Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less We Started Well, but... How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? How do you respond to blackmail? Part II How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Recovery Timeline Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The 2 Stages of Pain Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? The Problem with Forgiveness Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Free Resources Type Title Posted Ending an Affair: Close the Door 8/15/2018 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 8/8/2018 Limerence: Infatuation and How It Works 8/1/2018 Is it Love or Infatuation? 7/25/2018 Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known 7/18/2018 The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 7/10/2018 Mickey and Stephanie's Mentor Video 7/6/2018 When to Save a Marriage and Surviving Infidelity 7/5/2018 Monotonous Monogamy and the Emotional Affair 6/27/2018 The Infidelity Divorce Syndrome: Divorce Recovery After Infidelity 6/21/2018 Looking for Safety: Harboring Hope 6/12/2018 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 6/6/2018 Healing from Infidelity: Going it alone 5/30/2018 Surviving Infidelity: When Hope Crumbles - Part 2 5/22/2018 Surviving Infidelity: When Hope Crumbles 5/16/2018 Discovery: Part 4 - Goals for the Betrayed 5/9/2018 Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 5/2/2018 Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 4/25/2018 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 4/19/2018 Forgiving Infidelity: The Gift of Forgiveness 4/11/2018 Emotional Affairs: Part 3 - Will It Ever End? 4/4/2018 Emotional Affairs: Part 2 - Is an Emotional Affair More Destructive Than a Physical Affair? 3/28/2018 Emotional Affairs: Part 1 - Which is Worse? Emotional Affair or Physical Affair 3/22/2018 The Fight to Forgive 3/14/2018 Hope for Healing Excerpt: "Is My Life Out of Control"? 3/6/2018 Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses 2/14/2018 What Didn’t Work For Unfaithful Spouses 2/7/2018 Practical Suggestions for Forgiveness 1/31/2018 Michael and Alicia: "I Want a Divorce" Is Not Always the End of the Story 1/24/2018 Forgiving Infidelity: What Forgiveness Is NOT 1/18/2018 Dealing with Reminders 1/10/2018 How Could You? Part VI - Dehumanization and Blame 1/3/2018 Surviving the Holidays: 6 Tips 12/20/2017 How Could You? Part V - The Secrecy Factor 12/13/2017 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 12/5/2017 How Could You? Part III - Moral Justification 11/29/2017 How Could You? Part II: The Thought Processes That Lead to Betrayal 11/15/2017 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 11/9/2017 Why She Cheats 11/1/2017 Understanding Grief in Infidelity 10/24/2017 Do You Struggle with Forgiveness? 10/17/2017 Handling Disappointment After Infidelity 10/12/2017 Denial and Recovery 10/4/2017 The Fantasyland of an Affair 9/27/2017 Relapse Prevention & How to Recover from an Affair 9/20/2017 What Really Happens at EMS Weekend? 9/14/2017 Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 9/6/2017 Meet Rodney and Angela: A Journey Through EMS Online 8/30/2017 1234> next
