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Why You Lose Control After Infidelity 1/08/2025 Parenting Through Infidelity: A Father/Daughter Perspective 12/26/2024 Q&A Is My Spouse Trying to Punish Me for What I’ve Done? 11/12/2024 Q&A How Do I Handle My Issue With Disassociation? 11/05/2024 How Do We Silence Shame? 10/30/2024 Are They Thinking About the Other Person? 10/09/2024 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate 9/25/2024 Q&A How Can I Get These Images Out of My Mind and Get back to Just Being With My Husband? 9/18/2024 Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Get back the Dignity and Self-Worth I Took From Her With My Betrayal? 9/18/2024 Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship? 7/31/2024 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery? 7/26/2024 Q&A As the Betrayed, Should I Focus on Avoiding the Affair Partner? 7/10/2024 Q&A What Should We Look for in a Therapist to Ensure They Can Provide the Specialized Support Needed for Infidelity Recovery? 7/10/2024 Q&A How Do I Stop the Comparisons, Build Confidence, and Get Better at Sex Without Feeling Like I’m Trying to Be Like the Affair Partner? 6/19/2024 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Build Trust Around My Husband’s Actions and My Triggers? 6/13/2024 Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done? 6/13/2024 Help With Incessant Triggers and Reminders 5/29/2024 Betrayal Trauma: Tips for Talking with Your Spouse 5/22/2024 A Toxic Mix: Gaslighting and Infidelity 5/15/2024 Signs There Could Be Abusive Behaviors in Your Relationship 5/08/2024 Q&A How Do I Address Her Readiness to Engage With Someone So Despicable Versus Her Resistance to Reconnect Intimately With Me? 5/07/2024 Creating Healing Spaces 5/01/2024 Q&A How Do I Cope With the Resurgence of Past Traumas Triggered by Such Betrayal? 4/25/2024 Q&A How Do You Stop Thinking About and Forgive The Affair Partner? 4/25/2024 Q&A Where Can I Find Help for My Mate’s Cognitive Issues Surrounding the Lessons and My Grief? 4/25/2024 Q&A How Can We Overcome Arousal Issues Resulting From Disclosure? 4/03/2024 Pages123456789next ›last »
