Trauma of Infidelity
Infidelity is a unique type of pain and carries with it unique emotional consequences. Find solutions and suggestions for healing from the devastating effects of betrayal here.
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445 Resources
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Video Q&A How Do I Heal from the Race of the Affair Partner Being a Trigger? 5/28/2025
Video The Brain’s Hidden Wound of Betrayal Trauma 5/28/2025
Video Who I Should (and Shouldn't) Tell About the Affair 5/21/2025
Video Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Such Hatred Towards His Affair Partner? 5/14/2025
Video Q&A How Can She Support the ED That Came from Her Betrayal, Instead of Waiting for It to Fix Itself? 5/06/2025
Video Do’s & Don’ts of Emotional Flooding 4/30/2025
Video Deciding to Stay: Practical Ways to Rebuild Safety 4/23/2025
Video Q&A Why Do I Get Aroused Imagining the Sexual Acts My Wife Did with Her Affair Partner? 4/16/2025
Video Q&A Can I Forgive My Husband for Abandonment? 4/01/2025
Video Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Journaling as a Betrayed Spouse? 3/26/2025
Video Q&A Can You Give Me Insight on What Therapy Modalities Would Be Best for Me? 3/11/2025
Text Wanting to Be Wanted 3/05/2025
Video Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Really Have No Triggers? 2/18/2025
Video Q&A Will the Sadness and Intrusive Thoughts Ever Stop? 2/11/2025
Video Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery? 1/22/2025
Video Q&A What Do You Do If the Wayward Spouse Shows No Remorse, Empathy, or Compassion? 1/14/2025
Video Emotions Running Wild? Why You Lose Control After Infidelity 1/08/2025
Video Parenting Through Infidelity: A Father/Daughter Perspective 12/26/2024
Video Q&A Is My Spouse Trying to Punish Me for What I’ve Done? 11/12/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Issue With Disassociation? 11/05/2024
Video How Do We Silence Shame? 10/30/2024
Video Are They Thinking About the Other Person? 10/09/2024
Video How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate 9/25/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Get These Images Out of My Mind and Get back to Just Being With My Husband? 9/18/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Get back the Dignity and Self-Worth I Took From Her With My Betrayal? 9/18/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship? 7/31/2024
Video Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery? 7/26/2024
Video Q&A As the Betrayed, Should I Focus on Avoiding the Affair Partner? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A What Should We Look for in a Therapist to Ensure They Can Provide the Specialized Support Needed for Infidelity Recovery? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Stop the Comparisons, Build Confidence, and Get Better at Sex Without Feeling Like I’m Trying to Be Like the Affair Partner? 6/19/2024
Video Q&A What Is the Best Way to Build Trust Around My Husband’s Actions and My Triggers? 6/13/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done? 6/13/2024
Video Help With Incessant Triggers and Reminders 5/29/2024
Video Betrayal Trauma: Tips for Talking with Your Spouse 5/22/2024
Video A Toxic Mix: Gaslighting and Infidelity 5/15/2024
Video Signs There Could Be Abusive Behaviors in Your Relationship 5/08/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Address Her Readiness to Engage With Someone So Despicable Versus Her Resistance to Reconnect Intimately With Me? 5/07/2024
Video Creating Healing Spaces 5/01/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Cope With the Resurgence of Past Traumas Triggered by Such Betrayal? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A How Do You Stop Thinking About and Forgive The Affair Partner? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A Where Can I Find Help for My Mate’s Cognitive Issues Surrounding the Lessons and My Grief? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A How Can We Overcome Arousal Issues Resulting From Disclosure? 4/03/2024
Video The Truth About Lying 3/27/2024
Video Psychological Abuse Within Infidelity 3/20/2024
Video Q&A How Does Betrayal Affect Pregnancy and the Well-Being of the Unborn Child? 3/19/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Get the Affair Partners Out of My Head? 3/19/2024
Video Regulating Our Stress Response During Recovery 3/13/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Feel Safe When She Is Triggered? 2/28/2024
Text Dealing with Reminders 2/28/2024
Video Manifestation of Shame Part 1: The Unfaithful 2/21/2024

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