Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Problem with Forgiveness Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Power of Small Groups Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 277 Resources Type Title Posted Affair Partners: Eight Reasons Not to Confront Them 7/24/2024 Why This Hurts So Much... 7/17/2024 What Works in Healing Infidelity? 7/10/2024 Romanticism: Don't Believe the Lie 7/03/2024 Is Forgiveness Really Possible? 6/26/2024 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 6/19/2024 Really Hard Times Will Not Last 6/12/2024 2 Things You Must Understand About the Disclosure Process 6/05/2024 Help With Incessant Triggers and Reminders 5/29/2024 Betrayal Trauma: Tips for Talking with Your Spouse 5/22/2024 A Toxic Mix: Gaslighting and Infidelity 5/15/2024 Signs There Could Be Abusive Behaviors in Your Relationship 5/08/2024 Creating Healing Spaces 5/01/2024 Understanding Codependency and Betrayal: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 4/24/2024 The Affair Causing Habit 4/17/2024 Lessons Learned After Infidelity 4/10/2024 Overcoming the Barriers to Recommitment 4/03/2024 The Truth About Lying 3/27/2024 Psychological Abuse Within Infidelity 3/20/2024 Regulating Our Stress Response During Recovery 3/13/2024 How to Survive Infidelity 3/06/2024 Dealing with Reminders 2/28/2024 Manifestation of Shame Part 1: The Unfaithful 2/21/2024 Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair 2/14/2024 Betrayal Trauma: How We Get Stuck in Trauma Bonds 2/07/2024 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 1/31/2024 What Does Doing the Work of Infidelity Recovery Mean for the Unfaithful - Infidelity Recovery 1/24/2024 Grieving Betrayal 1/17/2024 What is Healing? 1/10/2024 Common Mistakes Made When Recovering from Infidelity 12/27/2023 Surviving the Holidays: 6 Tips 12/20/2023 Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 12/12/2023 Who is the Other Woman? 12/06/2023 Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy 11/28/2023 Community for Healing from Infidelity – Affair Recovery 11/22/2023 Affair Recovery: The Number One Question and How to Answer It 11/15/2023 Forgiving Infidelity: The Gift of Forgiveness 11/07/2023 Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 11/01/2023 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 10/24/2023 The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 10/18/2023 Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known 10/11/2023 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 10/04/2023 The Importance of Wisdom Following Infidelity 9/27/2023 Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders 9/20/2023 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 9/13/2023 How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity? 9/06/2023 The Fight to Forgive 8/30/2023 Relapse: Why Can't You Stop? 8/23/2023 A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey: Rewriting the Past After Disclosure 8/16/2023 My Spouse Had an Affair: What Should I Do Now? 8/09/2023 Pages123456next ›last »