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Type	Title	Posted
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026
	Rebuilding What You Broke: Boundaries & Safety after Infidelity with Jim Ramos	8/24/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026
	Q&A Can You Help Me Make Sense of My Wife's Desire for Erotica?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Should I Do When I'm Triggered By My Own Home?	9/29/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026
	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
	Rebuilding What You Broke: Boundaries & Safety after Infidelity with Jim Ramos	8/24/2026
	Triggers After Infidelity: What To Do When They Hit	8/17/2026
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healthy Attachment, Rather Than Resentment & Apathy?	8/12/2026
	Q&A Do You Think An Ultimatum for the Unfaithful is Necessary?	8/12/2026
	Q&A How Do We Balance My Need to Verbally Process and Their Need to Take Breaks & Practice Normal?	8/12/2026
	Q&A Is My Spouse Safe to Stay With?	8/12/2026
	Q&A Should My Unfaithful Husband Get Individual Therapy in Leu of EMS Online?	8/12/2026
	Q&A Why Stay With Someone I'm No Longer Proud To Be With? Will That Feeling Ever Return?	8/12/2026
	Q&A What Behaviors Should I Realistically Expect From A Remorseful Spouse at This Stage?	8/12/2026
	Grieving Betrayal	8/05/2026
	White-Knuckling vs True Recovery: The Road Map to Healing Sexual Addiction	8/03/2026
	Q&A Is The EMS Online Course Safe for Me?	7/29/2026
	Q&A Is There Hope or Am I Fooling Myself?	7/29/2026
	Q&A What If I'm Never Able to Remember Enough of the Details from Long Ago?	7/29/2026
	Q&A Have You Worked With Couples Where the Betrayal Was Essentially An Imagined Affair?	7/29/2026
	Why is Trusting Again So Hard?	7/29/2026
	Understanding the Impact of Betrayal Trauma with Andrea Rogers	7/27/2026
	Anger: Its 6 Roots	7/22/2026
	Is My Spouse a Sex Addict? Signs, Hope and What to Do Next with Matt Wenger	7/20/2026
	The Biggest Myths About Unfaithful Wives	7/15/2026
	Part of Me Wants to Stay. Part of Me Wants to Leave. Why?	7/06/2026
	Q&A Is He a Compulsive Liar I Can Never Trust?	7/01/2026
	Why It Happened Again: An Unfaithful Man's Story of Real Recovery	6/29/2026
	Betrayal Trauma: How We Get Stuck in Trauma Bonds	6/24/2026
	Q&A Is It Common For Sex Addicts To Say They Cannot Be Intimate With Their Spouses?	6/22/2026
	Q&A Is It Helpful to Make Amends with The Affair Partner's Family?	6/22/2026
	Q&A Why Did They Allow the Abuse to Continue?	6/22/2026
	Q&A How Do I Continue to Own My Actions Without Accepting Unhealthy Actions From the Betrayed?	6/22/2026
	Q&A How Can One Tell Whether Their Spouse Loves Them or Just Wants Someone They Trust They Can Come To?	6/22/2026
	Q&A How Do We Find Closure When The Affair Partner Is A Close Friend?	6/22/2026
	Trauma or Emotional Abuse? Gaslighting, Narcissism, and Lack of Empathy with Dr. Hawkins	6/22/2026
	Help With Incessant Triggers and Reminders	6/17/2026
	What is Healing?	6/10/2026
	How to Heal the Anger That Won’t Let Go After Infidelity	6/08/2026
	Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair	5/27/2026