Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity We Started Well, but... Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? How do you respond to blackmail? Part II 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Recovery Timeline How to Survive Infidelity Free Resources Type Title Posted Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 4/24/2019 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 4/17/2019 The Power of Small Groups 4/10/2019 Rekindling Desire After An Affair 4/4/2019 Grieving Betrayal 3/27/2019 How to Prevent Relapse: Healing After an Affair 3/20/2019 Understanding Codependency and Betrayal: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 3/13/2019 The Problem with Forgiveness 3/6/2019 How Does the Betrayed Spouse Grieve Properly? 2/27/2019 Why People Cheat? Part 3: Justifications of the Unfaithful 2/20/2019 Why Do People Cheat? Part 2: Were They Predisposed to Cheat? 2/13/2019 Why Do People Cheat? Part 1: The Fog of Self Deception 2/6/2019 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 1/30/2019 Forgiveness: How Does 70 Times 7 Work? 1/23/2019 A Betrayed Spouse Chimes In - How I Recovered After My Husband's Infidelity 1/16/2019 Healing After the Affair: Whether to get help? 1/9/2019 Six Types of Affairs 1/3/2019 Surviving the Holidays: 6 Tips 12/19/2018 Why Did They Cheat? Part 4: The Problem With Addictions 12/12/2018 Why Did They Cheat? Part 3: Do They Have an Addiction? 12/5/2018 Why Did They Cheat? Part 2: Entrapped or Enchanted 11/28/2018 Why Did They Cheat? Part 1:The Role of Oxytocin 11/14/2018 Romanticism: Don't Believe the Lie 11/7/2018 Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful 10/31/2018 Pleasing Versus Loving 10/24/2018 How to survive an affair – How much should I share with my spouse? 10/17/2018 Wanting to Be Wanted 10/10/2018 How do you deal with anger after infidelity? 10/3/2018 How Wise Are You? 9/26/2018 What Is A Forgiveness Letter? 9/19/2018 Ending an Affair: Letting Go and Moving On 9/12/2018 Ending An Affair: Throw Away the Key 9/5/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 8/23/2018 Ending an Affair: Close the Door 8/15/2018 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 8/8/2018 Limerence: Infatuation and How It Works 8/1/2018 Is it Love or Infatuation? 7/25/2018 Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known 7/18/2018 The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 7/10/2018 Mickey and Stephanie's Mentor Video 7/6/2018 When to Save a Marriage and Surviving Infidelity 7/5/2018 Monotonous Monogamy and the Emotional Affair 6/27/2018 The Infidelity Divorce Syndrome: Divorce Recovery After Infidelity 6/21/2018 Looking for Safety: Harboring Hope 6/12/2018 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 6/6/2018 Healing from Infidelity: Going it alone 5/30/2018 Surviving Infidelity: When Hope Crumbles - Part 2 5/22/2018 Surviving Infidelity: When Hope Crumbles 5/16/2018 Discovery: Part 4 - Goals for the Betrayed 5/9/2018 12345> next
