being Defensive about the Infidelity or Betrayal, but Does That Extend into Every Aspect of Our Lives? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle My Betrayal When the Affair Partner Is So Close with My Husband’s Family? 6/16/2023 Pages123456789…next ›last »
