Why Marriages Fail These barriers to healing are the common elements that hinder successful recovery. Identify and overcome pitfalls such as denial, transmitting pain, withholding information, and more. Must Reads more less Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Recovery Timeline Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors We Started Well, but... The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How to Survive Infidelity 69 Resources Type Title Posted Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 12/07/2022 The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 6/08/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It 6/01/2022 Failing to Recommit 5/11/2022 Limerence: Infatuation and How It Works 4/27/2022 Affair Partners: Eight Reasons Not to Confront Them 2/23/2022 Betrayal Trauma: How We Get Stuck in Trauma Bonds 2/09/2022 Grieving Betrayal 1/19/2022 Dealing with Reminders 12/29/2021 After Infidelity: How Wise Are You? 7/21/2021 Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known 3/03/2021 When to Save a Marriage and Surviving Infidelity 2/17/2021 Surviving Infidelity Part 2: What Didn’t Work For Unfaithful Spouses 6/24/2020 Revenge: Responding to an Affair 4/15/2020 Q&A Has Sexual Imprinting Led to My Affair? 3/26/2020 Q&A Is Compatibility More Important Than Love for a Successful Marriage? 11/22/2019 Healing After Infidelity: What Doesn't Work. 8/21/2019 Rekindling Desire After An Affair 4/04/2019 Monotonous Monogamy and the Emotional Affair 6/27/2018 Q&A At What Point Is the Marriage So Broken, That There's No Hope of Recovery? 1/23/2018 Forgiving Infidelity: What Forgiveness Is NOT 1/18/2018 Q&A What is the Dynamic of the Relationship between Your Ex-Spouses and Their Affair Partners? 8/10/2017 Q&A What Do You Do When Your Spouse Is Withholding from You? 8/10/2017 Q&A When Can We Focus on the Affair Rather Than Problems in the Marriage? 8/10/2017 Q&A Are We Deluded about His Porn and Alcohol Use? 8/10/2017 Q&A Can We Recover from This? 8/02/2017 Q&A Is His Affair Too Big for Us to Overcome? 7/19/2017 Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017 Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017 Q&A Do We Revert Back to Our Old State Once the Threat Disappears? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is Asking Questions Abusive? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Support Him When He Struggles to Be Safe for Us? 7/12/2017 Q&A Will Marriage Therapy Work If the Unfaithful Spouse Doesn't Have to Discuss What Happened? 7/12/2017 Q&A Why Has New Information Been Such a Major Setback for Me? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If This Is Progress or Pretend Normal? 6/28/2017 Q&A Am I Crazy for Not Wanting My Husband to Be around His Affair Partner? 6/28/2017 Q&A Is It Necessary to Confess My One Night Stand to My Unfaithful Spouse? 5/10/2017 Q&A After Discovering My Affair My Mate Began a New Relationship. How Does This Work with EMS Online? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Can I Work towards Healing If I Don't Feel We Are at Ground Zero? 5/03/2017 Q&A Should We Discuss My Faults in the Marriage Now or Wait until He Takes Responsibility for His Infidelities? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is It Me or My Trauma That's Holding Us Back? 5/03/2017 Q&A He Blames His Addiction on My Lack of Connection and I Blame My Lack of Connection on His Addiction. 4/25/2017 Q&A Is There Hope for This to Get Better? 4/12/2017 Q&A How Can I Continue to Support Myself and Keep Our Tenuous Truce without Burning Out? 4/12/2017 Q&A How Common are Affairs? 4/12/2017 Q&A What does Working Through this in a healthy way look like for me and my children? 4/05/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can My Husband Overcome His Ambivalence? 3/29/2017 Q&A Why Should I Stay in a Marriage That Wasn't So Great to Begin With? 3/29/2017 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Our Counselors Process? 3/22/2017 Pages12next ›last »
