Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? We Started Well, but... The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? The Problem with Forgiveness Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Recovery Timeline The 2 Stages of Pain How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? 259 Resources Type Title Posted Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 5/31/2023 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/24/2023 Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity 5/17/2023 What Is the Cost of Forgiving Infidelity? 5/10/2023 When to Save a Marriage After Infidelity 5/03/2023 Your Brain on Porn and Understanding the Sex Addict 4/26/2023 Why People Cheat: Were They Predisposed to Cheat (Part 2) 4/12/2023 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 4/05/2023 Discovery: Part 4 - Goals for the Betrayed 3/29/2023 Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 3/22/2023 Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 3/15/2023 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 3/08/2023 Healing from Infidelity: Going it alone 3/01/2023 How Could You? Part V - The Secrecy Factor 2/15/2023 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 2/08/2023 How Could You? Part VI - Dehumanization and Blame 2/02/2023 How Could You? Part III: Moral Justification 2/01/2023 How Could You? Part II: The Thought Processes That Lead to Betrayal 1/25/2023 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 1/18/2023 Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel? 1/11/2023 Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 1/04/2023 Surviving the Holidays: 6 Tips 12/22/2022 Ever Wonder Why Men Cheat and Why Women Cheat? 12/14/2022 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 12/07/2022 Pleasing Versus Loving 11/29/2022 Healing After the Affair: Whether or Not to Get Help 11/23/2022 How to survive an affair – How much should I share with my spouse? 11/15/2022 Handling Disappointment After Infidelity 11/08/2022 The Mystery of Change 11/02/2022 Is Change Really Possible? 10/26/2022 Am I Who They Want? 10/19/2022 Were They Thinking of Me? 10/12/2022 The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022 Anger: Its 6 Roots 9/28/2022 Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 9/21/2022 The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 9/14/2022 Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation 9/07/2022 Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 8/31/2022 The Fantasyland of an Affair 8/24/2022 Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 8/10/2022 Life After Divorce: How the Unfaithful Sees It 8/03/2022 Should I Get a Divorce? Am I Being Naive? 7/27/2022 Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 7/20/2022 What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 7/13/2022 Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 7/06/2022 Common Justifications for Why Women Cheat 6/29/2022 How Does My Spouse Escape the Neurochemical Process of Limerence? 6/22/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 6/08/2022 Pages123456next ›last »
