Trauma of Infidelity Infidelity is a unique type of pain and carries with it unique emotional consequences. Find solutions and suggestions for healing from the devastating effects of betrayal here. Must Reads more less Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Recovery Timeline The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 We Started Well, but... Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Problem with Forgiveness Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 377 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Continue Supporting Her While Taking Care of My Heart and Mental Health? 4/20/2022 Q&A How Do I Let Myself Be Happy Again? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Do I Get past the Uncontrollable Fear of This Happening Again or That It Is Still Happening? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Much Harder Will Our Recovery Be in This Situation? 3/25/2022 Q&A How Do I Emotionally Connect with Someone Who Treats Me This Way? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Long Should I Accept and Validate His Exaggerated Reactions as a Result of My Previously Reckless Behaviors? 2/17/2022 Betrayal Trauma: How We Get Stuck in Trauma Bonds 2/09/2022 Q&A Is It Wrong to Feel a Sense of a Sexual Revolution, after His Affair? 2/02/2022 Q&A Will the Betrayed’s Irritability Ever Go Away? 1/18/2022 Q&A What Do I Do When the Betrayed Spouse Shuts Me Out and Doesn’t Want to Talk about His Pain, Unless Forced? 1/18/2022 Dealing with Reminders 12/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Wife with Her Depression That Has Escalated Dramatically since Discovery? 11/04/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With These Graphics Thoughts? 10/07/2021 Q&A When Does Trauma Turn Into PTSD and Grief Turn Into Depression? 10/07/2021 The #1 Challenge to Recovery 9/29/2021 Healing After An Affair: Emotional Flooding & Reminders 9/22/2021 Q&A What Are These Somatic Sensations in My Extremities? 7/08/2021 Q&A When My Mate Floods, Why Do I Get Distressed In Turn? 7/08/2021 Q&A How Does the Addition of Domestic Violence Influence Affair Recovery? 4/29/2021 Q&A Can You Explain Why the Recovery Rate Is Lower For Infidelity Early in Marriage? 4/22/2021 Q&A How Do I Navigate Such Extreme Triggers from Discovery? 4/22/2021 Q&A What Can I or Should I Do With the Thoughts in My Head? 4/13/2021 Q&A What Else Can I Do, Other Than Be Honest and Give Her Space? 4/13/2021 Q&A What Do You Do If You Have a Trigger and It Makes You Think of a New Detail? 3/25/2021 A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering 3/24/2021 Q&A How do I Let Go of This Painful Reminder? 3/22/2021 Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Productively Handle Contempt and Disgust? 3/11/2021 Q&A Why Does My Wife Not See the Effort and Work It Takes for Me, as the Betrayed, to Stay in the Marriage? 3/11/2021 Q&A What Am I Supposed to Do as the Hurt Spouse Trying to Heal from My Husband’s Hurtful Behavior While Now Navigating My Past? 3/11/2021 Q&A Can You Help You Explain the Difference between Infidelity Trauma or PTSD and Clinical Depression? 3/09/2021 Q&A What Might Be a Better Way to Deal with My Pain? 3/04/2021 Q&A Why Am I So Afraid to Be Happy? 3/04/2021 Q&A Will I Ever Love and Desire My Husband Again? 3/04/2021 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When He’s Still Holding on to Resentment Towards Me and I’m the Betrayed? 2/23/2021 Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions? 1/28/2021 Q&A How Do I Get to the Point That I Feel Good about the Way That I Look? 1/20/2021 Q&A As a Betrayed Spouse, How Do I Work through My Humiliation? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Can I Get These Constant Reminders Out of My Head? 1/14/2021 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 1/13/2021 Q&A Must I Be Completely Finished with the Grieving Task before I Can Move to Forgiveness? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Address My Overwhelming Fear? 11/12/2020 Q&A What Should I Do as the Wayward Spouse When My Spouse Has a Breakdown? 11/12/2020 Q&A Is a Trauma Bond Repairable? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Can I Take Control of My Life So That I Can Forgive and Heal? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is Confusion and Messy Emotions Normal? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Do I Do as the Wayward Spouse When the Truth and Love Exercise Goes Wrong? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Can We Deal with Resentments and Move Forward? 10/05/2020 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Damage of the Internet? 9/22/2020 Q&A My Wife Is Considering a Revenge Affair. What Should I Do? 9/03/2020 Q&A Why Do We Sometimes Ask the Same Questions Repeatedly? 8/13/2020 Pages12345678next ›last »
