For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Power of Small Groups Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How to Survive Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Problem with Forgiveness Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 1299 Resources Type Title Posted Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 10/22/2025 Q&A How Can I Move Towards Vulnerability with Someone Capable of This? 10/02/2025 Q&A Have Men Been Able to Forgive and Have a Healthy Relationship After Extreme Infidelity? 10/02/2025 Q&A How Could He So Easily Forget the Pain He Caused? 10/02/2025 Q&A Is There Anything the Wayward Spouse Can Say or Do That Has Been Effective in Helping the Betrayed Spouse Feel Better? 10/02/2025 How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity? 9/24/2025 Q&A Why Should I Continue in This Relationship? 9/10/2025 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 9/03/2025 Q&A How Will I Ever Feel Safe with Someone Who Has No Control over Themselves? 8/28/2025 Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Need Time to Mourn the Loss of the Affair Partner? 8/28/2025 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 8/20/2025 Q&A How Do We Address and Heal from My Husband’s past Betrayal in Light of My Recent Infidelity? 8/06/2025 Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Spouse Love Me and Have an Affair Partner? 8/06/2025 Q&A Am I Asking Too Much in Regards to Relapse Prevention from My Husband? 8/06/2025 Q&A How Does He Not Have Deep Residual Feelings for the Affair Partner? 7/23/2025 Q&A How Do We Dismantle the Wall Hindering My Wayward Spouse from Expressing Sorrow, Remorse, and Empathy? 7/23/2025 Q&A I Want My Mate to Apologize. Is It Okay to Tell Him the Things He Has Done That Have Hurt Me? 7/21/2025 Q&A Are My Requests for Relapse Prevention Measures Unreasonable? 7/21/2025 Q&A How Do I Protect My Own Boundaries While Navigating This Complex Relationship? 7/09/2025 Q&A What Would Put Me Back Into Integrity as a Betrayed Spouse? 7/02/2025 Q&A Why Is My Husband Blaming Me for His Affair? 7/02/2025 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting My Husband to Completely Separate from Anyone Complicit in His Affair? 6/18/2025 Q&A How Can I Forgive the Affair Partner When She Is Still Impacting My Life So Negatively? 6/18/2025 Q&A How Do I Respond If I Feel the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Be with Me? 6/18/2025 Q&A How Can I Get Past This Feeling of Never Being Her Choice When She Had Freedom to Choose? 6/12/2025 Q&A How Do I Stop Hating the Affair Partner? 5/28/2025 The Brain’s Hidden Wound of Betrayal Trauma 5/28/2025 Who I Should (and Shouldn't) Tell About the Affair 5/21/2025 Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Such Hatred Towards His Affair Partner? 5/14/2025 Q&A How Can She Support the ED That Came from Her Betrayal, Instead of Waiting for It to Fix Itself? 5/06/2025 Q&A As the Betrayed, Is It Wise to Seek Closure with the Affair Partner? 4/23/2025 Deciding to Stay: Practical Ways to Rebuild Safety 4/23/2025 Q&A Why Do I Get Aroused Imagining the Sexual Acts My Wife Did with Her Affair Partner? 4/16/2025 Q&A Do You Suggest He Focus On Healing Himself First, Then Our Marriage? 4/09/2025 The Myth of Greener Grass in Marriage 4/09/2025 Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Really Shut the Door on the Affair Partner? 4/02/2025 Q&A What Do I Look for to Know the Affair Isn’t Still Happening? 4/02/2025 Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 4/02/2025 Q&A How Should I Respond When He Shares Lies with Me, Especially If I Perceive He Is Sugar-Coating the Truth? 4/01/2025 Q&A Can I Forgive My Husband for Abandonment? 4/01/2025 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Journaling as a Betrayed Spouse? 3/26/2025 Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 3/12/2025 Wanting to Be Wanted 3/05/2025 Am I Who They Want? 2/25/2025 Q&A Why Can’t My Husband See the Affair Partner Through a Negative Lens? 2/25/2025 Q&A Does It Matter Who Ended the Affair? 2/25/2025 Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 2/19/2025 Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Really Have No Triggers? 2/18/2025 Q&A Please Help Me Understand What My Reality Is as We Try to Recover from This. 2/11/2025 Q&A How Do I Tell the Wayward Spouse I Need More Discussion to Heal and Process? 2/11/2025 Pages123456789…next ›last »
