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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 399 Resources Type Title Posted Regulating Our Stress Response During Recovery 3/13/2024 Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Feel Safe When She Is Triggered? 2/28/2024 Dealing with Reminders 2/28/2024 Manifestation of Shame Part 1: The Unfaithful 2/21/2024 Betrayal Trauma: How We Get Stuck in Trauma Bonds 2/07/2024 Q&A How Do I Get over the Fact He Wanted to Walk Out on Us? 1/30/2024 What Does Doing the Work of Infidelity Recovery Mean for the Unfaithful - Infidelity Recovery 1/24/2024 Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning? 11/28/2023 Community for Healing from Infidelity – Affair Recovery 11/22/2023 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Understand the Devastation I’m Experiencing Because of Them Giving Me An STD? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Do I Commit to This Marriage When I Promised Myself I’d Never Stay with Someone Who Cheated On Me? 10/23/2023 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 10/04/2023 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Profound Pain Caused by My Unfaithful Spouse Treating Me with Disdain for So Long? 9/29/2023 Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders 9/20/2023 Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There? 6/29/2023 Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work? 6/16/2023 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 5/31/2023 Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate? 5/19/2023 Q&A Is My Mate’s Inability to Experience Emotions Due to Deep Trauma or Something More Problematic? 5/02/2023 Q&A Is My Lack of Emotion Normal or Am I Experiencing Something Much Worse? 3/17/2023 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Acknowledge That Being in an Affair for So Long Has Affected the Way They See Themselves, Me, and Our Relationship Sexually? 2/17/2023 Q&A Can You Help Us to Understand in What Ways a Long-Term Affair with a Toxic Affair Partner Effect the Recovery Process? 12/06/2022 Q&A Am I Struggling Because I Still Feel Unsafe in Recovery? 10/13/2022 Q&A How Do We Heal from Sexual Abuse in Our Marriage? 8/26/2022 Q&A When Will the Constant Feeling That Another Betrayal Is Right around the Corner Fade? 5/24/2022 Q&A How Do I Continue Supporting Her While Taking Care of My Heart and Mental Health? 4/20/2022 Q&A How Do I Let Myself Be Happy Again? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Do I Get past the Uncontrollable Fear of This Happening Again or That It Is Still Happening? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Much Harder Will Our Recovery Be in This Situation? 3/25/2022 Q&A How Do I Emotionally Connect with Someone Who Treats Me This Way? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Long Should I Accept and Validate His Exaggerated Reactions as a Result of My Previously Reckless Behaviors? 2/17/2022 Q&A Is It Wrong to Feel a Sense of a Sexual Revolution, after His Affair? 2/02/2022 Q&A Will the Betrayed’s Irritability Ever Go Away? 1/18/2022 Q&A What Do I Do When the Betrayed Spouse Shuts Me Out and Doesn’t Want to Talk about His Pain, Unless Forced? 1/18/2022 Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Wife with Her Depression That Has Escalated Dramatically since Discovery? 11/04/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With These Graphics Thoughts? 10/07/2021 Q&A When Does Trauma Turn Into PTSD and Grief Turn Into Depression? 10/07/2021 Q&A What Are These Somatic Sensations in My Extremities? 7/08/2021 Q&A When My Mate Floods, Why Do I Get Distressed In Turn? 7/08/2021 Q&A How Do I Get Over the Fact That My Wife Gave Her Affair Partner More Intense and Passionate Sex Than She Has Ever Given Me? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Get past the Feeling That Our Marriage Is a Lie? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Does the Addition of Domestic Violence Influence Affair Recovery? 4/29/2021 Q&A Can You Explain Why the Recovery Rate Is Lower For Infidelity Early in Marriage? 4/22/2021 Q&A How Do I Navigate Such Extreme Triggers from Discovery? 4/22/2021 Q&A What Can I or Should I Do With the Thoughts in My Head? 4/13/2021 Q&A What Else Can I Do, Other Than Be Honest and Give Her Space? 4/13/2021 Q&A What Do You Do If You Have a Trigger and It Makes You Think of a New Detail? 3/25/2021 A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering 3/24/2021 Q&A How do I Let Go of This Painful Reminder? 3/22/2021 Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Productively Handle Contempt and Disgust? 3/11/2021 Pages12345678next ›last »